Mr. Blue and I are excited (and shocked and terrified) to announce that Baby Blue is actually the Babies Blue! Our little ones are identical twins (monochorionic), and they are measuring exactly like they should with strong, healthy heartbeats! Good job, babies!
Even though I come from a family that is relatively flooded with twins, Mr. Blue and I had never remotely considered that I could be pregnant with twins. More on genetics and twins later! We went to our first ultrasound full of anticipation and a little bit of nerves. We just wanted to make sure Baby Blue was growing like he or she should and had a strong heartbeat.
The U/S technician started the process. After a moment, the technician casually said, “There’s more than one baby,” as though this were the smallest little sidenote. Mr. Blue and I stumbled and stuttered and kept asking insightful questions such as, “Are you serious? You mean twins? Are you joking?” I tried to keep my cool, but I was losing it big deal. I kept tearing up and laughing, on the verge of getting a little hysterical.
The technician was super nice and reassured us that everything looked good with our littles. She carefully pointed out Baby A who is closest to the cervix and Baby B who is a bit higher up.
The doctor came in next and had a heart-to-heart with us about our little twins. Our type of twins are at risk for twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome (TTTS). The doctor explained that the odds are in our favor that everything will be fine, but that there is a one in seven chance that our babies will develop TTTS. Because of the risk, I will be having ultrasounds every two weeks throughout my pregnancy to check for signs of TTTS.
Needless to say, this was all a lot of information for Mr. Blue and me to process. We texted our parents photos, and my mom immediately called.
“TWINS?!?!?!?!?” she yelled. As the daughter of an identical twin, this was the best possible news I could have given her.
I immediately burst into tears and sobbed to my mommy about how I didn’t know if I could do this. After all, there are two of them and one of me! My mom helped talk me off the ledge, and Mr. Blue reminded me that he would be there, too. Both of our parents are SO excited, and our lovely moms have assured us that they will help however they can.
We are starting to process the news, and when I get a little freaked out, I remind myself of how cute matching outfits will be! Prayers and good thoughts for the Babies Blue to develop just as they should are welcome!
More on the Babies Blue coming soon!
GOLD / persimmon / 1286 posts
Congrats!!!! I had a feeling it was you when I read the anon post!! So exciting!!! Hope everything goes well with them both! :-)
GOLD / persimmon / 1229 posts
Congrats! How exciting! However, to post on your own anon post is devious!! Way to throw off the trail!
kiwi / 521 posts
Congrats!! So YOU are Twins on the Way :)
There’s a ton of information out there, and a lot of it can be scary. I think it’s important to know what you’re up against, especially with TTTS. Fingers crossed that you don’t have to worry about it!
I remember the first ultrasound like it was yesterday. We were at 8.5 weeks and I begged my midwife for an ultrasound so I could see the baby. I was staring at the screen watching the tech move the wand from one little black circle to another and back. She looked at us and said “It’s twins” and I choked back a sob, told her she had to be wrong, and then asked my husband how we were going to pay for college.
Now my boys are 11 days old and they are the loves of my life (along with DH!). The moral of my story is that you can do it! Accept all the help you can (and this includes during pregnancy as well – TAKE IT EASY!) and stay as cool and collected as possible.
We’re here for you (especially the twin mamas)! Let us know if you need to talk about anything!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4772 posts
So exciting – more twin babies – yay! Congratulations!
cherry / 194 posts
This is wonderful!! How exciting, congratulations. Sorry I don’t have any helpful advice on twins but it’ll be such a unique and lovely experience.
GOLD / pear / 1942 posts
Oh wow, congratulations and good luck!
blogger / clementine / 931 posts
HOORAY! This is wonderful news. Congrats, mama!!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 5079 posts
Wow! Congrats mama–x 2!!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 7179 posts
Congrats!! So exciting!!!!! I was wondering why you didn’t say to much about on the boards about your 1st ultrasound.
GOLD / kiwi / 747 posts
How sneaky of you but congrats again!
hostess / papaya / 12454 posts
Wow!! Congrats!!
blogger / pear / 1594 posts
How exciting! I can’t wait to read all about your twin happenings over the next year!
hostess / papaya / 11500 posts
Hooray for twins!! Congratulations, @Mrs . Blue what an incredible journey you have ahead of you.
hostess / wonderful pumpkin / 16526 posts
Wow, congrats! Double the fun and love! :-)
blogger / cantaloupe / 5107 posts
Oh wow twins. Amazing. Congrats. You’ll do fine I’m sure :) can’t wait to read along your pregnancy.
