We started making a weekly meal plan in the Rabbit household a couple years ago. I was tired of not knowing what to make each night, and even more tired of throwing out food at the end of the week, because we didn’t properly plan.
I was talking to some friends who were baffled by the whole meal-planning thing, and it made me realize that we’ve been doing it for so long that it’s almost second nature. So I went back and thought about the basics when it comes to meal planning. Here are seven steps that work for us, and hopefully it may help some of you!
Cook what you know and be realistic.
I probably wouldn’t plan on making something new every night of the week, because you’ll (literally) get burnt out. If you make killer quesadillas and grilled cheese, then add them to the menu. If you know you’ll end up having a frozen pizza or call a cereal box “dinner” for a night, then add that to your menu.
Once you get more comfortable with cooking, then start adding in new recipes. On any given week we’ll have two or three of our “regular” meals on the menu. They’re easy to make and we know we like them, so they usually always make an appearance. I rotate them so we’re not eating the same thing, but they’re comfort foods for us. As for finding recipes, I use Pinterest and real, old-school cookbooks. I look for meals that sound good, look good, and have good comments/reviews (I always scroll to the bottom of a posted recipe and read what other said about it).
Look at the 10-day forecast.
I always look at the weather for the week and try to figure out what I’d want to eat based on the temperature. I mean, who wants to eat a nice, cold, crisp salad when it’s raining all day? Not me! On chilly days I plan on breaking out the crock pot or I put soup on the menu. If it’s going to be nice outside, I plan on using the grill. (And I really mean that my husband will be out there grilling.) I use the weather to help guide me.
Don’t forget schedules.
On nights when I know we’re going to be busy I’ll plan on making something simple, or I use the crock pot since I can get things going in the morning. Take your family’s schedule into consideration. My husband often works nights, so on those days we sometimes have dinner for lunch and then I’ll either have leftovers or make something simple for myself later.
Write it out (and put it on your phone).
Jot down the meal ideas you have and see if it jibes with the rest of your family. Then, write it down somewhere where you can see it. Our menu lives on our chalkboard wall, but a piece of paper works fine, too—just make sure you leave it somewhere visible (i.e. not under a stack of magazines). Actually, after I write our our menu, I retype it and leave it on my phone. That way, when I’m out and about I know what we’re doing for dinner. I like having it on my phone because I can check it at night and make sure I don’t need to take any meat out of the freezer to thaw. Having it in multiple places comes in much handier than you’d think. Once you have a solid menu, you can move on to making your grocery list.
Make a list and check it twice.
We try to hit up the store once a week. There’s nothing worse than starting to make your meal and realizing you’re out of a key ingredient. Once I make our menu I go through each recipe and make sure I have everything we need for it by making one long list. Take stock of what you have in your freezer, fridge and pantry before you go shopping. Again, just as you don’t want to have too little of something, you also don’t want to have tons of leftover food/produce that ends up in the trash at the end of the week.
Be Flexible.
Stuff comes up; life happens, and sometimes a meal you planned just won’t feel right for that night, so be prepared to switch things up sometimes. If I have a meal planned for one night, but notice the avocados are ripening faster than I thought, we’ll move the fajitas up sooner in the week. It’s okay to go off schedule; you can always make that meal another time.
When in doubt, go out.
I barely cooked when we first got married. Someone seriously got me a book called, How to Boil Water when we got married (excellent cookbook, by the way). But around the time I started enjoying being in the kitchen more and making new recipes, my husband and I came up with a great plan: if either of us made something (usually new) that just wasn’t good, there was no need to worry…we’d just scrap that meal and go grab Wendy’s. It took the pressure off cooking something fantastic every night.
There you go—everything I know about meal planning! Do you have any tips when it comes to making a menu each week?
grapefruit / 4717 posts
LOVE this. And I think we’re chalkboard wall twins. We have almost exactly the same set-up in our kitchen — down to the chalkboard wall on the side of double ovens. We don’t use it as much as I thought we would, so I’ll have to try this.
GOLD / apricot / 341 posts
Great post! I plan the week’s meals on Monday evenings, with similar considerations. I also peek at the kids’ meny from pre-school so they’re not having pasta for lunch and dinner. I order the groceries online as I plan the menu. Then I write the menu on the board and take a photo of it so it’s in my phone on the go.
kiwi / 641 posts
This almost exactly how I approach meal planning as well! We live near a Trader Joe’s so I also make sure to have 1-2 frozen items in our freezer at all times for those days when I get home from work and just don’t feel like cooking.
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You pretty much summarized how I go about meal planning, too! Recently, I started adding lunches to the meal plan. When it’s 10 p.m. and I’m tired, it helps not to have to be creative about what I’m taking for lunch the next day, either.
kiwi / 511 posts
I keep my menus (I print them out on paper my own Word based template, I started with a monthly calendar that I only filled out weekly (in pencil each week) but I am in my second month of planning the whole month of weekdays) and it is on the ‘fridge. I find the month planning a bit easier in the fall/winter when I know the weather is going to be icky and by this I mean cold once the daily temps are consistently in the 50s and lower, much lower I salad is not going to be the main meal it might be a side.
I can look back on my menus and just steal a prior week or two, I know if we are eating the same thing all the time (and on the same day to boot). The other thing I have done in the past and will start again, is I have a number of recipes I know we like written on post it notes with the cookbook name and page number and will draw them out of a hat, voila instant menu.
We have food allergies to contend with so eating out isn’t really a practical option. We do avoid breakfast for dinner since one of the things we avoid is eggs so that leaves us in the breakfast category of pancakes/waffles (both made from egg substitute), cereal. We have pancakes/waffles every weekend, and cereal either hot or cold during the week.
Lunches for DH and I are generally left overs, sometimes the kids get left overs as well (depends on what it is) or they get soy nut butter and jelly sandwiches. I swear it is all my kid asks for for lunch at least the older one, the younger will eat other things more readily.
pomegranate / 3225 posts
love your chalkboard
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
I too love the chalkboard. Wish I could do that, but we rent… Great tips!!
blogger / persimmon / 1398 posts
“When in doubt, go out” <– I love this!! What a great, practical tip! I wish someone had told me that when I first started out.
@Mrs. Confetti: We don't have a chalkboard wall either… but I love this notepad that lives on my fridge:
http://knockknockstuff.com/product/what-to-eat-pad/
blogger / clementine / 750 posts
@pregnantbee: Hi kitchen twin
I LOVE having a chalkboard wall right there! And now my daughter loves drawing on it, too!
@Mini Piccolini: Great idea about taking your kids’ lunches into consideration!
@abmamma: Oh, I’m jealous of your closeness to TJ’s
And having frozen meals on hand are a must for any parent!
@Mrs.Maven: My hat goes off to you for planning not just a week, but a month at a time! I tried that once and got totally overwhelmed. But if it works for you—awesome!!
@kml636: @Mrs. Confetti: Even if you don’t have a wall to paint, you could always get an old frame or mirror and put chalkboard paint on it! It’s super easy to make—just a thought!
kiwi / 511 posts
@Mrs. Rabbit: it took a while before the month thing happened and it is only my second month. I think the only reason it works is that I have all my previous menus so I am not completely building it, I just get to move it around so it is like re-arraigning living room furniture.
And every so often I add a new throw pillow (aka a new recipe).