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When our daughter turned 5 months old, something amazing and wonderful happened–she developed the most delicious rolls my husband and I had ever seen. Naturally, we did what any parent would do. We nibbled on her rolls and blew the loudest raspberries all over her body, giving special attention to her round belly.
Seriously, who could resist these?!
As the months passed, our biting addiction grew. We nom nom’d on her fingers, chubby toes, arms, and legs and it became second nature to us.
One day when our LO was around 13 months old, she randomly bit my toe! I yelped and told her “no biting!” in a stern voice. Later that day as I was doing the dishes, she came up behind me and bit the back of my thigh! Again, I yelled in surprise and told her “no biting!”
I’m embarrassed to say this, but the biting continued for the next two months and my husband and I had no idea why she was biting us! I had bite marks, red welts and bruises all over my arms, calves, thighs and chest. Of course we didn’t put 2 and 2 together and continued to nibble and mouth all over our LO’s body. Mommy and daddy brain?
I remember mentioning the biting to @Mrbee and he said our LO was biting because we nibble and mouth on her! Okay, gotcha, we’ll take it down a notch. Of course by this time we were completely addicted to the biting and couldn’t control ourselves when we saw exposed fat rolls or chubby toes. LO’s biting continued, however, so we finally decided that enough was enough and we needed to stop ALL nibbling and mouthing.
We thought we were in the clear until my LO bit me on my tummy one day! I figured it would take some time for her to learn from our behavior, so we decided to give it a couple more days. The tummy biting didn’t stop.
Lightbulb!
We never stopped blowing raspberries on her belly.
I told DH that the raspberries had to stop too and we were both really sad.
It’s been a week since we stopped all nibbling, mouthing and raspberry blowing, and I’m happy to say that our LO hasn’t bitten us in three days! Hooray!! It’s working!
Every day is a struggle for us though. Although our LO has slimmed down a bit since learning how to walk, we still want to bite her chubbs so badly it physically pains us that we can’t.
I feel like we’re recovering addicts. And honestly, the only thing getting me through this is the fact that maybe one day I’ll be able to nibble on her again (when she understands that biting is a big no no).
Do you nibble and mouth on your LO’s body? Has your LO bitten you?
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
okkk… her rolls are the CUTEST i have ever seen in the existence of a baby!!!! nom nom nom nom nom nom. i want to bite them through the screen!!!
grapefruit / 4120 posts
ADORABLE!
I totally agree with you – we had the same problem with biting although we didn’t have to cut out raspberries to fix it. Sad.
I have to say we recently figured out we need to stop giving him playful swats on the behind, too, after seeing him do it to another little girl at church yesterday. OOPS!
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
LO hasn’t tried to bite us yet but I have to make a strong effort to not nom her down.
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
LOL I love the censor bar!!
GOLD / cherry / 182 posts
Yum – she’s such a cutie! Love the first picture:)
clementine / 889 posts
I heard a few months ago that the nibbling of baby chub can lead to them biting back, so I stopped right them. I kiss his baby feet still, and everywhere else too, but no nibbling anymore.
But somehow DS started hitting out of frustration and now as we try to stop that, he’s started biting too. I took pictures of bite marks he left this weekend as future ammunition when he is a teenager. lol. Since we don’t nibble on him, I’m not sure how else to stop it. He’s only 16 months, so I’m hoping it passes as he learns more words.
grapefruit / 4800 posts
This is a bit different but we’ve been encountering a similar problem recently.
Playing stinky feet with her is the first thing that made her laugh as a teeny tiny baby and she thinks it’s hilarious still. She’ll smell her own feet and play by herself now. But when she makes friends occasionally she’ll thrust a foot in their face to try and have them play stinky feet. To them though and probably their parents it looks like she’s trying to kick them in their face.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I have to share with my husband! I’ve also had to tell my MIL no “nibbling” because she is horrible about it. She still giggles when you tickler her with your fingers so there shouldn’t be a need to do it with your mouth.
pomegranate / 3053 posts
O M G! She is just absolutely adorable! I wish my kids had rolls like that but they just don’t. Just fat fat thighs and cheeks. I LOVE to nom nom nom on both of my boys, even if my oldest is 3 now. Thankfully, none of them have bitten me like that. I’ll have to keep that in mind with #2 since he’s only 4.5 months right now.
cherry / 230 posts
You can try giving kisses instead!
squash / 13199 posts
I bite my babies cheeks because they are just so yummy and she laughs a lot when I do it, she nibbles on my shoulder sometimes but I think she is just going through a phase where she wants to taste everything
pomegranate / 3383 posts
Holy delicious rolls!!!
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
Nom nom nom! Good job reforming!!
pomelo / 5178 posts
Oh those rolls are to die for! So cute!
DD has only bitten us (well, DH) once when she was beyond exhausted. Otherwise, we’ve been very lucky in this regard.
pomegranate / 3160 posts
Ohmahgawd. Best. Baby rolls. Ever.
honeydew / 7968 posts
rut ro, i better stop nibbling on their toes. i love baby toes! i do kiss them all over their bodies. i wonder if that will cause issues too.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
She is so cute!
persimmon / 1295 posts
Ahh! I want to nibble those rolls. I think my 13.5 mo old is doing the same thing! She has been biting my shoulder when I have her up. I guess no more nibble kisses. It makes her laugh though and it’s soooooo cute.
Thanks for this post @chopsuey119