We have been wanting the kids to share a room for awhile now, but decided to wait until Jaren was at least a year old to make the transition. We have a few reasons for wanting them to share a room. We’re hoping a shared room will promote sibling closeness, and provide them more opportunities to bond. Noelle has been waking up in the middle of the night and crawling into our bed for the last year, so we’re crossing our fingers that having another body in the room will give both of them that extra sense of security and comfort. We also think it’ll be easier for one parent to do the bedtime routine with both kids at once if they’re in a shared room (we currently divide and conquer most nights). Finally, having them share a room would also free up one of the other rooms to be used as a guestroom/office space. Now whether our assumptions are true or not is a whole other story, but it’s a risk we’ve decided to take.
Currently, they each have their own rooms, but they’re largely undecorated and plain. Since we’ll be moving them both to a larger, unoccupied room, what better time than now to create a space for them that is warm, inviting, and pleasant? I’ve been racking my brain, and scouring the interwebs to come up with a gender neutral color scheme that would appeal to them both. Here are a few color schemes swirling around in my mind…
Orange is my favorite color right now, so when I first started thinking about colors, it immediately came to mind. It’s such a bright, lively, happy color. I’m really drawn to rooms 1 and 3 because the colors are more muted. I like that room 3 has both yellow and orange accents, and there’s an air of sophistication to it. However, when I look at the brightness of room 2, I second guess myself and wonder if the muted colors are too adult, if that makes any sense. The brightness of room 2 gives it a sense of childlike whimsy and freshness that I really appreciate.
These rooms make me feel so happy! I love the vibrant pop of the yellow against the lighter shades of blue, balanced out by hints of gray and cream. The aqua and sunburst yellow scheme makes me want to lounge by the pool while sipping a mai tai. I even want that “happy” pillow featured in room 1. The pop of coral on the bottom is a pleasant surprise I quite like as well. What say you?
I have long admired the gray and yellow color scheme. I like the simplicity and freshness of the yellow against a clean, simple gray. It would be easy to add other pops of color here too, like how the top left room has pops of navy added throughout. The bright yellow accent wall featured in room 1 is nice too. I *need* those curtains in the bottom room! I also really like elephants, and I think this theme would be perfect with some elephant decals and other elephant decor.
The vibrancy of these rooms make me go oooh, ahhh. The reds and blues contrast each other well, and the colors are so bold and beautiful. I’m not sure whether I like the darker blues featured in the top two pictures, or the paler blues featured in the bottom two pictures. I feel like you can go a lot of different directions just by choosing different shades of blue and red. I do really like that the reds in room 3 look more coral, giving the room a hint of feminism to an otherwise gender neutral room.
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As you can see, I’ve made no definitive decisions and am as torn as ever on how to proceed… so I need your opinion bees, which color scheme gets your vote? Is there one you don’t like? And if you have an even better idea that’s not presented here, please share!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
I vote yellow and blue. I think that would be easier for each one to add their own pop of color if they wanted too.
pear / 1614 posts
I like the orange and gray with the bright colors (#2).
Enjoyed this post on room sharing. We have 2 boys and while there is enough space for them to have their own rooms, there is only one other bedroom upstairs (besides ours) and I want both kids on the same floor as me, at least while they are small.
kiwi / 511 posts
I like yellow and blue, closely followed by red and blue, anyway you go bright is the key for kids rooms in my opinion. I have my two boys in a cheery yellow, with a blue rug (flor tiles in a couple of shades actually) and light wood for the dresser. Decorations are limited to high gloss white photo frames with Winnie the Pooh die cuts (aka from the scrapbook section at Michaels) because I couldn’t find good boy decorations.
