Over the summer we made a decision to skip the traditional childbirth education classes at our hospital. Because the classes weren’t specifically focused on our particular interests, we decided to look elsewhere for childbirth preparation. Our doula will provide the basics during a prenatal visit, but I also want to spend time learning specific techniques on my own. Here are some options:
History: Developed by Dr. Bradley, an obstetrician, in the 1960s. He believed his role was like that of a lifeguard watching swimmers in a pool – in 94% of births he takes a backseat to the husband/wife team (the swimmers are fine on their own); it’s only when something goes wrong that he steps in (a swimmer gets a cramp).
Basics: Goal is to prepare for natural childbirth and prep a woman’s partner to be a labor coach. The classes also cover nutrition, exercise and baby care.
Classes: 12 weeks of classes with 130 pg workbook. It’s suggested women begin attending classes around the fifth month of pregnancy.
Techniques: Emphasizes relaxed abdominal breathing and relaxation throughout labor (think dark room, eyes closed, etc.).
Commentary: Over 86% of women who complete the course have had spontaneous, unmedicated vaginal births. If you’ve watched 19 Kids and Counting, the Duggars use the Bradley method.
More Information: Visit The Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth
History: Lamaze was developed by Fernand Lamaze, a French doctor, in the 1950s. Now an international nonprofit organization.
Basics: Strives to increase a woman’s confidence in her ability to give birth so labor and delivery can occur naturally without medical intervention. Based on Lamaze’s six healthy birth practices.
Classes: 12 hours of instruction beginning around the 7th month of pregnancy.
Techniques: Classes include information on focused breathing, as well as other strategies like massage, walking, position changes and hydrotherapy. It’s more about distraction from the pain rather than relaxation.
Commentary: Their traditional emphasis on rhythmic breathing has fallen out of favor. The course is more holistic, and a much smaller percentage of women trained in Lamaze have an unmedicated vaginal birth compared to other methods.
More Information: Visit Lamaze International for Parents
History: HypnoBirthing was developed in the 1980s by Marie Mongan, a hypnotherapist.
Basics: Classes will train your body to go into complete relaxation to help reduce sensation (aka – pain) from surges (aka – contractions) during birthing (aka – labor). Reframes the birthing process to eliminate the fear-tension-pain cycle.
Classes: 5 sessions at 2 ½ hours each
Techniques: Daily practice before the birth is required. Using self-hypnosis (positive affirmations, chants, etc.), women are able to put themselves in a highly relaxed state.
Commentary: Sometimes described as a gentler form of the Bradley method, its goal is an unmedicated vaginal delivery, but there’s more openness to medical intervention when necessary.
More Information: Visit HypnoBirthing – The Mongan Method
History: Developed by Pam England, a home birth midwife and mother, in the 1990s.
Classes: Curriculum isn’t set in stone and often revolves around the concerns/interests of the students. Teachers are referred to as “mentors.”
Basics: Birth is a transformative rite of passage with a spiritual aspect. Classes prepare women for the emotional impacts of childbirth in all its forms (c-sections, natural delivery, etc.).
Techniques: Women learn to build a “pain-coping mindset” by holding ice for prolonged stretches. You are not learning how to relax, breath, or chant.
Commentary: A certain amount of New Age spirituality is involved. Women are encouraged to journal and create art about the birthing process. It’s unique in that it doesn’t emphasize a specific childbirth outcome, but rather the childbirth “journey.”
More Information: Visit Birthing From Within
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Based on my own comfort level, I’m pretty sure Birthing From Within isn’t for me – I’m not a feelings person and don’t want to spend time talking about my emotions. Lamaze is a little too broad for my interests, and I’m comfortable enough with the nutrition/exercise aspects of pregnancy that I’ll pass on the Bradley Method. That leaves HypnoBirthing. I don’t know if I’m 100% sold, but I think it’s worth investigating. I hate flying and it’s a HUGE anxiety trigger. In the past, when I’ve had to fly, I’ve listened to self-hypnosis, guided relaxation, and affirmation type exercise, and they were all relatively helpful. Hopefully, a similar approach will work for childbirth preparation.
Did you commit to a specific style of childbirth education? What’s your take?
