This is the third and final installment of Emily’s cloth diapering series.
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Part 1: Cloth Diapering
Part 2: Washing Cloth Diapers
Warning: poop talk ahead. You know you love it.
So first off, yes, we are still loving cloth. Our favorite diapers are the bumGenius 4.0 with snaps and although Finn will rock the occasional Charlie Banana
, we always reach for the BGs first. I’m no longer putting the covers in the dryer though. I think it was really starting to wear them out, and they come out of the washing machine not feeling very wet to begin with anyways. I get asked a lot why we didn’t go with the all-in-one diapers as opposed to the pocket diapers, and the ability to separate out the covers and line dry them is a big plus in my book. If it’s sunny they go outside, and if it’s not they hang up indoors on this awesome little Ikea hanger. The inserts and the wipes still go in the dryer.
I’ve perfected my cloth wipe spray solution since I last posted. It’s one splash California Baby Diaper Area Wash, two splashes Witch Hazel, and the rest purified water (the kind you can buy at the drugstore). I love the smell of the California Baby stuff, but it’s too expensive to use by itself. The Witch Hazel keeps it from going bad (I make one spray bottle worth at a time, which lasts us probably a week and a half). I keep everything in Finn’s closet along with a cup and a funnel so it’s easy to make a new batch whenever I need it.
I will not lie to you all and tell you that we haven’t had any problems at all with cloth. A few months back we started having some STINKY diapers. They would smell perfectly clean when I put them on Finn, but as soon as he peed they would reek of ammonia. A little bit of googling told me that I was not alone with the microfiber stink problem. Our solution has been a simple one though. I now put a quarter cup of bleach in with the detergent every other time I wash them. The BumGenius website actually recommends this (although they suggest once per month).
The second problem we’ve encountered is overnight leaks. I’ve dabbled in extra inserts (another reason to love pocket diapers), a wool cover, and even disposables, but nothing seems to be foolproof. I now add a Thirsties Hemp Insert to Finn’s overnight diaper, and that seems to be the best solution for us so far. The hemp insert goes underneath the microfiber insert. It makes for a big booty double-stuffed diaper, and it helps all of us sleep better at night… most nights.
Okay, okay, the reason you’re all reading this post is because you want to hear about the poop. Turns out that when you feed a baby actual solid food, things change in the poop department. I was dreading this. Up until this point, all dirty diapers went straight in the wash without so much as a rinse. Breastfed babies’ poop dissolves in water, and we never had a problem. But solid food changes things. I had heard good things about diaper sprayers, so I started doing a little research and came across a product called The Potty Pail. I couldn’t believe that in all my cloth diaper research I hadn’t come across it sooner, because it’s pretty flipping genius. Now a sprayer isn’t necessary for every single poopy diaper… sometimes all that’s required is turning the diaper upside-down over the toilet. I’m hoping you can imagine what I mean without more poopy detail here.
Here’s the deal: to use a typical diaper sprayer, you hold the dirty diaper over the toilet and use a (fairly high pressured) sprayer to clean off the poop. I had a hard time picturing how that was going to work without a) having to touch toilet water, b) having to drip dirty water across the floor back to the diaper pail, and c) being splashed with poop. Now as a mom I don’t mind dealing with poop, but being splashed with poopy toilet water is really where I draw the line.
Here is where The Potty Pail comes in as an accessory to the diaper sprayer. It was designed by a husband and wife who were cloth diapering their babies and frustrated with the “swish the diaper in the toilet” method. It’s basically a bucket attached to a little platform that allows it to sit on your toilet. It’s angled to drain into a hole in the bucket, has hooks to hang wet diapers, and a rest for the sprayer itself. So now, all the water from the sprayer and all the poop stay contained inside this magical bucket which drains right into your toilet. No splashing and no touching the toilet: the gross-factor drops WAY down.
Hubs describes the diaper sprayer installation process as “ridiculously easy”. I didn’t pay much attention, but he had it finished in about five minutes.
He says all you need is a wrench.
The system comes with a little hook for the sprayer which we attached to the side of our toilet tank.
The sprayer itself has a little valve that you can use to adjust the pressure, but I pretty much like to have it turned up all the way all the time for maximum poop-removal strength. This is where there would definitely be a problem if I was spraying directly into the toilet. I’m picturing one of those infomercials for the self-straining pasta lid where someone is fumbling around with a hot pot of spaghetti and spilling it on themselves, only in this scenario it’s me getting splashed with baby poop and it’s not awesome. Thank you Potty Pail for shielding me from the gross. I owe you one.
The pail has two hooks where you can leave a dripping diaper to dry, and there is a lid for the pail which I use as a tray to carry the diaper back to the diaper pail (the less touching of the diaper I have to do the better). It even comes with a tray that you can set the whole pail in so that you don’t drip onto your bathroom floor. There is also a chain and stopper that you can use to plug the bottom of the pail if you want to soak your diapers. I have a couple of clothespins attached to the side of it too for wipes and inserts that need to be sprayed… and the occasional poop covered article of baby clothing.
Negatives? Well it’s one more thing to buy. You could probably make something like it yourself, but I don’t think it’s that expensive that it would be worth your time to try. Also, it does take up a bit of space your bathroom. Ours lives next to the toilet in its drip tray, but you could keep it inside your tub or shower if you didn’t have enough floor space. (And it stays plenty clean with just a quick spray down so I wouldn’t be grossed out about that.)
