A little over a year ago, I wrote a post on the topic of redshirting potential Kindergartners. And since we’re less than a year out from having our own Kindergartner (should we send Lil’ CB to Kindergarten “on time”), I thought I’d revisit the topic with some new information that has come to light.
Redshirting, in a nutshell, is the practice of holding back Kindergarten-age students from starting school “on time” because their birthdays are close to the cut-off date (the date by which you need to turn 5). It gets its name from the similar practice with college athletes. And like college athletes, most often it is males that are redshirted. In our district, which has a cut-off date of September 30, boys with summer and September birthdays are often redshirted by their parents.
I have always been in the camp of starting students on-time — after all, cutoff dates exist for a reason. I’ve always felt that the decision should be made on a case by case basis and that the most important factor in determining whether or not to redshirt should be emotional maturity, not academic ability or just the sheer fact that a child will be the youngest in his class. With that in mind, we have always leaned heavily towards sending Lil’ CB (who has a September birthday) to Kindergarten on time.
To be honest, though, the idea of having a Kindergartner next year terrifies me and makes me want to curl up into a ball and cry. Even though I teach Kindergarten myself and know what sweet babies my students are at the beginning of the year, compared to preschoolers, they seem so old. And not babies anymore. See? Cue curling up into a ball and crying. It’s almost enough to make me waver on my original stance. Almost.
And then I read this article and my stance was reaffirmed and strengthened. Because for the first time, I was reading something that actually supported my thoughts against redshirting. The article, which is a fascinating and quick read, cites research that shows the benefits to being the youngest in the class, and conversely, the potential negative effects of being the oldest in the class. The article echoed much of what I felt myself as a youngest-in-the-class child: I loved being the youngest in my class and enjoyed the challenge of being a year younger than some of classmates and doing the same work. The research in the article pointed to the fact that children learn well from older peers and often, in the pursuit to keep up with them, end up surpassing them. Plus, the fact that younger students learn to deal with and overcome challenges, rather than having everything come quickly and easily for them, gives them an outlook for learning that goes hand in hand with Carol Dweck’s incredible research on the psychology of success and the “growth mindset.”
I’ve seen this in Lil’ CB’s interactions with other children already. He does incredibly well around older children and strives to keep up with them, pushing himself harder. On the other hand, when among younger children, while he can take the lead with some prompting, he also often ends up acting silly and reverting to more immature behavior.
I know it’s a little silly to be thinking about the psychology of success as it pertains to 4 and 5 year-olds, but I do think there is validity in this argument and I have seen it play out in my own classroom and with my own child. And while I still believe decisions should be made on a case by case basis, in our case, with this information in tow, we’ll be sending our little cowboy to Kindergarten next year as a four year-old. Talk to me again in May at Kindergarten registration when I’m silently weeping in the corner, curled up into a ball…but for now, it looks like Lil’ CB will be heading to big boy school, probably as the youngest and smallest in his class. And really, I think he’ll do well.
It’s me I’m worried about!
Sigh…at least I’ve got this to hold on to:
squash / 13208 posts
MY DS missed the cut-off – its Sept 1 and he was born Sept 23. He was sooo ready for K too!! Like your DS mine does so much better with older kids – when around younger kids he is much more immature so I am a little worried how he will do next year. I also think he will be so bored in K! He already knows everything he needs to know to go to K. But rules are rules and there are no exceptions around here!
I will say that 3 boys with August birthdays were all held back by their parents in DS’s class
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
My brother’s pre-school teachers pushed my mom to keep my brother back. We still don’t know to this day why they did that (cut-off in our district was Dec 31 back then and his bday was Sept) since he could already read and write! I think it was for social maturity but he did fine.
I’m not a fan of red-shirting in general. Unless it’s in college sports.
honeydew / 7488 posts
Thank you for continuing to write on this!! Even though I decided to send my DD to Kinder “on-time” (for us, this means 5 yr by 9/1, and she is a late late August baby), I still have my doubts! We managed to keep things status quo and comfortable for her by continuing in Montessori early childhood for one more year, but next year she will go to Public school and the plan is for her to enter 1st grade (she will still be 5 when school officially starts, eek!). Sometimes I wonder if I should make her do Kinder again in Public school like her BFF will do (my DD is only DAYS older) but I feel that she will be so bored. Your post reaffirms that she will definitely be able to hang with the bigger kids, and then some.
