In the last months of my first maternity leave, I got depressed about our finances, and the fact that we weren’t really going in the right direction. We were in debt (and still are), and it was due to the accumulation of many factors: Mr. Sunglasses went back to school for 2.5 years and we were living off of one salary; he didn’t have a full time position yet; we wanted stuff now, rather than save money for it; and our credit card became an easy means to get what we wanted.
Since finances and parenthood go hand in hand, I thought I would share my personal journey about trying to get out of debt using Dave Ramsey’s method. In a series of posts, I will explain what we are doing to work towards our goal, whether it be ways to save money or how to properly discuss big purchases, and I’ll even include some free downloads to help you get a hold of your finances.
In the past, I’ve gotten fed up with my debt and tried to do things on my own. Clearly I failed on that front and always ended up in debt again. I ended up talking to some online friends about what I should do to improve our finances, and someone mentioned Dave Ramsey. I didn’t know who that was, so I started googling and reading up on the man.
Dave Ramsey is, first and foremost, a guy who’s been there — who’s been in debt, who filed for bankruptcy and who got his life back on track. He is the best-selling author of The Total Money Makeover and host of Dave Ramsey’s Radio Show, which can be heard online and throughout the US. He speaks about his personal experiences and what he’s learned along the way, and teaches you how to live a debt-free life.
I signed up for Dave Ramsey’s online Financial Peace University, and completed the course with even more motivation. His approach to teaching you life lessons, the baby steps to follow, how to control your finances… all of it is amazing. Is he reinventing the wheel? No. But seeing it through his eyes is like seeing something completely new. It is a huge eye-opener. But you need to be fed up with your debt enough to make sacrifices, to budget every penny you have and to be “gazelle” intense about working on the “Debt Snowball.”
The first 7 Baby Steps are:
– $1,000 to start an Emergency Fund
– Pay off all debt using the Debt Snowball
– 3 to 6 months of expenses in savings
– Invest 15% of household income into Roth IRAs and pre-tax retirement
– College funding for children
– Pay off home early
– Build wealth and give! Invest in mutual funds and real estate.
Debt Snowball
How the Debt Snowball works is you list your debts, excluding your house, in order of smallest balance to biggest. Don’t make the mistake of listing them in order of higher interest rate. This method is about attacking the smallest debt first, even if it has a little or no interest. I know you are probably thinking “But why pay my 0% card first when I have one at 20%?” What you’ve been doing in the past hasn’t been working… so why not try something new?
The Debt Snowball is a simple concept: You need some quick wins in order to stay pumped up about getting out of debt! Paying off debt is not always about math. It’s about motivation. How awesome does it feel when you’ve paid off 1 of your debts. You get pumped, start attacking debt #2 and in no time you will be done. When you start knocking off the easier debts, you will see results and stay motivated to dump all of your debt.
Getting Started
Steps 1 & 2 of the Baby Steps are the 2 main things you need to worry about now. If you don’t want to commit to the Financial Peace University classes (which are $100 US but come with the Finanical Peace Revisted book), then I suggest you purchase The Total Money Makeover book. You can also listen to Dave’s free podcasts, which are 40 mins of his 3 hour shows, or even try to listen to his radio show online.
I never thought one person could change my life like he has thus far. We are attacking our finances one day at a time, and hope to be debt-free by my 31st birthday, which is less than 2 years from now. For those out there with debt, I know how you feel and trust me when I say just in 2.5 months, I saw money in a completely different way. Is it easy? No. Are we used to budgeting every penny we have? No. Is it worth it? BIG FAT YES!
Are you currently in debt? Do you have a plan to get out of it?
on a side note : I have no background in finance whatsoever and everything I am blogging about is from personal experience and my determination to help others live a debt-free life.
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Mrs. Sunglasses’ Dave Ramsey Budget Plan part 1 of 5
1. Getting Out of Debt with Dave Ramsey by Mrs. Sunglasses2. Having Proper Insurance Coverage by Mrs. Sunglasses
3. Learn to Negotiate by Mrs. Sunglasses
4. Getting Rid of Bank Fees by Mrs. Sunglasses
5. Couponing by Mrs. Sunglasses
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
haha i just drafted a post on budgeting too! and i talked about dave ramsey too. we are following his 7 baby steps, but we are not against credit cards.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: As much as I prefer not to use credit (at the moment) because we have so much debt to get rid of, in Canada… we don’t really have a choice (especially if you buy online) I know one bank launched a debit credit card… but we are still all new to what you have had for years.
