My darling son began rolling to sleep on his stomach when he was four months old. Since he could get there on his own and roll back to his back without any trouble, I have been totally fine just rolling with that. However, laying on his tummy through the night combined with a penchant for a full bedtime bottle led to some consistent issues with overnight diaper leaks. I swear, it seems like he produces a gallon of pee overnight. Over the course of the many months that followed, we have experimented with all sorts of remedies for providing extra absorbency to keep Colin dry and comfortable overnight (and of course, to keep mom and dad from dealing with the excessive laundry that the leaky diapers caused).
– Moving up a size in diapers for overnight: In the beginning, just moving up into regular Pampers, one size ahead of what C was wearing, solved the problem without much fuss. Sadly this tactic only lasted for a month or two.
– “Point Mr. Penguin down”: This advice on a Facebook mom’s group had me giggling, but it is totally true. With little boys, it’s important at bedtime (and really all the time, but most important at bed time) to make sure the penis is pointed downward so that the stream of pee points into the diaper, instead of up and out.
– Adding a cloth prefold inside the sized up diaper: This solution wasn’t a great fit for us, as I was never personally destined to do well with anything cloth diaper related. Using just one cloth diaper a day made orchestrating laundry difficult, since my loads were few and far between. Plus using a cotton prefold left C’s tushie in a less-than-desirable state. We tried this for a week and a half before scrapping the plan for something else. (Cloth diapering experts can probably give much better insight on this, as I have read all sorts of different solutions for those who use cloth. I rolled with what I already owned and failed, but I would love to hear if anyone has faced this as a cloth diaper user, I’m sure that readers would appreciate any insight you can share.)
– Switching to a diaper specifically designed for overnights, one size larger than what C wore during the day. This solution worked for us for a long time. I know many moms who swear by these, and although I hated buying a box of 40+ diapers without knowing if they would work, I gave in and bought a box of Huggies Overnites that I found on sale at Target. I’m glad I did, because they worked beautifully, and for months, it was easy to continue to adjust up a size every time they started to seem like they were bursting at the seams. This worked without a hitch until recently. Colin is currently in size 5 diapers during the day, and was wearing size 6 Huggies Overnites at night. But when the Overnites started leaking, a search on Amazon led me to the sad discovery that size 6 is the largest size they make (same holds true for the Pampers version). Sad, sad, sad.
– Doubling up: With no new supplies on hand, after 3 days in a row of soggy sheets in the morning, I experimented with what I had while surfing the web for products that could help. Surprisingly, an Overnite diaper with a regular diaper over top worked just fine. I could have just stuck with this, but so many layers of diaper seemed a bit constricting for C (not that he complained, but I could not imagine that it was too comfortable). This is still a valid option, but we don’t rely on it unless we have to.
– Adding a disposable doubler pad: A friend tipped me off on a very helpful product – diaper doubler pads. Basically they look like a maxi pad but without a sticky back, so that the liquid can soak from the doubler into the Overnite diaper. These pads are a great invention! I was wary at first, but from our first use, we were 100% sold. They are easy to use, can be dumped right into the diaper pail, and are relatively inexpensive.
– Tapering off liquids near bedtime: This is something that we are working on, but I have a very thirsty kid. He drinks about 20 ounces of milk a day, 6-8 of which are at bedtime. He is so attached to that bedtime milk, and I hate toying with our bedtime routine. Colin is always toting around his straw cup of water, and when he asks for more water with dinner, I have trouble saying no (as I am sure more people would – no one wants to be thirsty, right?!). So for now, I am dealing with this on the output side, rather than on the input end of things. I am sure as we get closer to the potty training stage (which is far, far from now), I will reevaluate since this will be a greater issue at that point.
Do you have a heavy wetter? Any other tips you’ve had luck with that you can share?
pomegranate / 3863 posts
I thought I was the only one with this problem! DS still leaks through his overnight diaper maybe 1x week at 14 months. I’ve never tried sizing up and didn’t know about the disposable doublers so you can be sure I’ll be trying those asap! Thanks!
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
Love calling it Mr Penguin I have yet to really call DS anything Maybe this would be a good way to start
olive / 64 posts
Informative! Luckily the night time diapers work for us for now. Our boys sound very similar and I’m curious, do you have a potty/potty seat yet? I feel like potty training is far away too but my Henry turns 2 in May and suddenly everyone is asking me about potty training!!!
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
We have had to use Pampers extra protection since he was big enough to wear them (size 3). And if he woke at night to eat, had to change the diaper or he would leak.
Even now at 21 months he absolutely soaks his night diaper. And doesn’t get any bottles. He just loves water and milk!
kiwi / 640 posts
This is exactly my son! We’re still in the 4-daytime/5-nighttime size, but I dread the day that we move up. Thanks for the link for the doublers, that will by my next solution!
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
@Mrs. Chocolate: haha we don’t use that name in the house – I call it his peepee for now (to him) and will eventually transition to the correct terminology when he knows not to yell it at the store. Just saw another mom say this and it made me laugh.
@Theresa: we have a seat that goes over the toilet (baby bjorn brand). He was showing interest a month or two ago, so I bought it and we had 3/4 nights where he pooped before the bath. Then one night he decided it was terrifying and now says “potty scary” and won’t go near it. I had no interest in potty training him early though. We will likely wait til at least 2.5.
