The problem I’ve found with toys is that toddlers have such a short attention span, and grow so fast that they lose interest in toys quickly! They’re often played with for a month or two (and some only get a week or two of play!), before they’re discarded and forgotten. I’d love to give the gift of experience to kids when they get to an age where they can appreciate it because products are so easily forgotten, but experiences and how we feel about them always remain.
1. A zoo membership – we have several zoos around here – the LA County Zoo, San Diego Zoo, San Diego Wild Animal Park, and Santa Ana Zoo. My kids love going to the zoo, and interacting with the animals.
2. A children’s museum membership – we have two popular ones around here, Pretend City and Discovery Science Center. This would be a great, educational gift!
3. Theme parks – local to us are Legoland, Sea World, Disneyland, California Adventure, and Knott’s Berry Farm. A pass to one of these places would make a fantastic gift, but you’d have to make sure the parents would be willing to pay for their own passes in order to actually go. Theme parks don’t usually come cheap.
4. A magazine subscription – National Geographic Little Kids would be a great gift at only $15/year (6 issues). It’s for ages 3-6, but they also have National Geographic Kids, for kids aged 6-14. Highlights would be another good one I’d consider if I wanted to gift a magazine subscription.
5. Funding a 529 account – Helping to fund a child’s 529 account would be a great way to support a child’s future education.
6. Lessons (dance, music, gymnastics, sports, swimming, music) – If I was really close to someone, and know they’re thinking about enrolling their kid somewhere, I’d consider secretly purchasing their lessons for them as a gift!
7. Tickets to an event – If you search on Ticketmaster under “Children’s Music and Theater” you might find some interesting, child-centered shows in your area. I’d love to take my kids to Disney on Ice one day! A sporting event like baseball, basketball, or hockey would be fun too. I also like to go on Groupon, filter for “events & activities > kids activities” to come up with ideas that would be fun for the kids.
8. Movie passes – Disney/Pixar is really hitting it out of the park with the movies they come up with these days. When I took Noelle to the movies for the first time, she was so in awe at the whole experience. She loved the plush seating, big screen, and her very own bag of popcorn!
What non-toy gift ideas would you give?
blogger / persimmon / 1220 posts
These are great ideas! Along the lines of a zoo membership, I’d also add a pass to the aquarium (since that’s also near by)!
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
I love gifting experiences! Great ideas!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4555 posts
What a great list! Most of these are things I’ve wished for the cubs at some point but I hadn’t thought about lessons, movie passes, or event tickets. Thanks for expanding my repetoire!
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
Yes I love experience gifts too!
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
Love these ideas. We have done fancy meals too, like going to the pirate dinner adventure by our house, or Medieval Times.
pomegranate / 3388 posts
My aunt got a subscription to a toddler “magazine”, Babybug, for DD this year. It is a huge hit. DD freaks out when her new Babybug comes in the mail, and and she always wants to read them as part of her bedtime stories.
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
We are huge fans of the 529 gift!
blogger / apricot / 367 posts
Love these ideas! Especially having just gone through a big bday party for my daughter and trying to figure out what to do with all her new toys..
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
Great ideas! Love it.
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
We got one of those Nat Geo kids’ mags randomly and DS loved it — definitely a great idea.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@Mrs Checkers: Aquarium, oh yes good one! We love it there. It crossed my mind when writing this post… I don’t know what happened in the interim between my mind to the keyboard.
I’m thinking about doing it for my nephew.
@Mrs. Grizzly Bear: Anytime!
@Mrs. Train: Those are great ones!
@skibobrown: I’ve never heard of Babybug – will have to look that one up!
@Mrs. Confetti: I wish someone would gift the kids a 529 gift.
kiwi / 566 posts
All of these are awesome ideas that I will definitely keep in mind–I love experience/non-toy gifts, not just for DD but for us as well! DH and I have way too much stuff!! My parents get us a family zoo pass every year and I believe for Christmas they’re getting us Disney one-day passes as well so we can take LO on her first trip (she’ll get in free because she’s still little).
blogger / apricot / 335 posts
These are FANTASTIC ideas!! Zoo membership?? Adorable and useful!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
these are my favorite kinds of gifts!!!! my parents always gift CB a class for his birthday. this year, i am going to ask my parents to gift CB his soccer season registration — he’ll love it!
blogger / nectarine / 2043 posts
I just subscribed to Googaro for Baby Carrot – it’s a monthly subscription box for kids. It goes up to age 3 and our first one was really cool. It’s pricey but a fun versatile idea.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@ILoveLettie: DH and I do the same for each other! Instead of doing gifts for our birthdays or anniversaries, we’ll do something fun together instead!
@Mrs. Pencil: Maybe one day we can go together! We haven’t been to the LA Zoo yet!
@Mrs. Cowgirl: That’s awesome!! My mom usually gives us money in a red envelope, and my in-laws do gift cards, which we don’t mind AT ALL either.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@Mrs. Carrot: A monthly box subscription is a great idea!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: by “gift him a class,” i really mean, they give us money for a class and i register him for it.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: Hahaha, I should’ve known.
blogger / persimmon / 1398 posts
These are great ideas!! We do the monthly subscription boxes here as well…
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
This is what I do every year for my little sister! She is 9, and with five older siblings, tons of older cousins and being the baby of the family – she has SO much stuff! So I take her to the movies and have a “sister” date. Next on my list is taking her to a tea room for high tea – she’ll love it!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: they start soccer at 3 years old and my sister and I were just saying we should register our boys together. I bet a bunch of 3 year olds playing soccer will be a hot mess, but surely an adorable one at that
blogger / pear / 1563 posts
Great, great ideas! I LOVE the idea of experiences rather than things as gifts.
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
LovE it! Now I need a post on how to tactfully convey this to well wishing gifters
kiwi / 673 posts
Highlights makes a magazine called Hello for the 0-2 set. My LO has it and it is fantastic! The pages are coated or something, so they’re durable and rip/chew/water proof. We still have all of them, in great shape over 6 months later. The illustrations and stories are also great for the age group, and they’ll let you bump up to their 2+ magazine in the middle of a subscription.
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
I love this, its fun to take them on an experiential gift. We took g to the nutcracker and she thought it was amazing! So fun, and great ideas.