I’m sure you’ve heard all the reasons why people cloth diaper (the environment, money, health, cuteness), but I know a lot of people who are interested and feel very intimidated. There’s a lot of information out there and a million choices. Some people love this — my best friend has a ton of different brands of diapers and loves the variety. Personally, I’m all for simplicity and ease of use (also the cute, I can’t lie). I think cloth diapering can be very easy. Here’s how I keep it simple.
Pick a brand and commit
I did a lot of reading about people’s advice regarding getting started in cloth, and a lot of people advocate getting a variety of diapers to see what you like, then picking your favourites, and maybe selling the rest? This sounds exhausting to me. I also noticed that families who bought their entire stash from one brand tended to be very happy. Even if it was a brand that a lot of people didn’t like, they were happy because the diapers worked well enough and they didn’t know any better. Now, I’m not saying that any brand will do. I also see people fail because the choose the cheapest brand they can find, and then give up because the diapers leak or fit poorly. Do some research and get a quality stash, but keep it simple. After all of my research, I bought a stash of Applecheeks. I love them to death (yes, yes, I love the poop catchers) and have never tried another brand.
If you commit to one brand, you only have to figure out how to use one style of diapers. Your SO only has to figure out how to use one style of diapers. Your parents (should they be as lovely as ours and help out) only need to figure out how to use one style of diapers. It’s easy, and you will get more people willing to help if they feel confident in using your system.
You don’t have to touch the poop
Well, at least not anymore than you do with any baby. I mean, they poop, and you have to clean their little bums no matter what diapers you use. Before you start them on solids, you can just ball that poopy diaper up and toss it in the laundry bag. Seriously — they come clean. When your kids start on solids, you can buy flushable liners. Peel them off and flush them, then throw the diaper in the laundry bag. Done. Admittedly, sometimes it gets eeeverywhere in the diaper and you have to dunk a bit, but I think that’s cancelled out by the fact that my kids never blow out in cloth. I use cloth wipes, which are baby washcloths sprayed with water. I have a spray bottle in the diaper basket. (Okay, it’s actually a peri bottle.). I used to use a homemade wipe solution, but bums seem to get just as clean with water. Cloth wipes are thicker, which means less chance of poop on the hand. After wiping, just put it in your diaper and throw it all in the laundry bag. Which leads me to my next point.
Don’t overthink the laundry
Okay, so this also goes against nearly all the advice I’ve ever seen, but my laundry system is ridiculously easy. I grab my laundry bags and empty them into the wash (I just push them inside out and throw the bag in — no touching the poop!). I add a little scoop of detergent (I recommend Rockin Green), and push all the buttons to make the cycle as long as possible. The extra rinse button is key. I wash on cold. Everything but the covers go in the dryer and I hang the covers to dry (they dry pretty fast). Every couple months or so I strip them, and I try to let them get some sun in the summer. Usually I fold them, but they work just as well if you don’t. My sister-in-law says she just pulls clean diapers out of one laundry bag and puts the dirty ones in the other. The laundry takes very little actual time or effort.
So there you go. I use disposables at night because my daughters rash if you look at them funny (seriously, most sensitive skin ever). I’ve made my peace with it. I think nights are easy for most people as long as the diaper fits well and has plenty of absorbency. My girls never leaked at night, just rashed.
Anyone have any tips on how to make cloth diapering even simpler, or are you all horrified by my laziness?