Both boys share the room they are 3.5 and 1.5 but they have separate bed times. The younger goes to bed earlier than the older anywhere from 15-30 minutes earlier and that normally works. The exception was Tuesday night, when the younger was still awake, while it warmed my heart to hear and see them playing with each other and giggling it was frustrating. As it was we ended up moving the younger to the guest room in the pack n play (this is the reason we keep it set up in there all the time) it took him forever to go to sleep. When I went to bed I moved him back to his crib. Luckily for me moves like that are easy peasy lemon squeezy.
When they start going to bed at the same time, I hope I don’t have to move them apart but we will see how it goes.
blogger / pear / 1563 posts
I love all of these so much! But since you said you’ve loved grey and yellow for a long time, I’d be tempted to go that route.
pomegranate / 3414 posts
I vote yellow and blue or yellow and gray. My LOs share a room and it is such a good thing (although we started when DS was a newborn and luckily DD is a hard sleeper so she slept through most night wakings). We haven’t really done a theme but DD has a patchwork quilt that she had prior to DS and I plan to just pick a similar one up for DS when he moves to the bunk beds from the crib.
honeydew / 7444 posts
blue and orange!
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
I am like you and have tough times with color scheme choices. I think yellow and gray is adorable but overdone. I think I like blue and red or yellow. Can’t wait to hear how this goes.
pomegranate / 3032 posts
my favorite it the turq and orange combo.
looking at your inspiration pictures as a whole it seems you are really drawn to walls in the blue family (whether they be sky, or tinted with green or gray), white furniture and bright colors as accents.
I would start by finding a wall color you love then go from there
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@shellio: how many years apart are your boys? are they already room sharing, or is this something you’re thinking about for the future? i’d love to hear how it worked out for others!
@Mrs.Maven: thanks for sharing how you do bedtimes! that’s probably my biggest concern now because DD goes to sleep 2 hours later than DS. DS is a pretty heavy sleeper though so we’re hoping it all works out!
@Mrs. Pinata: @Mrs. Confetti: I do like yellow and gray, but I agree that it is really overdone! Maybe if it’s accented by another color it could work? Still thinking this one through…
@purrpletulips: So glad the room sharing is working out well for you! We didn’t want to room share until I weaned DS and he was STTN. I wish DD was a heavier sleeper, but she wakes up pretty easily.
@Chillybear: If I’m honest with myself, I think that’s my favorite combo too. You’re spot on – I noticed that I really wanted blue as a central color with a secondary color as accents. I just read this article on how color affects moods, and it pretty much solidified my decision to keep blue as a primary color – http://freshome.com/2007/04/17/room-color-and-how-it-affects-your-mood/… the other supposedly good color for rooms is green, but I’m not a fan at all because green reminds me of puke and hospitals for some reason.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
I am head over heels for red and blue!!! I think it has been the color scheme of almost every party we have done for Wagon Jr. and it will be the color scheme for LMW’s second birthday too!
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@mrs. wagon: Haha, I just threw J a party centered around ORANGE and blue! Noelle’s was HOT PINK and turquoise… I must really really like blue as a primary color.
GOLD / nectarine / 2884 posts
@mrs. wagon: red and blue (or really turq/sky blue) was my wedding color scheme and the nursery color scheme. Bizarrely, both of my last two homes have been sky blue and this one we’re in now has red shutters! And our living room is done in turq/red too! The stylish members of my family always choose gifts in that color family and call them “my colors.” So yes, I also vote for red/blue! @Mrs. High Heels:
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
I love the turq and orange combo as well as yellow and gray. How long do we have to wait for the big reveal?
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
The last two pictures are my favorite in the whole bunch – I think they are both a good mix of feminine and masculine and they are also not too baby-ish. I love the yellow and gray combo, but it definitely goes very baby and I think the brighter colors, even if they are muted like the second to last photo (my absolute fav), are more little kid instead of baby.
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
I am loving the yellow and blue! So cute. I really like that art of the mommy changing and the baby so cool! I want my girls to share a room after Summer is old enough to as well, you’ll have to let us know how the transition goes.
cherry / 175 posts
My vote is for blue and red – though you can’t go wrong. I do feel yellow/grey seems more nursery than toddler.
