In my introduction post, I mentioned how Mr. Macaron and I paid off all our debt and someone commented that they’d like to hear how we did it. So, here we go!
First, let me tell you…it wasn’t easy. It takes dedication, commitment, and everyone has to be on board to make it happen. That said, it was worth it. You don’t realize how tied down you feel with debt until you’re totally free from it. I am beyond glad that we put in the time and effort to do it.
It all started when Mr. Macaron approached me a few years ago about trying to get rid of all our debt. I was unsure of the idea and shrugged it off and it was just talk. But the idea kept coming up and after much debate and discussion, we decided to hunker down and really do it. We decided to follow Dave Ramsey’s approach. To start, we both read his book, The Total Money Makeover. After reading his book, listening to his radio show, and looking into it we really thought his philosophy made sense.
One thing that Dave emphasizes that tends to go against the grain, is that there is no such thing as good debt. We hear people these days saying how there is good debt and building credit is important. But, think about it — if you have no debt and use money (cash) then you really don’t need credit. It’s this concept that many friends didn’t understand when we told them what we were doing. Debt is debt and credit is credit – there is no good debt or credit. Yes, this includes mortgages! Although, it’s understood that mortgages are needed for a home, it’s still not good debt and eventually you’ll want to work off that mortgage debt, too.
Dave’s approach is to follow 7 baby steps, but it’s the second step where you’re really digging into the debt. Basically, you list out all your debt from smallest to largest, and you begin to pay them off one by one. He calls it the debt snowball – the ball gets bigger and bigger as you go!
Here are a few things we did in our debt journey that we found helpful:
Budget Software – We started off using Mint.com, but it wasn’t doing everything we needed, so we opted to use Dave’s budgeting software, EveryDollar. You can use it for free, but you do need to pay if you want to connect your bank accounts. The latter was important to us, so we pay for the software. If you follow Dave’s steps, then the software works great. It forces you to review each transaction and file it to the appropriate budget item. This way you know where every dollar you spend is going. Each dollar has an assigned budget.
Monthly Meeting – Mr. Macaron and I sat down every month (and we still do this!) and reviewed our expenses for the past month together. Then we created a new budget for the coming month to follow. It was a good opportunity for us to align ourselves for the month and ensure we were on the same page.
Splurge Money – I was really worried when we started our debt journey that it would mean I never got to get anything for myself or go shopping (oh man, I love shopping!). So we created a budget for each of us each month for splurges.
With hardworking and teamwork, we did it! We started working off our debt around September 2013 and were debt free by December 2015. In that time, we paid off all of our undergrad and law school loans (we had both already paid off our cars before we started – whew!).
It was such a freeing feeling to have all our debt gone. It’s crazy to think about! But the journey never ends because we immediately moved on to saving! We saved up for a down payment on a home, and we are proud to say we are first-time homeowners. Now, we’ll start working on the home loan.
We started this journey in hopes of building a legacy that we can pass onto Petit Macaron and model to him how to use finances properly and wisely. I hope you find this encouraging. It may seem impossible, and I definitely felt this way at times, but it is possible and you can do it!
blogger / apricot / 482 posts
Wow! Congratulations! You give me hope that one day we will be free of law school loans, too
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
Wow! Great job! Just reading this post gives me anxiety. I would love to pay off our debt but it seems so daunting.
blogger / apricot / 275 posts
yessss it takes commitment but it’s so worth it!
grape / 87 posts
This sounds like an excellent and straightforward idea.
grapefruit / 4321 posts
Whether or not debt is “good” actually has more to do with what you’re doing with the money instead of paying down the debt. If you’re spending it, then sure, the debt isn’t good. But if you’ve saving it, and investing it at a higher rate of return than the interest rate you’re paying on the debt, it’s a good financial tool. Smart, wealthy people leverage debt all the time. Also, it’s great to say you’ll always pay cash and therefore having good credit doesn’t matter, but rarely is that possible, and you never know what surprises will arise. Even in your own case, you did need a mortgage. If you hadn’t build good credit you would have either not been approved for the loan, or you would have been given a worse interest rate. I don’t support consumer debt (because it isn’t backed by an asset, and the interest rates are astronomical) but I don’t buy in to the Dave Ramsey idea that the only way to avoid it is by paying for everything with cash so you “can’t” overspend. That doesn’t teach any sort of financial responsibilities. Grown adults should be able to use credit cards without spending money they don’t have. We use our CC for EVERYTHING, pay it off in full every month, never pay a dime of interest, and rack up rewards points.
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Also, even if you don’t want to buy a house, some landlords will check your credit before they let you rent, and even some employers will check your credit before they hire you. It’s important to have good credit, even if you don’t plan to use credit cards.
pear / 1648 posts
Agree with a lot of principles about paying off debt but also agreed with @Truth Bombs:! We financed our car purchase this summer even though we had the cash because the dealer knocked off a big chunk of money if you finance. We paid a little bit of interest the first few weeks before we paid off the loan, but still saved a bunch overall!