Cloth Diapering part 3 of 11
1. Cloth Diapering by parenting2. On Cloth Diapering a Newborn by Mrs. Superhero
3. Easy Cloth Diapering by Mrs. Superhero
4. How to choose a cloth diapering system by Mrs. Superhero
5. Cloth Diaper Styles by Mrs. Pen
6. Cloth Diapering Diaries by Mrs. Sketchbook
7. Confessions of an (Ex) Cloth-Diapering Mom by Mrs. High Heels
8. They really are genius! by Mrs. Tea
9. Who, What, Why, and How: Cloth Diapering by mrs. tictactoe
10. On Cloth Diapering at 4 Months by Mrs. Stroller
11. Real Registry: Diana's Cloth Diaper Registry by Real Registries
Cloth Diapers part 8 of 17
1. Cloth Diapering by parenting2. Washing Cloth Diapers by parenting
3. Cloth Diaper Update and Potty Pail Review by parenting
4. How to choose a cloth diapering system by Mrs. Superhero
5. Real Registry: Diana's Cloth Diaper Registry by Real Registries
6. On Cloth Diapering a Newborn by Mrs. Superhero
7. Cloth Diapering Update by Mrs. Hopscotch
8. Easy Cloth Diapering by Mrs. Superhero
9. Who, What, Why, and How: Cloth Diapering by mrs. tictactoe
10. On Cloth Diapering at 4 Months by Mrs. Stroller
11. Building a Cloth Diaper Stockpile by Mrs. Hopscotch
12. Confessions of an (Ex) Cloth-Diapering Mom by Mrs. High Heels
13. Cloth Diapering Diaries by Mrs. Sketchbook
14. They really are genius! by Mrs. Tea
15. Wool, the Other Sleep Sheep (and Adventures in Early Toileting) by Mrs. Twine
16. Adventures in Cloth Diapering by Mrs. Lion
17. Cloth Diapering: We're back! by Mrs. Deer
honeydew / 7589 posts
Great post! Thanks!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Totally agree! I actually picked the easiest of all easy diapers, bum genius all in one, one size. It does create a longer laundry drying cycle, but no stuffing! And we use the disposable liners so no dealing with poo! And we just cloth wipe using water, not a solution.
I asked DH the other day how he felt about cloth diapering because it was all my idea and I had to convince him to do it. LO is 14 months so we’ve been doing it for awhile now and he said he loves it! Of course I’m the one doing most of the laundry……
honeydew / 7504 posts
This is EXACTLY how we plan to CD. With 2 full-time working parents, we wanted to make it as easy as possible on ourselves. And on the daycare, cuz we kinda want them to like us.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
Great post. We did have to try a few brands though to find what we like. Plus daycare likes one thing and was use another.
I cannot stress how much I LOVE my liners. I love the ones from Gro-Via the best and they are the cheapest. They are large enough that they do not get bunched up in the diaper and they really let the moisture through. There are times I think I could almost re-use the liner it is so dry!
Liners also help if you are using diaper creams and don’t want to mess with the cloth diaper safe creams (we love coconut oil but sometimes need some A+D).
When you dump them in the wash, do you unstuff your pockets? I love that I don’t have to unstuff my Thirsties.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
those diapers look so cute hanging out to dry!
persimmon / 1165 posts
Thank you for this post – you make it seem almost doable!!! I want to CD, but am scared about the additional laundry. How often do you have to wash diapers every week?
pomegranate / 3383 posts
Love that pic of your diapers hanging to dry!
clementine / 889 posts
Great post!!! I cloth diaper and my SIL and a coworker are both going to cloth diaper with their new babies (due in Dec and Jan). My advice to them is similar – pick a brand/style and stick with it.
My son has never blown out a cloth diaper. We get occasional pee leaks during nap time, but he is a SUPER heavy wetter at nap time and overnight. I don’t really get grossed out by poop, but even with cloth diapers, I’m touching less poop than I would be with disposables. The only time we stopped cloth was when DS was 9 months old and on antibiotics. He had borderline diarrhea for 9 days, and after day 2 we went to disposables.
The laundry isn’t a big deal. I drop dirty diapers in a wetbag. Poop gets dumped in the toilet and flushed. I pull the inserts out (we use pocket diapers) and I wash every 3rd or 4th day. I do a cold rinse, followed by a hot wash with an extra rinse. They come out clean. I strip every 2 months or so with a Tbsp of blue original Dawn dish soap. I add 1/2 cup bleach to every 3rd or 4th wash. We hang dry unless we need diapers in a hurry, and the inserts dry overnight.
It really is easy. And so much cheaper than disposables!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I love cloth diapering posts!
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The laundry commitment with cloth is so easy. You are washing every two to three days, but with no sorting, and no to little folding afterwards and it all goes away to the same spot. I probably spend 15 minutes a week on diaper laundry.
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
@sheskrafty: It very much depends on how many diapers you have and the age of your child. Currently, with one child in diapers at 8 months I do laundry every 3 or 4 days. You don’t want to go longer than that anyway, or it stinks. At the newborn stage it was more like every day or two because they just poop so much. Like Leigh said though, it’s easy laundry because I don’t have to sort anything and barely any folding.