GOLD / grapefruit / 4306 posts
Wow!! What a shock, I can’t even imagine! So happy for you guys :)
GOLD / clementine / 873 posts
Congratulations! Tons of good thoughts for you and your husband :)
blogger / nectarine / 2979 posts
Congrats congrats! I applaud your sneakiness :)
hostess / cantaloupe / 7252 posts
ohmygod! Twins abound the hive! Congratulations!!! Double the happiness :) What does “monochromatic” mean?
GOLD / persimmon / 1023 posts
congratulations! so happy for you.
cherry / 105 posts
CONGRATS!! I had a sneaking suspicion it might be you!
hostess / wonderful pumpkin / 17452 posts
Yay! These girls are way smarter than me, I had no idea it was you, congrats!
GOLD / pear / 1758 posts
How exciting! Congrats!
hostess / honeydew / 8955 posts
AHHHHHHHHHHHHH CONGRATS!!!!!!
hostess / papaya / 10042 posts
I had a feeling it was you! Congratulations!!
GOLD / nectarine / 2907 posts
That is sooooo exciting!!! It’s going to be fun to read twin pregnancy posts. Congrats times two!!
blogger / nectarine / 2042 posts
@alison206: @Trailmix: I had to do something to throw off the bloodhounds! Hellobee-ers are a curious bunch.
blogger / honeydew / 8524 posts
BLUE!!!!!!!!!!!
hostess / honeydew / 8348 posts
So exciting!
blogger / nectarine / 2042 posts
@Shimmer: Thank you so much! It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one that’s been in this position! So much makes sense now, like my terrible m/s that started earlier than I expected, etc. I’m really excited now and just trying to learn everything I can about carrying twins. I have a LOT of ?’s for the twin mamas!
@Smurfette: I couldn’t say anything and give myself away! It was such shock that I needed a couple days to process! Now, I can give the full story!
@regberadaisy: I’m going to do a post about the different types of twins, but basically it means they share the same placenta, instead of each one having a placenta of their own.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6660 posts
Congratulations!!!!
blogger / cherry / 182 posts
Congratulations. . . x2!!
hostess / hostess with the mostess / 21082 posts
WOW!!!! so awesome!!! :D Congrats!
blogger / nectarine / 2042 posts
@mrs. wagon: Crazy, huh?!
Thanks for all the congrats and encouragement!! This is why I love me some Hellobee!
blogger / pear / 1691 posts
Congrats and like I Said in your twins on the way post, you can do this. The idea of TTTS is scary and the monitoring is intense. I went in every week sometimes twice. Once they were born I thought “well I had to go to the doctor a lot but it was worth it” again congrats
kiwi / 521 posts
@regberadaisy: Monochorionic means that the babies share a placenta (making them identical twins) :)
blogger / papaya / 11595 posts
oh my gosh… wow!!! you should have seen my face when I saw your post… like no freakin way!! I can’t believe it was you :):) I’m happy for you. But I would be freaked out too!!! I’m so happy your families are nearby; ready and willing to help. You’ll need it!
I had one friend who just had twins and her mom stayed with her for three months :)
hostess / cantaloupe / 7191 posts
Congrats!!
blogger / nectarine / 2042 posts
@Oceanis723: You’re so right! When I freak out about all the appointments or having them early and missing lots of time from work, I remind myself that in the end my babies are worth far more than any job or any amount of worries! I just want them both to arrive safely and be healthy and strong!
blogger / nectarine / 2042 posts
@Coco Bee: haha. I told my mom, “You know you’re going to have to come live with us for a year, right?!?”
