With interest rates at an all time low, it’s a house-hunting I go! And from the real estate reports, it seems I’m in good company. In many areas, the cost of a mortgage is considerably less than paying rent, even after factoring in home-owner related expenses. Take the little bungalow I rented in West Asheville. The monthly rent was $1200, not including utilities. I’m now looking at comparable bungalows in the same neighborhood and expecting to pay less than $800 for monthly mortgage payments.
Buying a home is a long-term investment. As a new mom, I’m thinking about what I need to think about when househunting this time around. What I thought made the perfect house before as a single professional isn’t necessarily what’s best for my little guy. I’ve tried to think about our needs now, as he enters his toddler years and later on when he gets ready to start kindergarten. Beyond that, it’s anybody’s guess.
After conducting a very informal poll (read endless conversations with my mom and several close friends), here are the five considerations that top my list:
1. Neighborhood – In an ideal world, we would move into a neighborhood with toddler swings in the trees, BOB’s on the front porch, and toys strewn about the yard. The idea of being able to go on walks and having playdates with other moms and babes without getting in the car appeals to me. I’ve been driving up and down streets, marking the ones that seem to have more kids living on them and families who spend time outdoors. Moving onto a street where there is a lot of porch-sitting going on seems like it would make meeting the neighbors an easy task.
2. Good Schools – Good schools top my list of househunting criteria, both for Baby T’s elementary school days and for the potential resale value. When I was in elementary school, I envied the kids who walked or rode their bike. As a parent, I would love to start the day walking with my little guy to school each morning.
3. Commute – Burning up the limited awake time my little guy and I spend together commuting, really frustrates me. And I’m not the only one frustrated – Baby T makes his discontent known, and so far no amount of car snacks, bottles or toys can make car time more enjoyable for him. We currently spend 30 minutes commuting to work and daycare (conveniently they are located side-by-side). This adds up to one hour each and every day that I’m not outside playing with Baby T. Luckily, there are several neighborhoods within a few miles of work, so hopefully our next commute will be shorter.
4. Things To Do – Are there playgrounds, libraries, ice cream shops and parks within walking distance of the front yard? Having fun things nearby will only become more important as Baby T starts toddling. I also like the idea of being able to fit in an outing between his nap schedule.
5. Yard – In the mountain town I live in, lots of houses are perched on top of steep hills. When I think about my little guy learning how to walk, and later learning how to ride a bike, I imagine he’ll avoid some major scrapes and bruises with a flatter learning terrain. I also want at least enough yard that he has place to play, we can garden, and a patio to eat outside during the warmer months.
What considerations would be most important in a househunting for you and your family?
pomelo / 5178 posts
Oh, timely post! We’ll be relocating soon, so at first we’re looking to rent, until we can get our bearings and figure out which neighborhood would suit us permanently. For us, some of the top contenders have to be: safety of the community, commute for DH, and overall aesthetics of the community. We’re used to be close to trails, rivers, and the wilderness, so when we do buy a house, we’d like it to be similarly located.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
Our list was very similar to yours with the #1 & #2 exactly the same.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
#2 and #3 were huge considerations for us. we also considered homes that would allow our family to grow into for future, subsequent children. i really wish our yard was bigger, but that was one area we compromised on.
pomegranate / 3053 posts
How exciting! Good luck! I’m sure you’ll find the perfect house for you and your little guy.
Thing on my list when we were house hunting (before having kids) were:
1. Neighborhood (family friendly and looks well kept)
2. Good schools (lucked out in that the house we liked is in a good school district)
3. Not too far from the highway
4. Near lots of grocery stores (We have at least 5 or 6 within 10 minutes of our house. Insane.)
5. Near a mall (Don’t know what I would do if I had to drive a lengthy distance to go to a mall b/c it has been a life saver when the weather sucks and I don’t want to stay home with my kids. Something I didn’t think about before we had kids.)
6. Near some decent non-chain restaurants
7. Near an international airport
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
We’ve got a massive commute, but our daycare is right by our house, so LO will spend limited time in the car (unlike us). Thanks for bringing up the topic.
kiwi / 733 posts
Added to everything else: a good house layout. We saw some when we were looking that had some bedrooms on a different floor of the house. Some people love that, we didn’t. Similarly though, we wanted an open kitchen (which we don’t have…but when we finish the renovation we’re about to start, we will!), lots of common (non-bedroom) space, and a separate master bath.
Amount of work: we were willing to do some work/renovation in a house, but not a ridiculous amount. Our realtor took a little while to figure that out (as did we), so we looked at houses that would need whole areas ripped out…and soon…and eliminated those in favor of ones where we might want to redo the bathroom and/or kitchen (or other smaller projects), but they were livable right away without it.
To state the other obvious factor: cost. Everyone wants a lot of the same things, so for us it was also a tradeoff of what we were willing to give up or pay extra for. Knowing that going in was very helpful in eliminating from our list!
grapefruit / 4187 posts
I agree that location and commute are the two most important things. We sacrified a ton to be in a good spot. But our neighborhood is amazing, zoned for great schools and I can walk to work and DH’s commute is only 20 minutes. We may only have one bathroom and 800 sq feet, but knowing that when we step outside everything is at our fingertips is priceless.
GOLD / cherry / 182 posts
@Modern Daisy: I’m in the same boat exactly – it’s a small house, but I really love being close to everything! The way I rationalize it is that by being close to cool stuff means we’ll spend less time inside our house and more time outside enjoying the community.
GOLD / cherry / 182 posts
@JessiBee: Good house lay out is so important! I still feed Baby T at night and wanted my room to be close to his so I’m not running all over the house.
coconut / 8430 posts
When we were house hunting as an almost married couple with no kids, we wanted to buy a house that would meet our needs as our life changed. We bought a house that we could still picture ourselves living in 10 years down the road with 2-3 children. That meant having enough bedrooms and square footage to accommodate everyone.
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
We’re thinking about building and have much the same criteria. Unfortunately, neighborhoods of the type I like (older homes but good schools, affordable) are in short supply here.
We also may not have much of a yard, but would have a park right down the street. LO would be able to walk to school, and we could walk to a grocery, Target, and some restaurants.
GOLD / cherry / 182 posts
@erwoo: #6 is important to me too! I wish #7 was important, but not sure I’ll be flying anywhere internationally for a while.
pomegranate / 3053 posts
@Ms. Fairy Wings: Yeah, I’m not a huge fan of chain restaurants except for maybe Cheesecake Factory (super kid-friendly and nice and loud for crying infants). My family lives overseas and my husband travels occasionally for work so being near an int’l airport is important.
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make sure the neighborhood is friendly. we are always outside hanging with neighbor kids, and as a single mom it gives me a chance to socialize with adults! I have some friends who have unsocial neighbors and they hate it!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
Ours was schools (also for resale) and commute. Yard was definitely a bonus, but there are lots of parks around too.
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We’re hoping to put in an offer this week on our very first house. Our biggest concerns were:
1. Location/Proximity to Family
2. Yard
3. Large Common “Family” space
4. Overall Square Footage & room for growth
5. Cost in comparison to the rest of the neighborhood/ resale value
Schools weren’t really a huge factor in this home, since we know we’ll be moving again in 5-10 years. Not to mention in a small-ish town like ours, all the schools are really great with the exception of maybe 1 or 2.
Good luck in your search, keeping fingers crossed that our offer is accepted!