I used to think the wedding industry was a big money-sucker, but babies, oh babies! A wedding is but a day, but a baby is anything but a one time event. There is so much gear, clothes, toys and everything to acquire throughout the way, and a lot of money to be spent. Here’s a list of my budget-friendly, new baby essentials.
A friend had told me that a glider was the single best item she purchased for her baby. The Dutalier seemed to be the holy grail of all gliders, and I strongly considered it, but couldn’t wrap my head around the $400-800 price tag and to be honest. I had bought an exercise ball for a mere $10 to help with labor positions, and I never in a million years would have anticipated it, but post baby, it is what my husband, my parents, my in laws, and I used to bounce Winter to sleep with every nap and every bedtime. Sometimes we bounced for over an hour, sometimes we had to bounce very high, bringing to mind diagrams of large physics oscillations. Now I wonder if the motion of a glider would have even worked to get my particular baby to sleep and am happy that I don’t have another piece of furniture in the house.
If you’re going to buy a hands-free pumping bra, this Simple Wishes Bra is the way to go. I put one on our registry and it’s been great to use, but a girlfriend told me a lactation nurse had told her of a cheap alternative. Just get two old sports bras, or buy some cheap ones, mark where your nipples sit and cut a small vertical slit and a small horizontal slit at that point. Better to cut it small and cut larger later than cut too large for the flanges on the first cut. Depending on the fabric it might be a good idea to re-enforce the ends of each cut with a satin stitch from a sewing machine. Cost of Simple Wishes Bra: $40-45 – cost of two sports bras: ~$10-15.
Four bamboobies run $25-30, and as far as reusable nursing pads go, I think they are tops. However, I needed at least a dozen pairs if not more to get me through to the next laundry day in those first few months of breastfeeding and that would have been pretty pricey. I ended up making my own from PUL and absorbent bamboo layers, and I have a tutorial for it here on Hellobee. My total cost was $20-30, versus $120-150 I would have paid for the same number of pairs.
Nursing covers run $16-35,but an extra wide infinity scarf does the trick – it may be something you already own, can pick up for cheap at somewhere like Forever 21, or something worth buying since it’s a great fashion accessory that can be used well after you finish nursing.
What have you been able to adapt into a baby-useful item?
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
How did you like nursing or feeding your baby on the medicine ball?
coconut / 8498 posts
Exercise ball is going on my list for #2!
@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: I never liked feeding in the rocker anyway!
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
The excersice ball worked like magic for us too.
@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: we didn’t nurse on the ball, we used the couch. I would have still wanted some chair in the nursery for middle of the night feedings.
pineapple / 12793 posts
I spent hours in my glider nursing the first few months. That one is a non-negotiable for me.
I had a nursing cover and used it exactly once. Waste of money for me.
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Yeah, I don’t think the exercise ball is an alternative to a glider. I can’t imagine nursing on there without falling off. Also, bouncing a baby on there to make him go to sleep? That would KILL my back.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
I think for the most part these are great, especially the blanket instead of a nursing cover.. the only time I used the true cover was when nursing on an airplane. But I would say as a working mom who pumps regularly the sport bra really would not be a good replacement for a true pumping bra. Most work clothes don’t look good over a sports bra so you really couldn’t wear it all day long. And having to pull them over your head to get them on/off every time you pump at work would be cumbersome, you would have to totally undress your top half and it would mess up your hair : )
grapefruit / 4187 posts
I couldn’t buy a glider since we didn’t have room and also used the excersize ball. And pumping was SO expensive that I refused to buy a $60 pumping bra so DH made me one just like you described out of an old sports bra I wasn’t using anymore.
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
@mrs. Lemon-lime – I nursed on a twin bed that we already had in the room, but I did use the ball the few times I was able to coax her to use the bottle
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
Hmm very interesting thoughts. I never considered some of these but I also never used nursing pads or a hands free pump.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Interesting. I think with a good sale, you can find a nursing bra for super cheap (like I did!)
Using a blanket for a nursing cover-up, as long as your lo doesn’t pull it off works great, too if you don’t have an awesome big scarf like that one!
I couldn’t imagine not having our glider. It was gifted to us, thankfully (but it was less than $200). We still use it at almost 2 years and I’m so thankful for it in the middle of the night when we have random wake-ups. That being said, if you have a lazy boy or some other comfy chair, that would work perfectly fine as well. I just …the ball… I’m not coordinated enough to sit on one by myself, let alone a newborn with my post-birth no stomach muscles! LOL!