Our kids our 2 years apart and have shared a room ever since Cecelia arrived. They are now 1.5 and 3.5. Warren has been joining us in bed for the last year sometime in the early morning hours. But I kinda love it! I’m sure it’d be easy enough to stop – but I’m not ready yet! She’s still in a crib… there are many nights Warren climbs in the crib and sleeps with her for a couple hours before joining us. Makes for the cutest damn photos EVER! We haven’t always done bedtime together but we’ve recently gotten into a really good routine and putting them down together is actually easier. There are some night Warren sleeps in the guest room – cause he wants to. Or if they are not settling down I’ll send him in there to separate them. Naptime has been much harder for us. She’s never been a great napper so the fear of him waking her up freaks me out, especially if I’m not putting them down at the same time. He’ll sometimes sleep in our room or the guest room. I really don’t care as long as mommy gets a break! He’s getting old enough that some days he just doesn’t want to/need to nap so on those days he does quiet reading in the guest room. I absolutely LOVE them sharing a room and the bond they have. Not sure how long we’ll do it – but for now it’s working! (I’m assuming when she transitions out of the crib that they will share a bed too. They love sleeping together.)
Good luck!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
M loves orange so I’m thinking pale seafoam and orange for his big boy room, but I love all of these. It’s hard to choose!
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: it’s going to be a few months! We aren’t transitioning them until June, but I just wanted to get started on thinking about what to do with their room before we move them.
@mrs. tictactoe: I think I’m pretty sure I don’t want to do the yellow/gray. It does seem more baby than toddler! The red/blue rooms seem to be winning in the comments, but I am so drawn to the orange/turq too. I’m still torn!
@Mrs. Palette: I will definitely blog about the experience. Hopefully it isn’t a disaster!
@babycrz: thanks for sharing your experience in detail, that was so helpful!
@Mrs. Stroller: that sounds so cute! Did you ever blog about his room by chance?
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@mrs. tictactoe: that 2nd to last photo is also one of my faves!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
I love it all! My lil bro and I shared our room until I was in fifth grade!
We had so much fun, staying up reading, telling each other stories, etc.
We are SUPER close and he is one of my BFFs.
I’m sure Noelle & Jaren will be the same!
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@mrsjyw: That is so so sweet!! I can only hope my kids will have that kind of bond – you must’ve been a great big sis!
olive / 64 posts
I love all of the rooms! Great inspiration. Thank u!
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
Are they moving into one of their existing rooms or a totally new separate one? I am just wondering if you have 3 extra rooms why couldnt the other one be the spare?
I loved looking at these and I like the blues and oranges the most surprisingly as I hate the color orange but these work in my opinion
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I love your room ideas!
I shared a room with my little brother for several years. We both had loft bunkbeds that my dad built for us, and that freed up the entire room to play in! I had my play kitchen underneath mine with all my barbies, dolls, etc. while my brother had his legos, trucks, etc. We played really well together as a result, I think.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
love them all!! but especially the red and blue!
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@Mrs. Chocolate: they’re moving into a whole separate one because that room is bigger than their two smaller rooms.
@Mrs. Pen: that sounds like the perfect way to provide the kids with some personal space of their own while room sharing! At what ages did you and your brother start sharing? I’m nervous about bunk beds because my kids are still so young.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: I had a bunk bed from the time I was 5 to 16 when my sister finally moved out. I shared a room with my brother from about 6 or 7 until 9ish?
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
So cute!! I’m especially digging the orange & turquoise inspiration shots.
nectarine / 2210 posts
I like them all, but I think my favorite is the blue and yellow.
And my brother and I actually shared a room, which is what has to happen in a 2 bedroom house. Although when I was in middle school they lofted my brother bed which gave me my own little cocoon in the room.
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
Love complimentary colors like blue and orange