My DS on the other hand is an early September baby and we had planned to send him “on-time” as well, but that means he will be the oldest! Some parents would red-shirt him, but we’re probably going to gauge when we get closer and see what we think.
What kills me is the inconsistency between different parts of the country! According to your school district’s cut-off dates, @Mrs.Cowgirl, I would be red-shirting my DS by sending him to Kinder when he is almost 6, but for us, it would be considered “on-time”! It’s just a few days difference, but it means an entire year!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@T-Mom: YES. That’s something I forgot to mention in the post! That kills me…My niece is TWO DAYS younger than CB and her district’s cut-off is September 1, so they’ll be in two different grades. Meanwhile, NYC schools have a cut-off of Dec 31! It’s absolutely crazy how much difference is from district to district. I wish they would streamline it across the country…it would make so much sense!
bananas / 9229 posts
My birthday’s November 4. When I started kindergarten, I had missed the cutoff date – I think it was September or something then? I had to test into kindergarten and ultimately started a year younger. I was 4 going into kindergarten and 5 when I started first grade. I was always the baby in school but I don’t think it was a bad idea at all!
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
I’m in 100% agreement with everything you said here. It drove me crazy when people would redshirt simply because of age with no consideration to other factors. There are definitely kiddos that aren’t emotionally mature enough, but I think that’s really only a small handful.
persimmon / 1081 posts
I read somewhere that redshirting is a contributor to the achievement gap. Rich parents can afford to keep their kids home an extra year, poor parents cannot.
I don’t know how prevalent redshirting is, but I also wonder if it’s a factor in kindergarten becoming more academic.
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
I was the youngest in my class, born on cut-off date. I loved it….until I was the last to drive, last to turn 21, etc. Other than that, I agree that starting on the young side can be great and pushes kids to excel as the youngest
pomegranate / 3503 posts
I worried about this last year when we sent our son to the 3s program. Cutoff in our area is sep 1 and he is a mid august baby so he will always be one of the youngest kids in class. Compared to other 3 year olds that have a few months on him, I did notice quite a difference in maturity and skills he was lacking. I worked very closely with his teacher last year to assess his abilities. At the end of the year, we were both very satisfied with his progress. He was able to keep up academically with everyone else. He, naturally, is more on the timid side but his interactions with his classmates really opened up his personality. It was very exciting to see him blossom in that way. Because he was an only child for a while and the oldest in our family, I think it was nice that he had older classmates that mirror the roll of an older sibling and challenge him a bit.
honeydew / 7091 posts
I was always the youngest because my mom had to fight to get me in since I missed the cutoff by quite a bit (cutoff was mid-August and I was born late September). I LOVED it. DD was born in January, so it’s not much of an issue for us, but if it was, I don’t think I would hold my children back. Especially because, with my genes, there’s no chance they’d excel at a sport in the future
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
Kindergarten is much tougher these days and I will be making the decision when my son starts probably at the very last minute, mostly because of emotional readiness.
kiwi / 614 posts
Thank you for this, as a Sept 1 baby myself and with a daughter born in August, I agree with everything you said. I am 100% for sending my daughter to school on time. I do not think I would be any better off today had my parents held me back.
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
Our districts just changed the cut off from December to September first. My oldest is a November birthday and I have to say if they hadn’t changed the date I would probably have held him back. He was just not mature enough. His fine motor skills aren’t that great yet and he had such a rough time in transitional kindergarten we ended up putting him back in pre school. Now all three of my boys will start kinder next year. I am just hoping he is ready then (he has to be) He will be two months shy of six and my twins will be 5 and one month. So in their class they will be the oldest and youngest. I am just trying to play it by ear but their education is a constant worry on my mind.
persimmon / 1345 posts
The article makes perfect sense. My 13 month younger brother was put in the same grade as me bc we went to a private school and my mom was a night nurse. She preferred that we were picked up at the same time (Kinder was picked up at an earlier time than other grades). So essentially, he “skipped” kindergarten and went straight into first grade. He wasn’t just the youngest kid in class, he was younger by more than a yr! Physically, he was always the smallest but school wise, he excelled better than me and other classmates. He always won the highest GPA award every yr all the way up til high school. He later told me that bc he was the youngest, he pushed himself to work harder.
squash / 13764 posts
I was literally the youngest person in each of my grades (born Dec. 31st, which is the cut off in NYC public schools) and I never minded it! It was only an issue in college when I was the very last one to turn 21
And omg that photo? I DIE.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
Great post, thanks for sharing.