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
This is so helpful. E soaks his overnight diaper every night, but for some reason I’ve never thought of moving him to a bigger size just for night. I’m going to try this and get some of the diaper doubler pads! Thank you!
ETA: Like C, my boys drink one of their biggest bottles at night, and I hate to mess with that because they don’t drink milk great during the day.
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
@buffalove: overnites go up to size 6, so hopefully you have some time
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We also love the diaper doublers! Works like a charm. Glad you’re sharing this great Mom “secret”
kiwi / 640 posts
@Mrs. Confetti: phew!
@Mrs. Blue: not sure what kind of diapers you use, but we use Pampers during the day, and for whatever reason the Huggies Overnights work better for DS at night. I think that’s what Mrs. Confetti used too? I think the Huggies feel rough/papery, but they don’t bother DS’s skin so I deal with it!
blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts
DS2 is on IV fluids at night in addition to continuous feeds through his feeding tube, and I just change his diaper twice during the night. Thankfully he doesn’t wake up much and goes back to sleep easily! I’m using a size up, haven’t gone to the overnights yet.
cherry / 104 posts
We cloth diaper for day and night, and finding a nighttime solution for my son was tricky. He was leaking all the time at about 2 months old. After a little research, we purchased some CDs made for night (kawaii goodnight heavy wetter) and put a wool cover over it. We haven’t had a leak since. Wool is seriously bullet proof! Best thing ever. And I only have to clean it if a poop explosion happens or it needs a little freshen up every few weeks. I got my wool covers from amazon for less than $30 each!
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
@Mrswonderwoman: So interesting. I am clueless about cloth, so thanks for sharing your tips for anyone else out there who could benefit
honeydew / 7504 posts
@Mrswonderwoman: I just ordered some Kawaii Good Nights this morning (RIGHT before reading this post)! We’ll see how it goes without the wool covers first, but good to know that they work for you!
apricot / 298 posts
Perfect! I was actually going to post on the boards today asking about overnight diapers, wondering if they are worth it, and other solutions parents might have.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
My daughter was a heavy wetter and even overnight diapers couldn’t contain her pee sometimes, but with my son… he has never woken up with leakage even when we put a regular daytime diaper on him for overnight. Good tips!
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This is something we’ve struggled with for a while too! Surprisingly, the best overnight diapers we’ve found turned out to be the least expensive! For my 18 month old boy, the Parent’s Choice overnight diapers sold at Walmart work THE best. I’ve tried the Pampers and Huggies overnight diapers and those all resulted in leaks. I also go up two sizes (6s at night, usually wears 4s during the day) and that also helped when he started leaking through the 5s. Hope this helps someone out… besides, if you test drive the Walmart diapers and they don’t work out, at least you didn’t spend too much money on them and you can still use them for daytime/naps.
pea / 5 posts
We use cloth and hit a point where our little guy was soaking through at night after just a couple of hours. We tried the Kawaii heavy wetter and still soaked through. A hemp insert does the trick though! It holds him all night and 12 hours later he’s still dry.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
yep, had a very heavy wetter. Pointing down was something I learned the second day home from the hospital. A friend told me. It was no obvious to this female. Why would it be?!
For heavy nights I sized up, then sized up on overnight diaps, put a cloth diap with no insert over and then a cloth diap with a single insert over.
Now that he uses the potty, I go in before I go to bed and take him to the potty. He barely wakes up, pees and he’s dry at that time so there’s much less for the nighttime pullup to handle.
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
thanks for the tips, Summer has occasional leakage too
belly sleeper as well… I use pampers baby dry and have rarely ever had a problem but I’ll definitely try some overnights on your recommendation
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
We have tried all of these. My twins are very heavy wetter. Rut now though we are able to use the larger sized good nights and they are ok.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
Hehe we always advise boy parents to point that peepee down!
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
i haven’t gotten to the heavy overnight wets yet, but i know it’s coming!
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We use cloth diapers for over nights. I start out with two large hemp doublets folded in half sort of. Half in half, I guess, so in the front there are 4 layers. Then, a prefold diaper and a fleece layer on top to keep bottoms dry. This is the only thing that gets my boys through the night!
coffee bean / 48 posts
We use cloth too, but if we were using disposables and getting leaks at night I would definitely get a wool soaker to put on over the disposable. It can hold some ridiculous amount of liquid without feeling wet and it’s actually really easy to care for. And if you’re only using it for nights you could probably just get one or two and they would last you for quite a while… Some sort of thick fleece over the diaper might also be at option?
blogger / pear / 1563 posts
We’ve had the problem where he wants his diaper changed in the MOTN, but he doesn’t often leak. I just can’t believe he’s in a Size 5 diaper! We’re still hanging out in a size 3 if you can believe that.
Size 4 is his “overnight” size when we’re out of town.
We also CD though, so we’ve also had to come up with CDing solutions along the way. But, once we added a bamboo layer to his diapers we don’t get leaks. But, LP is NOT a heavy drinker/wetter.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
we had to stop using a cloth diaper because of this problem! Once we switched to honest, it stopped. I think he may have outgrown this though.
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Glad you found something that works. Our night time solution of cloth diapers has worked very well