Once we pay off our CC debt completely, then I will change my card to a better one (as in more cash back , better rewards) but I can’t do that until I’ve lowered it enough. I originally wanted to be debt free by 30, but then shit happened. My husband got hurt and is on part time disability waiting to get operated and then I got pregnant and now on mat leave with a salary cut. It’s not going down or as gazelle. I can’t wait for it to be though. Egh. I hate debt.
pea / 12 posts
My husband and I took the class at our church and are glad we did. We finally got to be debt free (minus the house) and it is a HUGE weight off our shoulders. I recommend FPU to everyone – so worth it. Knowing we don’t have huge bills looming over us has made life with a new baby easier.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@wggleworm: oh wow. Way to go. I am SOOOOOO looking forward to that day. Money is so stressful right now that it’s not letting me enjoy life to the fullest. I want my life back. No debt is worth that.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
We have been hanging out at step #2 for a few months now and have paid off a whopping one debt. But that’s okay. We’ll keep plugging along.
coconut / 8305 posts
We need to do this so bad! We don’t have “alot” of cc debt but combined with student loans it’s mighty uncomfortable to think about. =/
I’ve heard alot of Dave Ramsey’s stuff, now I just need to put it into practice! =)
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Love love love Dave Ramsey!
DH uses ccs for business expenses but Pays it off monthly. I only use our bank card.
I was up to my eyeballs in personal and student debt, (we’re talking 200+k) but DH’s paid the majority off.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
My husband and I believe in living debt free. We never did Dave Ramsey, but it looks like we are doing several of his steps.
kiwi / 538 posts
My husband is a huge fan of Dave Ramsey. He got himself out of a sizeable amount of debt using his budgeting system and as a family we still follows a lot of his rules. My husband paid for my engagement ring in cash because he really believed in the principle that you need to sacrifice and save for major purchases. I was a bit annoyed since I was anxious to get engaged but I really admired his discipline. We are a lot more conservative with our money than a lot of other couples i know but we are also secure in knowing we are living within our means & are prepared when emergencies happen.
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This is awesome and I’m definitely looking forward to future posts on this topic!
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
I’m excited for this series! I like the idea of motivating yourself to get rid of debt, rather than taking the quickest route.
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
We love Dave Ramsey! We’re big believers in getting debt free and staying that way. Tackling our (huge) student loans now!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
Woohoo!!
We are FPU fans too! We just finished it about 5 months ago with my sister and BIL. The budget completely changed the way we spend. We were never big spenders, but even when I was working FT we felt so “poor”. I only made about $1200/mo, but that is a lot more than I make as a SAHM (um, zero!!), and to think I could have budgeted and saved so much of that!! We are so happy to be budgeting now. It’s hard and you sacrifice a lot but it’s so worth it. DH and I had the worst communication and would often overdraft because he thought there was money, and there wasn’t.
We still have his student loans and a car loan and that is our debt. We paid all our CC’s off (woot woot!) and we don’t own a house. We want to be completely debt-free before getting a mortgage.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
I think your honesty about your situation is fantastic…being honest about what kind of debt you have and how you spend is the first step in taking control of the situation. It’s not easy and it’s not easy to do it in public like you are, so big applause to you!