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Exercise ball was a lifesaver for us. Yes of course a chair is more comfy but for some reason, my son only wanted to bounce. I nurse him on it all the time. My husband and I joke that we wish it was a better workout because we would be in the best shape of our lives!
I tried the sports bra thing but found that I really love my Medela hands free bra because it zips on and off instead of having to put it over my head. I tried the sports bra thing but in the end it was worth the $25 to get the real one.
kiwi / 550 posts
I love you for this!
pomelo / 5628 posts
I didn’t get a glider, I got a rocker/recliner and I use it every single day for bedtime, story-time, etc. I agree that an exercise ball can work for “rocking” but not for some of the others (but a bed definitely can).
Also, real pumping bras are so essential! 1) because they zip. It’s a pain in the butt pulling a sports bra over your head while trying to position everything. and 2) because they have a larger base which keeps the parts in place. I made my own twice when I couldn’t find my pumping bra and they were a sad substitute.
I love hearing ideas about cost-effective options though, thanks!
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
Cool list!
kiwi / 566 posts
I like the list, but I also agree that you can find a lot of the “expensive” things for much cheaper if your heart is set on them! I got a set of those nursing pads for free and the rest I bought at Wal-Mart–I actually liked the Wal-Mart ones way better! My mom got my glider for Christmas used from a Mom to Mom sale–originally over $400, she got it for $70. Got my nursing cover for free, thrown in with the Pack and Play and diaper bag and swing at a yard sale! I manual pump, but if I did pump I’d definitely use your tutorial–pumping bras are ridiculously pricey for what they are!
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
there are a few front zip sports bra options – http://www.walmart.com/ip/Danskin-Now-Foam-Front-Zip-Sport-Bra-2-Pack/25391609
I was disappointed that the simple wishes bra was too tight and restrictive to wear AT work – I had hoped I could shave off some of the time it takes to actually sit down and get prepped to pump by wearing the bra all day, but it’s too uncomfortable. For a small chested lady, maybe a doubled-up sports bra could be worn all day.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
very cool ideas! i think i’d have a hard time on the exercise ball, though…i’d probably gain some good core muscles, but the higher likelihood is me falling off!
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
Interesting!
bananas / 9973 posts
The yoga ball was my lifesaver (and also back-breaker) for a good 3-4 months! At that point, I had thought our glider was a waste. But the glider has become essential for us. DH could rock her to sleep in it. After nursing to sleep in my bed, then walk to her nursery, stopped working because she’d wake up, I only nurse in the glider and do our routine entirely in her room. I did score our Duatalier for a great deal on CL, but I think as long as you have some kind of comfy chair in the nursery would be worthwhile. I’ve fallen asleep in that chair more times than I can count!
pear / 1812 posts
I almost completely 110% agree because I have done every single one of these things. The once exception is that we use both the glider and the ball. When she was littler the ball was the only way to get her to sleep but we also use the glider. It is all we use now. While my PP abs could have used the hours long bouncing, I was too tired and now she doesn’t need the ball and the glider is so comfortable. To be fair though we got the glider set at a consignment sale for $99 and it has been worth every penny.
blogger / persimmon / 1398 posts
Very interesting ideas! I’m with @Mrs. Cowgirl… I’d be on the floor with an exercise ball!
persimmon / 1420 posts
I’d like to chime is as one of the few that agrees- we didn’t get a glider, and we were no worse the wear for it. I nursed on the couch! I loved the exercise ball for soothing- no way a glider would have done it for DS.
coffee bean / 36 posts
These are really good ideas, especially the sports bra instead of the Simple Wishes hands free. We saved on a lot of the baby stuff by inheriting hand-me-downs luckily but adapted other stuff to be for the baby (like the changing table, buying a cheap highchair that clips onto the chair, and skipping a nice ol’ glider.) My DD didn’t like the ball instead she preferred me standing up of course! Here is a link to how we saved money on a lot of the baby gear: http://www.allthingsbigandsmallblog.com/2014/03/save-it-baby-gear_3.html
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I fell asleep while nursing all the time, so I don’t know if I could have used the ball. but the infinity scarf looks awesome for nursing!