I shared this on the boards, but I am so excited to share it here as well. I have spent the last two semesters working on pre-requisites to apply to a very competitive nursing program at my school, and on March 15, 2014 I received my acceptance letter to the program! Emotions ranging from anxiety to elation flooded through me. For the week prior to receiving the letter, I had cold feet about the program, and started doubting that I would be capable of working, attending a rigorous program full-time and of course being a mother and wife. I started to consider other “easier” programs that would allow me to be a little more present. I can’t say it’s been easy up to this point, and I know the program will only be more difficult as time goes on. Healthcare is what I love and what I do; it is my current career and I have a passion for it. I am so thankful for this incredible opportunity and I am hoping and praying that I have the strength to make it through the next three years!
This man is my rock! I couldn’t have made it here without his love and support
{photo credit: KME Photography}
There is a lot that needs to happen before starting the program this fall. Of course, I need to finish the last of my pre-requisites that I am working on right now and over the summer. Up until this point, I’ve managed to schedule my study and homework time for weekends when Mr. Pen can help out with J, and after J goes to bed during the week. I haven’t had to utilize extra childcare thus far — only the hours we currently use when I’m at work. With the intensity of this program, however, Mr. Pen and I have been crunching the numbers over and over to figure out how we will make child care work.
I will maintain part-time status at my work, and thankfully they are extremely supportive of my education and willingly work with me to tailor a schedule that fits my class needs. However, school will be four days a week in addition which means our child-care needs will change drastically.
We’ve had the wonderful blessing of having my little brother as our nanny up until now and it’s worked marvelously. We get a family discount, while my brother gets “job experience” that works with his school schedule and the benefit of having family watch J.
Now that J is a toddler, I do get really excited at the prospect of him attending daycare! I know he will thrive and I have felt guilty for not providing him with “little friends” up until now. He will need to be full-time in daycare come fall, and we will need to figure out how to make the finances of a FT child care situation work on my PT income, while also paying my tuition and our regular life expense. Our daycare search has already begun and we tour our first center next week! Life will definitely be tight the next three years, but I’m so excited for this next chapter in our lives!
Are there any new chapters in your life you’re looking forward to?
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
Congratulations! Such a great career.
pomegranate / 3225 posts
Congrats! So exciting! If I had it to do over, nursing would be high in my list of things to study. Any job where you can work three days a week and be considered full time is much more appealing than the 9-5 deal for me!
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
So excited for you!!
kiwi / 566 posts
Congratulations Mrs. Pen! It sounds like a wonderful program and an awesome opportunity. Yes, it will likely be difficult, but it looks like you have an awesome husband to help you get through it and the payoff will be incredible!
I’m a full-time grad student, work part-time, and mom as well, and while it can be a challenging balance I wouldn’t have it any other way–having all three really helps fill my cup, so to speak, and each fulfills a different passion and I believe helps me be a better mom. I am lucky to have a very supportive husband as well!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@ILoveLettie: oh thank you!! It’s so inspiring to hear from other student-mamas. I have found a few other moms in my program – we certainly face a set of different challenges that traditional students don’t face. You said it perfectly- I wouldn’t have it any other way! It’s a wonderful challenge and I’m so blessed with this opportunity.
@kml636: I agree! It will mean more time with my family, while still doing what I love. I am excited for this career prospect!
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Congratulations on your hard work!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
Congratulations!
nectarine / 2771 posts
Big congrats!
honeydew / 7811 posts
You can do it!

I would love more blogs about your journey along the way (you know, in your abundant free time!), it’s so interesting to me as a mom also considering becoming a student again.
blogger / pear / 1563 posts
Congratulations! It will be a challenge, but I’m confident you’ll be successful!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@cmomma17: oh, thank you! that is so sweet. I’ll see what I can do
grapefruit / 4554 posts
Congratulations and good luck in school!
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
Congrats! Sounds like a great next chapter!!
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
Congrats and good luck!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
i am so excited for you and know you’ll do great!!!
grapefruit / 4582 posts
Congrats Mama! So many exciting changes – you’ll do great
pomelo / 5678 posts
Good for you Mrs. Pen! DH is going to school part-time while working full-time and being a full-time husband and dad
I know how many decisions and emotions and challenges are involved, and how hard it can be to try to decide what sacrifices are worth making. All you can do is the best you can and I think you are following a path that will be good for you, your family… and all the lucky people that will have you for a nurse
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
Congrats! Love that family photo!
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
Congratulations! Lovely family photo indeed!
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
Congrats again! Totally proud of you!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
Woot! Woot!