Less than two hours ago, our daughter was placed into my arms and my care. Forever. 638 days have passed since we first saw our Lil’ Cowgirl’s face and those days felt like an eternity.
And now suddenly, those days are behind us and we begin a whole new journey. It is absolutely surreal that she is now officially ours and we are together. At last.
At almost 2 and a half, our little girl is far braver than we have ever been and it is difficult to imagine what her little heart and brain are processing right now. She is scared and sad and confused. And though today marks a great gain for our family, it also marks a huge loss in her life. Watching her foster mother weep as we said our goodbyes broke my heart. And wiping away Lil’ CG’s sad tears breaks it even more.
My brave girl is sleeping now. It is amazing to watch this little person that I have really only known in my heart sleeping next to me in the flesh. Â We have a few days together in Seoul before we head home and I hope each day is better than the next. My prayer is that she will know that though she is scared and sad, she is fiercely loved.
Now that the waiting is over, the adventure really begins. I’m excited to see what it holds for us and hold out for the day when our brave girl knows, truly knows, that she is ours and we are hers.
Together. At last. Forever.
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
So happy for you and for CB and for your whole family!!! And sad for her loss too… but also, happy that she’s found such a loving family and home!
squash / 13208 posts
sending lots of love to you and your family during this transition! So happy she is officially part of your family!
blogger / pear / 1563 posts
So happy for your family and will be thinking about and praying for you all in this transition. What a great team you!
nectarine / 2115 posts
Such an important day for you both! Congratulations on the arrival of your daughter!
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
pear / 1622 posts
So happy for you and your family!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
So happy for you all! Wishing you all the best during this transition.
pomegranate / 3595 posts
Congrats and prayers through the transition!
pineapple / 12053 posts
So many transitions but
that she’s in your arms now!
coconut / 8079 posts
So happy for your family! Congrats! Praying for a smooth transition for your beautiful girl!
coconut / 8430 posts
So happy for your family!
persimmon / 1472 posts
So very happy for your growing family and the love little CG will feel! At the same time I have tears in my eyes with a faint inkling of how her little heart is feeling at the loss of familiarity. I hope she finds comfort in little CB since it seems they bonded during your last visit. Can’t wait to hear your journey as a family of 4!
pomegranate / 3225 posts
Prayers and positivity to your family!
nectarine / 2690 posts
So happy for you and your family
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
Choking up reading this! Soooo happy that she is finally going home with her forever family
persimmon / 1165 posts
Sending you all lots of love!!
apricot / 274 posts
honeydew / 7230 posts
So much love to your family right now as you all adjust to this new and exciting life!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts
I can’t even imagine the emotions all of you are going through, but I am SO happy. Wishing you all lots of smooth transitions in the coming days
nectarine / 2631 posts
so happy for you!
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
So so many tears of happiness for you and your girl. Continued prayers for a smooth transition as she makes her way into her forever home and family

hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
I totally just broke down crying over this. I have a 2.5 year old myself and I can’t imagine how difficult this transition is for your LO. But over time she will learn to know the love that you have for her and be so grateful for being placed with your wonderful family.
blogger / nectarine / 2043 posts
@travellingbee: I was just thinking the same thing (and wiping tears)!
@Mrs. Cowgirl, just wondering when her birthday is. Maybe she and Baby C are birthday twins? We’d love to get together for a play date when you guys get settled- hopefully some new friends will help her feel more at home.
nectarine / 2028 posts
Amazing news!! Congratulations! Best wishes for a smooth transition during a hard time. I’m sure she is feeling your love despite the confusion and sadness she feels.
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
So happy for you! Wishing you a smooth transition
grape / 87 posts
Her hand is on your wrist as if to say, “yes, Mommy I’m home now”. I wish you and your family pure joy.
nectarine / 2288 posts
Such a wonderful picture! Good wishes for a smooth transition!
bananas / 9118 posts
Beautifully written. Can’t stop crying though. Your posts always get me
Huge congrats to your family, hoping for a smooth transition for you guys and your brave girl!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
grapefruit / 4731 posts
Congrats on the new addition. I hope the transition is as smooth as possible. Good luck!
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
Happy to hear this day has finally come for your family. What a day!
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
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So happy for you!
grapefruit / 4717 posts
Congratulations to all.
blogger / kiwi / 588 posts
Congratulations! Beautiful picture of mother and daughter!
honeydew / 7283 posts
Such beautiful words (I’m in tears) and a beautiful photo of mother and daughter. I’ll be thinking of your family
pineapple / 12566 posts
Beautiful mother and daughter! Good luck with the transition, and congrats to the whole family!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Hooray!!! I’m so, so happy for y’all. She’s so loved!!
blogger / persimmon / 1225 posts
Aww, hugs and congrats!
blogger / apricot / 367 posts
So happy for your family! Congrats!!
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
so touching, so happy for you guys what a beautiful photo. Ill be thinking and praying for your transition.
blogger / nectarine / 2600 posts
I’m just catching up, congratulations. So happy for your family