GOLD / grapefruit / 4980 posts
OMG congrats — and I can’t believe that was you! Trickster ;)
pea / 13 posts
Congratulations! So exciting… Can’t wait to hear more about your journey!
hostess / grapefruit / 4413 posts
Wow!!! That’s so exciting – sounds like there are lots of twins coming around :-)
blogger / pomegranate / 3111 posts
ahhhhhh congraaaats!!!! what a huge surprise!!!! so exciting!
blogger / pear / 1817 posts
Wow, double congrats! That’s intense
GOLD / pear / 1534 posts
OMG that’s insane!! And absolutely exciting! Congratulations!!!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4890 posts
Oh my gosh, that is crazy!!!! I’m so excited for you and I’m sure you’ll do JUST FINE raising your two babies!!! Congratulations!!!
GOLD / kiwi / 637 posts
Congratulations!!! That is so exciting! I am a twin & have always loved it! I have “wanted” twins my whole life but as we are TTC that possibility has seemed a bit overwhelming but DH reassured me if it were to happen we would be fine!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6240 posts
Wow, double congrats!
pea / 14 posts
Holy cow Mrs Blue! Congratulations! We have our first US in two weeks and I keep asking Mr. Aardvark, what if it’s twins? :) I can’t wait to hear all about you and your babies journy! Congrats againd!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4492 posts
Wow! Congrats! Hoping, praying and sending you positive thoughts that you have a healthy & happy pregnancy.
GOLD / pear / 1899 posts
Holy Moly! How exciting!!! Congratulations all around!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4151 posts
Ahhhhhhhhhh! Congratulations!
GOLD / pomegranate / 3993 posts
Hooray for you!!!!
coffee bean / 28 posts
Congratulations and welcome to the twins club ;) My twins were mono di twins, so we were at risk for TTTS, but try not to worry too much! The Internet can be as scary as it is helpful. My boys are almost 14 months and doing great :) My best advice is take a twins class at your hospital if they offer it!! I learned SO much, especially how important protein & water is for a multiples pregnancy! Good luck :) It’s amazing with twins!!
pea / 11 posts
oh my! so exciting! can’t wait to follow your story!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 5958 posts
Congrats, I thought it was you!!!
cherry / 156 posts
Yay! Congrats!
blogger / olive / 85 posts
this is unreal!! double the blessings for your family, congratulations!!
cherry / 110 posts
Congratulations!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4405 posts
OMG, how exciting! Congrats! I can’t wait to read all about your pregnancy/parenting journey!
cherry / 160 posts
Congratulations!!! That is so exciting!!
GOLD / nectarine / 2166 posts
congrats!
coffee bean / 35 posts
Oh wow! So pleased for you both, enjoying following your story
GOLD / pomegranate / 3846 posts
Oh my goodness, congratulations!
I must say though, I am now scared. Considering we have so much in common…
Let’s just hope this special blessing is yours and yours alone!!! lol
blogger / honeydew / 8524 posts
@Mrs. Blue: BLUE.
BLUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
oh my goodness. congratulations doesn’t even start to cover it… how amazing… from a TTC, anonymous blogger to pregnant with twins blogger (Hellobee’s first one, I believe)!!! AHHHH!!
blogger / nectarine / 2042 posts
@Arden: Ah, c’mon, Arden! You should have double the blessing with me! Have you had your first u/s? If not, I’m going to start praying you have twins. ;)
@mrs. wagon: I just couldn’t stand not being the first at SOMETHING! It is still so surreal, but I love that my Hellobee family has been part of it from back when the babes were a twinkle in Mr. B’s eyes!
GOLD / pomegranate / 3846 posts
@Mrs. Blue: No ultrasound yet, but I seriously can’t have twins. It would bar me from a birth center birth, and that would break my heart. Otherwise I would be ok with it.
GOLD / pear / 1639 posts
Ahhhh!!! Now there’s a surprise! Congrats!
hostess / grapefruit / 4614 posts
Yaaaay!!! Congrats!!!!! If it makes you feel any better my MIL always says that it was rough when they were little, but as they got a little older she felt like it was a lot easier because they always had each other. My LO always wants me to play with him, making it harder to get things done, so at least since they’ll have each other it will eventually make it easier on you! :)
GOLD / apricot / 367 posts
Yippeeeeeeee!!!! Congratulations, B. the blue babies are gonna be healthy and all kinds of wonderful! Hugs!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 5590 posts
Congrats! Can’t wait to read updates! Twins r so hard so definitely get your mom, mil, and hubs involved! Much easier… Nice to get a3-hour stretch of sleep every so often…