We also use reward credit cards for every purchase we can, pay them off each month (never carry a balance) and take free vacations each year as a result
Credit can be a good tool to use if you can handle the responsibility.
cherry / 222 posts
Couldn’t have said it better than @truth bombs!
blogger / cherry / 142 posts
Awesome! You guys are amazing. I’m impressed you were able to pay your debt off that quickly. We are working on a modified approach to paying off our debt, which includes a mortgage-sized student loan payment from me every single month (about double the minimum), but it’s still going to be seven years before we get that thing paid off.
blogger / olive / 64 posts
@Mrs. Dolphin: Thanks!! And gosh those law school loans – oye! You can do it, I know it!
blogger / olive / 64 posts
@Mrs. Sunshine: Thanks so much! Yea, that’s how I felt at the start, but then you look at the progress and you get excited. Looking at all you have to do can be so intimidating, so you really have to take it one step at a time!
blogger / olive / 64 posts
@Mrs. Gumdrop: Thanks – yes yes yes!
blogger / olive / 64 posts
@Mrs. Cotton Candy: Wow – great job and keep it up. You can do it! We did it before little guy came along so it was easier as just the two of us.
blogger / apricot / 389 posts
So amazing!! You paid it off so quickly! Curious if you were living somewhere with rent while you were paying it off so quickly, or whether you were staying with family while you paid down debt/saved for your down payment.
Debt is definitely not a fun thing to have, but we’ve definitely been working on paying it down with time – hopefully after the baby is here and things have settled again, we can go back to a more amplified repayment structure!
blogger / apricot / 310 posts
We also started paying off our debts, following Ramsey’s plan/baby steps. We actually paid off several debt items, but we had to put it on the backburner to quickly save for some trips we are taking this year. Probably the opposite of what Ramsey would advise, but I struggle with focusing only on using money practically and not for fun/living while we can. So we try to balance it.
I’ve also found it hard to go exactly in Ramsey’s order; for example, we are simultaneously tackling #s 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 and 7 because we do contribute to savings each month so we can have that 3 month minimum(#3) for heaven-only-knows, plus we are putting a lot into retirement(#4), a small amount monthly into our son’s college savings (#5) and have a big chunk invested (#7). Our financial advisor gave us this great piece of advice with regards to #5 because I was dubious about it – he said, if we don’t have to alter our lifestyle to put some money away for his future, we should do it. If we ever have to significantly alter how we live (what car we drive, as a silly example), then it’s not the right time to do something like save for college.
All this to say – how have you found focusing on each step in progression? Do you find it challenging or does it seem logical, and therefore feels easy to follow?
pomelo / 5621 posts
I am so impressed with how fast you paid off all your debt. Awesome job. Are you going to post some more tips and tricks? I really would love to hear more.
We need to really work harder at getting all our debt paid off and I love reading ideas from people who have done it.
pomelo / 5866 posts
Yes to no debt and yes to paying off full balance of credit card to gain travel perks. We bought a new used car three months ago and I’m paying it off completely this month. When it is done, we will have paid $50 interest total –which is way too much in my book— as I’m allergic to debt and this is the first interest I have paid in twenty years, aside from my mortgage. I decided to break my no-debt rule to snap up a a great deal when we saw it. No regrets but my tolerance is low and I can’t wait until I pay the rest off!
apricot / 307 posts
I’m on the same page as @TRUTH BOMBS. We also have no debt other than our mortgage which we should be able to pay off in 15 years (we have a 15 year fixed), but we do utilize our credit cards for everything and pay those off at the end of each month.
We have a financial advisor who helps us with our investing and we’ve set some goals for ourselves so we know what we plan to do with the money we’ve saved, which I think is really important — having a goal for the saved money. Ours is to buy investment property.
I have to add that we’re pretty frugal: bring breakfast/coffee/lunch to work; buy gift cards at the supermarket when they’re on sale (for example, $50 Gap cards for $40 and use that to buy clothes); never pay full price on almost anything.
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We love Dave Ramsey and it’s worked great for us! To all the previous posters with no debt, that must be nice, but most of us have student loan debt from advanced degrees that we are working hard to pay down. It doesn’t mean we are racking up inappropriate credit card debt or living above our means. Keep up the good hard work. The baby steps WORK. And only when done in order!
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Congrats! Unfortunately our student debt + mortage is half a million. We don’t live in that fancy of a neighborhood, part of the country or house
We originally started to really focus and pay down the debt and not really live the way we wanted, but now we do a little of both and don’t hate our lives. It sounds dramatic but it made a difference for our lives! We just couldn’t live like a poor college kids just to pay off debt for x (a lot!!) of years. We hated seeing all that money and not be able to use it for anything but beans and rice.