@Thehistoryofus: You can use Applecheeks as a pocket or as a cover/liner. I use them as a cover because it requires less diaper covers so less $. They do unstuff in the wash, however.
@Sammyfab: @Mrs. Bee: I’m such a nerd, I had to take a photo of aaaall my covers before I sold the size one’s. And they had to be in a rainbow, obviously.
grapefruit / 4669 posts
You make it look so easy! I have committed to a brand because it makes the most sense to me and I didn’t want to buy a few each of a bunch of different kinds. I hope ours work out as well as yours!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I did this. Bought a huge stash of fuzzibunz and I was really well-researched as well! They all leaked. I tried for 6 months trying to adjust the fit, the inserts etc and nothing worked. I gave up
now that we’re living in an apartment it was the icing on the cake and I just cannot commit to cloth diapering when we have community laundry that we now have to pay for.
Maybe for subsequent children when/if we have a house. Sadly it didn’t work for us. I was so disappointed because I was jazzed to CD.
Inevitably because my one system failed, I tried several others. But none did I love enough to make me want to continue CD’ing while living in an apartment building.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
This makes it sound totally easy. I’ve got my diapers, so I guess we’re good to go — now just need the baby to wear them!
How old were they when you started CDing?
grapefruit / 4400 posts
I have a bunch of different diapers, and like them all for different reasons. Although now knowing what I know, I would stick with Tots Bots Easy Fit w/ velcro for my entire stash if I could!
My laundry routine is pretty simple– LO is only 2 1/2 months old, so no solids yet. Take out the inserts as I dump the diaper into the pail, turn the liner inside out and dump the diapers out for laundry day, use Tide (GASP!!! TIDE!!! But it works great for us and I didn’t want to have a bunch of different detergents for every little thing), and hang them to dry. Easy peasy!
honeydew / 7687 posts
You might want to mention what “stripping” is for anyone reading who hasn’t research cloth diapering
I’m excited to try CDing when baby arrives next month, but I have to say that I was way too nervous to buy all one type of diapers, I know that different brands fit differently and I didn’t want to hate them all!
I also think its worth mentioning that a lot of online shops now have “trial” packages. I am too much of a planner to wait until baby is here and then order one – but if someone is waffling on trying it, they’d be a great, inexpensive option to try a few brands at once.
apricot / 464 posts
Great post! I agree the laundry is way easier than I’d thought. I still hate other laundry, but diapers are easy. I think about what I hate about other laundry- folding big items, finding things inside out, sorting, the wrinkles, putting away to multiple locations- and it makes sense that diapers are easier!
honeydew / 7968 posts
that’s a LOT of cloth diapers! lol. really makes for a good pic though!
GOLD / grape / 85 posts
love the diapers hung on the clothesline! almost makes you forget what they’re really for
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
That’s such a beautiful picture of all your CD’s hanging in the wind – it’s colorcoded too! I stopped CDing my first because of her super sensitive skin (ever since we stopped – zero rashes)… but I want to try again with my 2nd… it really is so much more cost-effective. I hate spending money on disposable diapers and wipes each month!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Love the pic of the diapers hanging to dry!
kiwi / 540 posts
I love cloth diapering, but it’s only because my DH does the HARDEST part…….which is dumping the diapers into the washing machine!! I do everything else (adjusting settings, adding soap, drying, and stuffing), but for me, that’s the fun part! I’ve never had to dump the diapers in, but oh gosh, I can smell them through the washing machine when I go and press the buttons. Yuck! DH also gags too! But, somehow, he’s more okay doing this than taking out a dirty bag of disposables to the trash bin….go figure. =P
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
You forgot one big part in making it easy – having DH stuff them all!
Mr. Stroller is our master stuffer around here.
honeydew / 7589 posts
@Mrs. Superhero: Could you post exactly what your stash contains? Like, how many covers, how many and what kind of prefolds, boosters, etc. That would be super helpful!
blogger / apricot / 366 posts
Great post! And I agree with keeping it simple. We’ve stuck with BumGenius instead of trying a bunch of different types and it works.
