When you want classic names, the Social Security Administration website is a great place to start, as their archives go all the way back to 1880. As I immersed myself in all top 1000 names Americans have chosen to lay on our children over nearly 150 years, I was amazing by how many names crossed genders over the years. Leslie, Francis/Frances and Jessie/Jesse were all over the SSA as gender neutral names, and are all names that showed up multiple times from the 1890s onward.
As I was looking to names that currently are viewed as gender neutral, I thought it was interesting that some are ‘classic’ names that are crossing genders and others are more modern names that seem to have sprung up simultaneously as an option for baby boys and baby girls. Many of these gender neutral names also seem to be ‘traditional’ surnames and are crossing boxes in that way, too!
Some of the more classic gender neutral names I found include:
- Parker
- Kennedy
- Elliot
- Emerson
- Sawyer
- Taylor
- Casey
- Daryl
- Bailey
- Harper
- Skyler
- Justice
- River
- Harley
- Dylan
- Blake
- Cameron
- Ryan
I think I might love the current trend of mixing gender neutral first names with super-feminine or hyper-masculine middle names, like:
- Emerson Rose
- Skyler Jonathan
- Sawyer Anastasia
- Blake Matthew
What’s your favorite gender neutral name, or gender neutral name pairing?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
Charlie has become very gender neutral lately! I really liked Blake and Emerson!
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
Drew and Micah are two cute ones we like!
nectarine / 2436 posts
I named my son Rowan which is pretty gender neutral these days
guest
My kids are Marlo (girl) and Morgan (boy)… We didn’t really think about at the time but they are both pretty gender neutral names!
blogger / apricot / 250 posts
I agree with @Mrs. Bee and love the name Charlie for a girl! From your list I also really like Dylan and Blake.
persimmon / 1364 posts
I love gender neutral names. My daughter’s name is Elliott and she has the very feminine middle name of Amelie. For our future children my name list of full of Sydney (girl), Emerson(girl), Casey(boy or girl), Blake (boy or girl), and Shane (girl)
coffee bean / 28 posts
I have a Parker that is a girl. We have yet to meet another girl Parker, but I love gender neutral names!
persimmon / 1364 posts
@homestylecreations: Our neighbor’s daughter is named Parker!