The cut-off here is September 1st and my LO was born August 8th, so it’s a conversation we’ve had. We lean towards letting him go on time, but have decided to leave the door open. If he doesn’t seem like he’s at all ready then we might consider holding him back a year.
My MIL had two August babies (with a September 1st cut-off…DH was born August 30th). Of the two she sent the older one on time and held DH back a year. She told me that she just didn’t feel like he was emotionally ready yet. Both are very outgoing, confident and successful, and the only con DH has is that he was a year older than most of his friends.
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
Love this post!
Our districts cut off date is September 1, and C has a late October birthday. She’ll be one of the oldest kids in her class!
My husband and I were both one of the youngest in our grades. I have a late spring bday and his is over the summer. I never noticed that I was the youngest until all my friends could drive long before me!
pomelo / 5298 posts
This is a big deal to me and I’m on the side of not red-shirting. When I was pregnant, my original due date was 8/23. Our cut-off is 9/1. I told my doctor that I didn’t care what we needed to do, but I wasn’t going to have a September baby. I didn’t want her to just miss the cut-off.
I’m a late July birthday and never had a problem being younger in school.
And even at 2, LO is ahead of most of her peers. She does best with the children that are about 6 months or more older than her. She certainly is happier and achieves more by looking to the older childrens behaviors.
honeydew / 7488 posts
@Mrs. Train: you are going to have all three boys in Kinder at once! Wow mama! How fun (and crazy) is that going to be??
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
@T-Mom: yeah it will be a bit crazy. My oldest is a November birthday and then my twins are in July so they will be in the same school year. I have a feeling we will be well known at whatever school we go to.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@LindsayInNY: hey, my birthday is the day after yours!
my mom had me tested in, too…I think our cut-off was 10/2. I loved being the youngest!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@Mrs. Blue: yep, totally agree. Only a small handful, for sure.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
I was the oldest in the class because of having started the school system in Korea which is a half semester ahead of the calendar here and because the school admins were afraid that I wouldn’t pick-up English as quickly as I did. While in the end, I did flourish, I remember HATING being the oldest. Developmentally, emotionally, etc. Academically I did well, but I think I could’ve thrived among my “peers” during schooling years.
I am def against red-shirting, just because of personal experience.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@mrsmate: it totally contributes to the achievement gap! And yes, @looch: kindergarten is definitely tougher and more academic these days, but I don’t really think this is one of the reasons why…most of the reason is because of the push-down effect and understanding what students need to really compete in the global economy. It does make for a ridiculous range of academic levels within one class, though. I have students who come in not knowing a single letter or what their name looks like in print to students who were redshirted and come in reading. Ultimately, the kids that come in lower make more progress because they push and work harder because they have to. It’s really interesting…and kind of crazy to work with and around!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@mrsjyw: that’s such an interesting perspective! Thanks for sharing! I’ve always wondered about the reverse side of things, especially in situations like yours where you weren’t really given a choice. Thanks!
bananas / 9229 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: Aw, yay! Do they even test in anymore? I didn’t mind it either – it was always my claim to fame. That I was the youngest. Up until law school I was too! In law school there was a NY girl who was a late November birthday. She’s the only one I’ve ever encountered!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@Mrs. Train: interesting! I am sure it will be fun for all of your boys to be in school together! I wonder if the rise of red shirting helped lead to the change in date for your district?
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@LindsayInNY: in my distinct, they only test into first grade and then only if the child has had private kindergarten, where cut-off dates don’t matter so much. That’s what happened in my case, too — my parents worked full-time and the public school only offered half-day K, so I went to private school for K and tested into the public school for 1st. We don’t see this a ton now that most schools have full-day K — maybe 1 every two years?
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@hilsy85: haha! Me too! And it was so annoying having to have my parents sign things for me during the first 2 months of college!
I know, that picture makes me tear up every time I look at it!!!