And whaaatt?! You can use flushable liners with any cloth diaper? I’ve been so nervous about starting solids but this could be the answer to my prayers!! What brand is recommended?
squash / 13199 posts
I really agree with committing to one brand and keeping the laundry. This has worked for us too!
honeydew / 7444 posts
Love the picture! Our system is similar to yours, and it works. When i went to visit my parents, my mom was horrified that i left the dirty diapers in the bag for more than a day. She actually LIKED cleaning LO’s dirty diapers!
clementine / 773 posts
It’s a matter of personal preference, but I’m glad we have a diverse stash, especially in the NB stage. We’ve faced challenges getting the right fit so that there are no pee leaks (skinny legs), and DH would have told me to give up if we only had one option.
I’m doing laundry every day right now, and I love it! We have a front-loader that I can program for a CD cycle, which helps. I actually look at every diaper before it goes in for the first rinse, then look at them again before the wash cycle to see all the poop gone! (I know I’m weird, but it’s so satisfying!)
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
LOVE LOVE. As a FTM, you have eased my dangling nerves about our decision to CD. We just received a whole stash of CD goodies from Amazon and I can’t wait to get everything prepped
honeydew / 7589 posts
I LOVE the applecheeks, but I’m having a hard time justifying the cost since I can buy AIO’s for less than they cost, and then I don’t have to buy inserts! What makes them better than AIO’s?
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
@Coco Bee: it would be very hard without your own laundry (people do it, but it’s harder). Was it the one size fuzzibunz?
@Mrs. Tricycle: I started both my girls at about a week old, you can read about it here: http://www.hellobee.com/2012/06/06/on-cloth-diapering-a-newborn/
@tequiero21: it was all the covers for both girls before I sold my little diapers.
@Mrs. High Heels: I found that using disposables at night keeps my girls from rashing. That and cutting dairy for a bit with Wonder Baby. I know most people can do cloth at night, but their skin is super sensitive and they can’t be wet for that long. And I’m an artist…if I can make a rainbow I always will!
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
@cranberryapple: the ammonia is a bit brutal, I just hold my breath. I prefer doing laundry every 3 days to having a weeks worth of disposables rotting in the house.
@Mrs. Stroller: I don’t stuff mine! I just lay the insert on top.
@Arden: I will try and do a post on my stash soon
@Mrs. Hopscotch: I use the Kushies liners because they are available locally. I’ve liked the MotherEase one’s when I can find them because I can reuse them if I wash them (when they’ve just been peed on)
@MusicaV: you’re crazy! haha! I did a looot of research and knew that Applecheeks was usuable on babies as little as 5 lbs without leaking.
@mrsjyw: If you have any questions once you get going, ask away!
@Arden: With Applecheeks you can use them as a cover and insert, not just as a pocket diaper. If you do that you only have to replace the cover a couple times a day instead of at every change. So I have around 30 inserts but only 12 covers, so it’s not that expensive.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. Superhero: yeah they were OS.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Arden: what brand of AIO’s are you looking at? AIO’s are generally the most expensive option. Also, pocket diapers come with inserts so you don’t pay extra for them.
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
@Coco Bee: I picked a two size system, I was very skeptical that a one size would fit a newborn well.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. Superhero: It fit him okay during the first month. I used them up until 4 months before I retired them for a new system. I used a similar pocket OS style and had the same issues.
I might have been willing to continue selling previous stashes and finding the diapers that work for us if we didn’t have to pay for laundry. I just feel like now we’ve paid way more for 7 months of CDing than I would have to pay for two years of sposies. It’s a shame.
coconut / 8305 posts
We cloth diaper and LOVE IT! I got a variety though and glad I did b/c one that everyone raved about just didn’t fit her well and I was thankful I didn’t have a whole stash of them! lol We haven’t started solids yet so things are still uber easy. I’m hoping that liners will do the trick but I’m still getting a diaper sprayer just in case. lol
honeydew / 7589 posts
@Coco Bee: BumGenius Freestyle, GroVia, they are all about $20 per AIO diaper, AND they are one-size.
These Applecheeks are about $20 or more, and you have to buy them twice because they are two sizes.
So it seemed a lot to me for a pocket diaper…
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Arden: ooooh ok ay. I get it
You can always find BG and GV used though. They are really popular diapers.
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Would you mind telling me how you strip the diapers? We use Rockin’ Green’s Funk Rock, which works wonders, but is a bit pricey. Do you use bleach?