I had thought a little bit about cloth diapers before getting pregnant and then early on in my pregnancy, but I never really understood how they worked and whether or not they would be a good fit for us. Once I started looking into things, I was ridiculously overwhelmed by the options – diaper covers, all-in-ones, disposable inserts, pockets, oh my! It’s almost too much for a pregnant woman’s brain to digest.
When this post on cloth diapering was published on Hellobee a few months back, I started to breathe a little bit easier. Emily explained things really well, and while I know she primarily focused on the pocket diapers and not on the other varieties, the more I read the more I thought this would be a good fit for us. After having looked into other types of cloth diapers between then and now, I still feel confident that pockets are the direction I want to go.
I settled on the BumGenius 4.0 one-size pocket diaper, which overall seems to be well-liked on a variety of sites I’ve looked at. I also wanted to stick with the diapers with snaps instead of Velcro. I’ve read that the snaps can be a bit harder when you’re dealing with a squirmy baby, but I know that the Velcro wears out after awhile and I wanted minimize the amount of maintenance I’d have to do on the diapers.
Once I decided what I wanted, I put a bunch of diapers into my registry. And then I decided I didn’t think I’d get enough diapers as gifts to give me enough of a stockpile. My guess is that people want to buy cutesy baby stuff over diapers. So…I turned my attention to eBay.
Within a period of 2 weeks I had purchased a stockpile of 37 gently-used diapers. The top dresser drawer in the nursery is filled to the brim with diapers and the newborn inserts.
The bottom drawer is filled with even more diapers (cloth diapers take up a lot of space!) and the larger inserts that are used for older babies. Our pup Charlie has loved checking out all of the diapers.
Now… let’s get down to the cost of these diapers! If I had purchased them new (at full price with no sales or deals), it would be about $664.15 for 37 diapers (not including shipping costs, as many sites ship for free), or $17.95 per diaper. That’s quite an investment! Purchasing all of these diapers gently used was a cost of $434.50 (including shipping costs) from three different eBay sellers. That equals $11.74 per diaper and an overall savings of $229.65!
The downside, I guess, of purchasing used cloth diapers is that you don’t know exactly what condition they’ll be in when they arrive. You have to trust that the seller is being truthful when they describe them as “gently used” and “no stains.” But, the upside is making far less of a financial investment and knowing that if these don’t work out for us, I can at least break-even on my investment by reselling them. If I paid full price for all of these, there’s no way I’d get all of that money back!
I’m excited to see how these work out with Baby H and hopefully my instincts are right and that these will work out for us. I still haven’t completely decided what I will do for the very early days with Baby H. I know there are sets of newborn cloth diapers you can rent (until baby’s umbilical cord falls off and until they are big enough fit into the one-size diapers). I’m leaning toward just using disposables during that time in the hopes that we won’t need to use them for very long, and to minimize the amount of laundry we’ll have to do in the first couple of weeks until we get settled into our routines.
If you have decided to cloth diaper, how will you build up your diaper stockpile?
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7. Cloth Diapering Update by Mrs. Hopscotch
8. Easy Cloth Diapering by Mrs. Superhero
9. Who, What, Why, and How: Cloth Diapering by mrs. tictactoe
10. On Cloth Diapering at 4 Months by Mrs. Stroller
11. Building a Cloth Diaper Stockpile by Mrs. Hopscotch
12. Confessions of an (Ex) Cloth-Diapering Mom by Mrs. High Heels
13. Cloth Diapering Diaries by Mrs. Sketchbook
14. They really are genius! by Mrs. Tea
15. Wool, the Other Sleep Sheep (and Adventures in Early Toileting) by Mrs. Twine
16. Adventures in Cloth Diapering by Mrs. Lion
17. Cloth Diapering: We're back! by Mrs. Deer
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
Wow! 37 is a lot!! I have 12 and am hoping to get to 24. I also figure I can buy one here or there when we have extra money. John and Sherry of Young House Love only had 12 for the first year, I think!
Are you doing cloth wipes, too?
clementine / 959 posts
I decided early on to use the Flip diapers since it seems like less laundry to me and I wouldn’t need quite as many covers. I waited until there was a sale (buy one get one free on cotton babies), so I got 10 covers for about $7 each. I registered for the inserts, but if I see a sale on those I’ll just buy them myself.
I think we’ll use disposables in the very beginning too.
blogger / apricot / 366 posts
@mrs. tictactoe: I know…I thought I would only do around 24, but I already had like 16 and then found an eBay listing for a bunch more at a fabulous price…so I just went for it
Can’t pass up a deal! And if elastic gets shot on a few, I can just rotate more in vs. having to replace the elastic immediately.