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We went to the “traditional” class offered at the hospital. It was really horrible, they stayed incredibly high level on most things and 6 weeks of 2 hour classes later, I still didn’t know some of the things I had hoped to learn. In hindsight, I wish I would have done more research like you!!
grapefruit / 4120 posts
We did two classes last time – Hypnobirthing and one that was more of a potpourri. I enjoyed hypnobirthing but it was really hard for me to go that far inside myself. It depends a lot on your personality. This time we’ve been working with a Lamaze doula. Birthing from Within is a great book but I don’t know what the course would be like.
persimmon / 1161 posts
I’m doing the hypnobabies home study course right now and I’m almost done (at almost 36 weeks). I’ve been enjoying it, but I haven’t given birth yet so I can’t say for sure how helpful it is. However, my friend who is a labor and delivery nurse (and fond of medicated patients) said that it can even be worth it to get you to the point of receiving medication or even if you are having a c section to keep you as calm and centered as possible.
pomegranate / 3225 posts
Bradley classes were 45 mins away, so we ended up doing a natural series of classes taught by a local yoga studio. I was really happy with them. I wanted something more than the hospital class, and my friend gave me all the Bradley books, which I was a little surprised to find were somewhat dated IMO.
Hypnobabies does interest me, too… so I might try to buy the CD. We’ll see what happens at showtime!
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If you’re interested in Hypnobirthing, you should look into HypnoBabies- my midwife said she’s been much more impressed by the moms who’ve had HypnoBabies classes vs. Hypnobirthing. I was also interested in Hypnobirthing but once I looked into it, it seems like most people have more success or are happier with HypnoBabies. I’m calling to set up my classes today, good luck deciding!
honeydew / 7589 posts
I agree with the pp, after a lot of research and being a doula for women who have used Hypnobirthing and Hypnobabies, I’ve been much more impressed by Hypnobabies and that’s what I’ll be doing with this baby.
I’m using the home-study course because there aren’t any Hypnobabies classes in my area.
grape / 85 posts
My hospital offered a (free!) class on hypnosis for childbirth that was very helpful if only because partners were required to go, too…so my husband knew better what I was trying to do and could better support me.
Because that class wasn’t scheduled until practically my due date, I also ordered and did the Hypnobabies CDs, and skimmed the Hypnobirthing book. I was a little worried that it would have been better to just concentrate on one method, but I still got a lot out of both the classes and the CDs. I had hoped for an unmedicated vaginal birth but didn’t manage the unmedicated part (I blame that on the induction pitocin and back labor). All in all I spent a lot of time thinking about and doing hypnosis…but I think it was worth it (despite the epidural) because it really made me feel much more prepared and relaxed going into the whole childbirth experience.
If anyone is interested in buying the CD’s, I’ve been meaning to sell them…
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
We did Bradley Classes, and had a great experience with it! I learned so much about the stages of labor and my own body. Our Bradley Instructor also became our Doula… and we had the non-medicated birth experience we hoped for.
guest
I love Bradley!
guest
First off I want to say I wasn’t against medication. ^_^ I thought I had a high pain tolerance and thought I could give birth naturally. I went through my hospital provided classes and I read the hypnobirthing book. When I gave birth I was able to handle the pain through the hypnobirthing method till my doctor broke my water, I was already in labor for 2 days with mild contractions but strong enough to wake me up every hour or so during the night and day, I was very tired when they broke my water and I couldn’t concentrate on the hypobirthing method because it’s all about self relaxing and thinking about calming things. I ended having a epidural and slept for a few hours to get to fully dialated, when I woke up it was time to push and since I was just rested it was great. I was happy that hypobirthing got me to the point where I could have my epidural without much pain. You seem way more prepared than I was. Good luck on finding what is right for you!
pear / 1787 posts
Thank you for this great overview!
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
@Arden: @ChelseaRose: Happy to hear about HypnoBabies — thought it was the same thing as HypnoBirth. I’ll totally check it out.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
When I get pregnant, I want to look into the Bradley method.
grapefruit / 4669 posts
This was helpful, thank you! I’m still heavily considering epidural, but I’m also intrigued by natural childbirth.
guest
I decided on Bradley because I liked that it focused on the husband/partner as the birthing coach. After starting the classes I felt like my husband and I were partners in the pregnancy process…not like I was in it alone and he had to “deal with” his pregnant wife.
Also, just to clarify for readers, the exercise and nutrition component of the Bradley method are specific for pregnancy – not general exercise and nutrition information. It’s more about specific ‘exercises’ to do daily that will prepare your body for an easier birth (think kegel, squats, and other targeted activity)
pea / 19 posts
We took Hypnobirthing classes and although I haven’t given birth yet I feel very calm and prepared for the experience. I am 4, almost 5 days late and the hypnosis tracks and affirmations have helped me stay calm and not get anxious or upset that my baby isn’t ready yet. My plan is to go med free but I am prepared for any turns my birthing could take. In general, I can be a high stress/anxious person and I really feel the Hypnobirthing classes have helped me through this pregnancy and are techniques I can use throughout life. I have 2 friends who used this method and it was successful for them. It wasn’t “pain free” but it helped them manage the pain and both said they don’t think they could have done it with out the preparation.