Since you’re open about the situation, if you don’t mind sharing, I am curious about the wait for your husband’s surgery. Why such a long wait? From what I’ve gleaned, it’s about the medical system in Canada. You don’t have to give more detail if you don’t want, just curious.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
It is hard. It is really, really hard. I started FPU when a friend of mine suggested we tag along with her for a class a few years ago. It was really good for me. It got me budgeting and I finally told my husband how much credit card debt I had. I had over $18k in credit card debt, a big car payment and together we had some furniture debt. I cut back my spending and gave myself $100 a month as play money. That meant lunches and dinners out, clothes, movies, drinks, etc. Anything that wasn’t a necessity. That was hard but it helped me get through it. Now, I’m debt free (except our house) and I have a good amount of money in savings. It’s exciting being debt free and feels sooooo good.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@highwire: We’ve been at step 2 for some time now, and we even back tracked because Murphy’s law hit us full force. I’m not losing hope though. We are down to 3 different debts. 1 CC, 1 bank loan and 1 car loan (apart from the house, but I don’t consider that debt) Hang in there. Maybe we should create a DR support group. ha.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@runsyellowlites: Do it! it will change your life! I’m serious.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
@Mrs. Sunglasses: We just paid one of my prenatal medical bills today and it felt SO GOOD. I keep a running tally of all of our paid off debts on our finances spreadsheet, and it really helps keep us motivated!
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@chopsuey119: Whoa how awesome!!!! I keep telling myself that our situation is temporary, and that soon we will be back on full salaries for both of us. But dang, that’s love!
@dookie32: We live in a generation that we want everything now. If we were more like our parents, our houses would be paid, little or no debt and we would have considerable amounts of savings. I’m working on that… and trust me my kids will start saving as soon as they start getting money (meaning by 4… when they have $ for doing certain things)
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@highwire: Oh yay!!!!!!! Honestly I can’t WAIT to get these three debts out of the way. Even getting rid of one will have a huge impact on the other two. Seems so far away though.
Can’t lose sight of the prize.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
@Mrs. Sunglasses: Ha my parents don’t have any of the things you are talking about…and not that it is anyone else’s fault, but I had pretty much zero financial education via my parents and I think that has contributed to some of my poor financial decisions when I was a bit younger.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@Grace: @looch: I think finances is always a taboo subject, but I will really get into it and talk about the hardships along the way. I think people need to know that other can/are in the same situation as them. I’ll even go into dept about my husbands injury, the operation, and the long wait and how it affects our plans.
@mediagirl: I envy you in such a good way. I love when others tell me they are debt free. Makes me realize that it’s possible.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@highwire: Maybe I should of said, our grandparents. haha. My parents never really spoke about finances much. My mom tried to help me budget, but she doesn’t believe in savings (RSPs) and my dad is pro RSPs but doesn’t ever talk about money with us. Again a taboo subject in our family. I don’t want to be like that with our kids.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
@Mrs. Sunglasses: Ah yes! Definitely the grandparents. And ditto on the taboo nature of finances in my family growing up. I definitely don’t want to repeat that with my kids.
olive / 56 posts
Yeah, we are in debt but partly because the last two years has been really rough for us. DH has pretty severe medical condition and has been in and out of the hospital for the last 3 years. Well, we made the decision for DH to stop working about 7 months ago. So we’ve been on just my income. It’s definitely been tough but we’ve cut out all the the extras at this point. DH just got approved for disability (woohoo!), so we are using most of it to pay down our debts that we’ve accumulated. Being on paycheck-to-paycheck for the past 7 months really showed me how much debt we had and how much I want to get rid of it. I hope to we can be pay down all of our credit cards and start saving for a down payment on a house. I was really getting discouraged about our future but I’m very hopeful now. The good thing about going down to one income is that we cut out all the extras (cable, eating out, unecessary spending) and really learned to use our money for necessity (taking public transportation instead of driving, couponing).
Right now, we want to pay down our higher credit card balances because I feel that will help with our credit score and help us in getting a house in the future. Then I thought I would tackle the higher interest rates but reading your post makes me think starting with the lower credit card balances to get that feeling of accomplishment.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@Plumeria: YES!!! Even though it doesn’t seem logical, please pay the debt with the smallest balance. Because then, you pay it off quickly and then that amount goes to the next lowest card.
I completely understand you with the whole disability. YAY for being approved. I personally hate loan companies. they are always trying to find ways to say we aren’t eligible. At the end of last year we got approved, received a check for our mortgage (4k) and now got a letter that DH employer made a mistake and we owe them the money back. REALLY?! EGHHHHHHH
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
I am going to attempt the 7 steps after we’re in the new house! Money is pouring out like water into that so no point starting now!