I am going to do cloth wipes. At first I thought it was completely crazy but the more I thought about it, just made sense to add dirty wipes to the load of laundry vs. more trash.
olive / 63 posts
OK can I ask you a totally blunt question? How much contact with poop do you have to have with cloth diapers? Do you have to use a hose or something to get the big chunks of poop off before you put them in the hamper? I am considering cloth diapers, but frankly an important factor is minimizing contact with poop….
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I never thought of looking on ebay for cloth diapers. Good idea!
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
@Mrs. Hopscotch: MODG blog also posted recently about a lady who will replace elastic for you (and change velcro to snap if the velcro wears out!
@chicagowife: You can get rice paper flushable liners to line the diapers with. Pee goes through them and poop gets stuck on them so you just slide the liner and poop into the toilet. No contact at all! If no liners, a diaper sprayer sprays poop into the toilet and still no contact (but some people freak out with the toilet water splattering a bit). If you use a wet bag to put dirty diapers in, the whole thing goes into the wash so you never have to touch poopy diapers.
blogger / apricot / 366 posts
@mrs. tictactoe: ooh, good to know!
@chicagowife: they say that with breastfed babies, you can just wash the poop because it’s pretty water-soluble. With formula and obviously solid food, you do have to get the poop out of the diaper before you wash it
olive / 63 posts
@Mrs. Hopscotch: @mrs. tictactoe: Thank you that was helpful!
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We use Applecheeks and bought the entire stash new for our first kid (13 covers in each of two sizes and 30ish inserts). I got new because I wanted them to last well for two kids (and I’m loving how much I’m saving now with baby #2). If they are in good shape when we’re done, I’ll sell them used and get some of the investment back!
And my theory about the poo is that I actually come into contact with less of it because my kids almost never blow out of cloth diapers (as in two times ever) and frequently do if they are in disposables. Putting your kids in the shower because they are covered in poop is a whole lot grosser than washing diapers (and we use the flushable liners for our older daughter)
clementine / 889 posts
I thought that there would be little to no contact with poop but really thats not the case. Diaper sprayers can get messy. We don’t have one because of the reviews that they just sprayed.poop everywhere. I use liners, which work ok, but you can’t completely line a diaper and really messy loops get everywhere. Plus with pocket diapers you have to get the insert out before washing them, so there might be some poop contact then. DS went through a phase from 6-8 months where his poop literally rolled into the toilet mess free. I thought I hit the poop lottery. Then he started teething a lot and went on antibiotics. His loops are messy ranging from pretty liquidy to peanut butter consistency. I literally scrape poop off the diapers. I have sprayed some really yucky ones in the tub, but generally I scrape them and put them in the washer. I probably put more poop in the washer than I should, but they come out clean and I haven’t seen any poop buildup in the washer yet.
Ultimately its just poop and doesn’t bother me. They make a poop bucket with the sprayed so poop doesn’t get sprayed everywhere and you can fit it on top of the toilet. Cloth diapers are cute and I get A LOT fewer blowouts with cloth than disposables, which we do use now and then.
I have 18 pockets and 8 flip covers with 24 inserts.
clementine / 958 posts
@mrs. tictactoe: I still can’t believe John and Sherry of YHL managed with only 12. I started my stash with 16 because of that, and it totally didn’t work for us. LO is 4 months, and we currently do much better with 20, and really another 4 or so would be even better.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
We just bought 30 new diapers all at once. It was expensive, but worth it. Hubby and I get weirded out by used diapers even though I know it’s silly.
We also registered for diapers but nobody got us any. I think its because each diaper is so expensive and people would feel.weird buying us one diaper, but I would have loved it! I also think people thought we wouldn’t last using cloth…. because they constantly told.me that. But 7 months later I’m still loving them!
We have snaps and a very wiggly baby (always rolling over if we lay her down) and haven’t had an issue at all.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
@chicagowife: we use disposable liners. As long as I spread the liner out right it usually gets all the poo. If my mom changes her diaper the liner is pointless, but that’s just User error.
cherry / 190 posts
We use cheaper pockets such as sunbabies, alvas, sweet baby, and babyland. We may also try kawaii soon. I’ve found great deals through co-ops, I’m expecting 8 more pockets, 12 bamboo inserts, 12 mf/bamboo combo inserts, and 5 pair of leggings for under $80. I started my stash with 18 but didn’t have enough inserts because my daughter needs them to be doubled most of the time so we usually use about 9-12. Once this order comes in we’ll be at 26 and that should be more than plenty for us.
kiwi / 575 posts
I haven’t started shopping yet but I’m excited to start diving in – it’s all a little overwhelming but I know it’s the right path for us. I’m going to follow this thread
Thanks, Mrs. Hopscotch and others for sharing!