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: it may have been. They opened up a grade called transitional kindergarten for the kids with the September -December birthdays. I really wished James had a kind teacher like you. His TK experience was awful. He is not writing or reading yet and he came home crying that he was stupid. His teacher said to us, he needs to learn to write that’s what we are doing. He was devastated and I couldn’t watch it anymore so we pulled him back into preschool. He is not technically being red shirted because he will start kinder according to our district but we did take him out of that class and he is doing much better with his brothers. Now it really is like I have triplets!
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
I loved being the youngest in the class… I was a grade skipper and a summer birthday, so I was a full 2 years younger than many of the kids…
One drawback is that it did make me the tiniest person in the class too and therefore prone to bullying. I think it is a different calculus for smaller kids… but despite our daughter being the smallest in the class most likely, she’ll be in her regular Montessori class, so early KG shouldn’t be a problem
cantaloupe / 6086 posts
I ran into this idea that the youngest excel at my work. I recruit for a consulting firm and we hire really smart kids out of college, among others. I run their background checks and noticed many times they were early fall birthdays so didn’t turn 22 until after graduating. But they all turned out to be amazingly smart and hard-working! It surprised me to see it happen so often but it makes sense.
pomelo / 5866 posts
I was the youngest and excelled. LO was youngest in her preschool class last year (we entered her mid-year on her birthday) and then suddenly switched to the oldest in her class this year (new cutoff date). I think she is a bit immature -even more so now- but well, we have our baby for another year-except that she has excellent communication skills. I wonder if this will negatively affect her somehow though. I am more concerned about her playgroup. Meaning- I would prefer a group of good kids/parents to befriend last year compared to this year.
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California students now must be five by the beginning of the school year in order to start kindergarten. On the other hand, as part of the Kindergarten Readiness Act of 2010, CA now requires all school districts to offer transitional kindergarten to students born between September and December (older four-year-olds who miss the cut-off.) My son, who was born in October 2012, will qualify for this program, assuming nothing changes in the next four years.
As I understand it, the kindergarten curriculum is usually modified for transitional k to include more play-based learning… sort of along the lines of kindergarten back when I attended 25+ years ago!
I’ve heard parents complain about having to send their kids to kindergarten for two years. But I’m excited about the idea of (essentially) free preschool taught by a credentialed teacher!
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: thank you for posting about this! I completely agree that each child should be evaluated on a case by case basis
I’m happy to hear from those that were the youngest and tested into school early that they enjoyed it and don’t have anything negative to say. My LO has an early November birthday….and she’s only 23 months but I think about this a lot. Our cutoff is September so she would be the oldest unless an exception is made for her (meaning she tests in early)…but in other states the cutoff is the end of the calendar year and she would be allowed in as one of the youngest. Well, so far we’re leaning towards pushing her ahead solely based on her personality – she physically big for her age, she’s very verbal and social…some people have asked me if she’s turning 3 when the topic of her upcoming birthday party comes up. She is no where near a 3 year old in terms of her motor skills but she has a killer memory and enjoys learning so much that people are amazed when I tell them she’s not quite 2 yet. So she is enrolled in a 2s “class” as the youngest and we are totally open to keeping her back if she’s not socially ready to move on at the end of the year…the article is encouraging in making me realize she’ll be fine if she ends up being the youngest even if that means she struggles a bit to keep up early on
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I too (like an above commenter) was 4 when I began kindergarten. Of course, the 1980s was different, but I think people are pushing their kids so much these days – to be better academically than their peers, to test better, to be more mature…
I’m not a fan of redshirting at all. I DO think there are going to be some situations where it’s appropriate, but overall, I don’t think it’s great idea.
Also, I can’t even imagine if I was 4 years old and being in class with a 6 year old!
pineapple / 12234 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: I don’t know how I missed this post!
I’ve been hearing about red shirting more and more lately (just started a thread on it). Thanks for writing this, it helps to feel like I’m not the only one against it!
blogger / persimmon / 1398 posts
I’m super late to comment here… but thank you thank you thank you for writing this post!! We’ve been struggling (as you know) with the start of Kindergarten… and I’ve been wondering if we did the right thing here, even though I am against redshirting. This reminds me that, as tough as it’s been, I really did do the right thing. Especially with our situation in mixed-aged classrooms.
PS – Not only do cut-off dates differ in school districts here, it’s also private vs. public. Drove me bonkers when we were searching last year!
PPS – We have friends that chose to redshirt, and seeing what they are up against developmentally… totally the right thing for their kiddo. So, while against it overall, I do believe there is a time and a place.