A few weekends ago my kids were invited to a birthday party at a friend’s house. The party was lots of fun (complete with an appearance by Batman!), and, as an added bonus, the parents offered to send us home with a bag full of garden fresh tomatoes. As a tomato lover and a wannabe gardener, I was ecstatic. I think my exact words were, “please give me all the tomatoes – they will definitely not go to waste at my house!”
You can probably see where this is going. We started out strong – enjoying the most delicious BLTs that evening for dinner. And my tomato loving 2-year-old ate a few slices over the next few days. But all other plans I had for the tomatoes kept falling through. A simple but delicious tomato sandwich with just mayo – great idea but no bread and no time to go to a store with good bread choices. Pasta with sauce made out of fresh tomatoes – great idea but zilch energy when I got home from work after a long day of meetings and pumping in the bathroom. What my beautiful fresh tomatoes did give me, however, were fruit flies. And as the tomatoes sat longer and longer the fruit flies multiplied and multiplied, until finally I got fed up and had to throw the rest away (sadly the rapidly reproducing fruit flies were harder to get rid of).
At first I was really disappointed in myself – in a word where “eat local” is perhaps the coolest trend, who lets garden fresh tomatoes go to waste? Don’t I profess to love farmers markets and eating locally and seasonally? Don’t I always want to join a CSA? Aren’t I always tempted to buy seasonal cookbooks and cook beautiful things from seasonal food blogs? If I knew I was going to die (or lose my taste buds) tomorrow, would I want to eat the freshest food possible for my last meal? Yes, yes to all of that.
But … the reality is I am in a canned tomatoes season of life. I have 3 tiny kids – 1 of whom is completely reliant on me for his entire food intake. I have a full time job. My husband has a full time job. We need to buy a new car. My older kids go to a wonderful preschool that requires parental involvement (more on that soon). My husband is coaching my oldest son’s flag football team. And it would be an understatement to say my middle son is not a great sleeper. We do our best to prioritize the things that matter to us – and that definitely includes eating meals together – but right now we just don’t have the time or energy (or the money now that we’re paying for childcare for 3) to eat seasonally all the time. Canned tomatoes, however, can be bought on Amazon (or you know your local grocery store) and always get used in my house.
And you know what? I’m OK with that. Because when you’re not comparing canned tomatoes to fresh ones, they’re pretty darn good and quite versatile. Take the iconic and super simple recipe for Marcella Hazan’s tomato sauce, which can be made with fresh or canned tomatoes. When you make it with canned tomatoes, literally all you do is (1) simmer a 28 ounce can of peeled tomatoes (cut up with their juices – look for San Marzano tomatoes but any work) with 1 small, white onion (cut and peeled in half), 5 tablespoons of butter, and a pinch of salt; (2) cook uncovered on medium heat for about 45 minutes; (3) discard the onion; and (4) toss with cooked pasta (and shaved parmesan and/or with any protein you wish). And that’s it! Easy, delicious, no fruit flies or guilt required.
Do you have any favorite recipes using pantry ingredients? Please share!
pomelo / 5621 posts
We love tobgarden and have only ever pickles. This year we had tomatoes coming out our ears so I dove in and canned. It was so much work. But with only 1 who is 4.5 it was easier. I wouldn’t have attempted that with three littles.
Usually store bought canned tomatoes are a staple along with many types of beans.
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Love this sentiment. You have a lot on your plate, and there is nothing wrong with acknowledging and owning that this season of life requires shortcuts where you can take them! I only have one baby and I’m right there with ya. The fresh tomatoes phase will be back before we know it.
pear / 1521 posts
I thought this post was going to be about canning tomatoes! I think what you wrote is more relatable
nectarine / 2242 posts
Love this! I just told our CSA farmer we were done for the year a few weeks early and to just spread our share among the other CSA owners because I just have ZERO time or desire to process all the veggies we are getting. I was feeling very guilty about it but you’re totally right, its just a season of life that we are in and there are more important things right now!
blogger / apricot / 275 posts
@ALV91711: I really want to try canning – I do freezer applesauce and jam and have done quick refrigerator pickles before, but I love the idea of preserving fresh produce to have all year long (plus I am a sucker for old fashioned things like canning). But I think I need to wait a few years haha.
blogger / apricot / 275 posts
@petitenoisette: Haha the title was a bit misleading! Someday I will use all my fresh tomatoes and maybe even can them. But for now long live canned tomatoes!
blogger / apricot / 275 posts
@HappyBaker: I did the same thing with our CSA. It was just too much, even though I LOVE LOVE the idea of supporting local farmers and eating seasonal produce. I just couldn’t use it all up and it was causing me unnecessary guilt and stress. Just like produce we have seasons in our lives too, and I think it’s A OK and rather empowering to realize and embrace that.
blogger / apricot / 275 posts
@ALV91711: Even with 1 kid, that’s seriously impressive! Some day I hope to have a big garden and involve our kids in preserving the harvest. But for now I’ll happily pop open my cans of tomatoes and jars of pickles ha.