So overall, the game has changed a little, but it is SO not a big deal. Even hubs and our babysitter have used the sprayer and both thought it was totally fine. I really can’t imagine continuing to cloth diaper now without at least a sprayer. So I’m sorry if I sound like the infomercial I just made fun of, but it is SO USEFUL. Solid poop is way less scary than I had worried it would be. And bonus, the poop is gone down the toilet where it belongs, not hanging out in my baby’s room. Cloth or disposable, I think we can all agree that’s a nice thing.
And this concludes your poop talk for the day. Carry on. :)
Hellobee Series: Cloth Diapers part 3 of 14
1. Cloth Diapering by parenting2. Washing Cloth Diapers by parenting
3. Cloth Diaper Update and Potty Pail Review by parenting
4. How to choose a cloth diapering system by Mrs. Superhero
5. Real Registry: Diana's Cloth Diaper Registry by Real Registries
6. On Cloth Diapering a Newborn by Mrs. Superhero
7. Cloth Diapering Update by Mrs. Hopscotch
8. Easy Cloth Diapering by Mrs. Superhero
9. Who, What, Why, and How: Cloth Diapering by mrs. tictactoe
10. On Cloth Diapering at 4 Months by Mrs. Stroller
11. Building a Cloth Diaper Stockpile by Mrs. Hopscotch
12. Confessions of an (Ex) Cloth-Diapering Mom by Mrs. High Heels
13. Cloth Diapering Diaries by Mrs. Sketchbook
14. They really are genius! by Mrs. Tea
Guest Series: Cloth Diapering part 3 of 3
1. Cloth Diapering by parenting2. Washing Cloth Diapers by parenting
3. Cloth Diaper Update and Potty Pail Review by parenting
pear / 1641 posts
I would have never thought of this either! I would be the one getting splashed with poo water too, and probably cover my whole bathroom with it, just because that’s the way I am!
apricot / 261 posts
I actually installed our sprayer, which is a kitchen sprayer hack, while nursing, so it’s super easy.
nectarine / 2286 posts
That Ikea drying thing looks great, I’ve been wanting to get something like that since it’s been winter. Good find.
The way we deal with ammonia smell is to add a bit of vinegar to the first cold wash (I also add a tad bit of soap to help break up the water surface tension to make sure the vinegar makes it’s rounds). Since ammonia is a base and vinegar is an acid they neutralize each other. I don’t measure but since vinegar is added during the first wash there’s plenty of time for it to rinse out if there is excess. That’s pretty much solved all of our ammonia problems. I only add vinegar every couple washes just to make sure we stay on top of the stink problem.
hostess / papaya / 10086 posts
This series has been so helpful. Thank you!
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Out of curiosity– did you ever try using vinegar instead of bleach when washing the diapers? I’m hoping to avoid bleach… thanks!
cherry / 127 posts
I used to be worried about poopy backwash spray, too, but it really isn’t that difficult to aim it and get everything in the toilet. I have a regular old bucket by me to deposit the sprayed diapers in, so no poopy drips in my bathroom, either.
For the nighttime leaks – it may be due to the fact that you’re using pockets. Pockets are pretty trim, but by the time you get enough night time absorbency there may be gaps around the legs. For night time, I would also combine inserts – you could do a thin microfiber doubler to get the fast moisture-absorbing capabilities on top of a tri-folded cotton prefold or a hemp insert. Hemp absorbs the most per volume of fabric but absorbs the slowest. And then put a wool soaker over that.
@Jill – my washer specifically says to not use bleach, so my wash routine was to rinse all diapers in the toilet (even the pee ones so that they were wet), and then on laundry day, do a hot wash with a regular amount of detergent, and add about a 1/2 cup of vinegar to the rinse cycle to neutralize any residual detergent. Then I’d do extra rinses to get all the vinegar out. I only did the vinegar thing once a month, the key part of my routine was making sure the diapers were fully wet before going into the washing machine so that they would actually get clean during the wash cycle instead of absorbing dirty water, and using a full amount of detergent. After I did this, I had no problems with stink, even with a HE washer.
cherry / 223 posts
The potty pail definitely looks helpful and the IKEA hanger is a great find!
kiwi / 633 posts
Thanks for all your advice! I’ll be looking back over these posts ins few months to remember what you said.
apricot / 413 posts
@Jill: I haven’t tried vinegar just because the bleach works well and I’ve heard mixed reviews about vinegar with diapers- but a lot of people swear by it so it’s probably worth a shot!
@mrsnarbonne: Thanks for your thoughts! The microfiber + hemp is our nighttime system and it’s the best one we’ve tried but not perfect.
kiwi / 721 posts
I love that little hanger! between that & the tall dresser that was posted for olive’s nursery the other day, I’m thinking I’m going to be needing to take a trip there soon.
thank you for this series of posts! we aren’t using our diapers quite yet, but you can be that I’m storing this information away for when we start needing to.
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Thanks for the answers to my questions! :)
hostess / wonderful pumpkin / 16587 posts
i need to use bleach with my inserts tonight! :-)