I am a parent of five, a teacher, a scout leader, and a Sunday school teacher. My world revolves around children, my own and hundreds of others that are a part of my life. For weeks there were rumblings of this virus and the possibility of shut downs. Could it possibly be? I live in a huge city with a huge school district. Closing schools in such a large area would be impossible right? Is it really as bad as some were warning? Well, we were about to find out.
I remember so clearly, we were at a scout leader meeting at a high school. The gentleman running the meeting checked his phone and said, “Please excuse me, the school district is closing down in two days and I have to send out a robocall immediately.” My stomach sank. What could this possibly mean? What about my kids? What about my students? What about the 50 kids in my scout troop? What about the families in our Sunday school? There were no answers to be found, but tons of what ifs were running through my mind.
I went to work the next day, a Thursday, and was told it was our last day with students. On Friday staff would come in without students to grab what we needed and not come back to campus until further notice. It was in the hopes that we could return in two weeks. I taught my classes that day, sort of. I am a science teacher so my students had a lot of questions about viruses, and I let them ask instead of focusing on what our lessons were supposed to be. I left them that day hoping to see them in a few weeks.
The next day I frantically tried to pack up my classroom in one day. I have plants and animals all over my class and needed to make sure I could get them home that day. I emptied all my fish tanks and terrariums. I packed up my bearded dragon and loaded up all the tanks in my car. I grabbed some textbooks and planning materials because I didn’t know when I would be back.
I got home around the same time as my kids. Just like me their world was changing instantly around them. Their school would be closed for 2 weeks to bend the curve. We were told to stay at home as much as possible. Only essential businesses would remain open. The shelves in the grocery stores were empty. Seriously with the toilet paper? I can’t figure that one out. There was fear and unknown and we had no answers. And so we started our pandemic parenting journey.
Do you remember back to March 2020 when it all started to come crashing down?
pomelo / 5621 posts
We found out Sunday late afternoon that schools and daycares would be closed. It was supposed to be two weeks. The next day I hauled my kids up to my work and my team had a short meeting to devise a plan. I got what I needed to work from home for two weeks, which turned into 6 months.
kiwi / 583 posts
Things were starting to look bad, so we headed up to my parents’ house to celebrate my daughter’s first birthday a couple weeks early with them and my grandparents in case we had to cancel the party we were planning (we did end up cancelling). While we there, my husband found out he’d be working from home for 4-6 weeks, which has turned into 1.5 years + (he’s still home). I remember being really disappointed that my daughter’s activities all got cancelled or moved online. (a preschool like program and library storytimes)
apricot / 457 posts
A facebook aquaintance had a post at the beginning of April saying “I just had to chase after a car to buy toilet paper out of their trunk”
nectarine / 2210 posts
I still remember picking up my daughter from school that day and holding back tears. Thinking about how it was only 2 weeks, but if it was longer like 2 months, how would we survive. If only we knew we’d be in a similar place 18 months later…
pea / 8 posts
I am also a teacher and we got the notice on a Thursday. Friday at school was a little chaotic and I remember we all left, telling each other that we would see them in 2 weeks. Little did we know…
I also remember everybody panicking when we had to shift to virtual learning, especially the older teachers because they were not comfortable with any of the online platforms and there was just so much to learn. I remember feeling so overwhelmed by everything because our governor would announce the latest updates and changes on a Friday afternoon, leaving absolutely no time for anybody to process and prepare for what’s to happen on the following Monday.
cherry / 108 posts
Gosh, this is so triggering! For all of us, I’m sure. We all have this collective trauma of these memories. Wow! I remember our school district shut down the week before spring break was planned. My child was 4 at the time and in preschool. I chose to tell him the folks in charge were giving the kids an extra long spring break! That felt true at the moment. Like you, we assumed a few weeks. Of course, as things changed and as he got older (he’s six now…) we had lots more conversations about what is going on. Kids from this era of Covid are going to be adaptable and resilient as they grow up, that’s for sure.
clementine / 948 posts
Honestly I was relieved when school shut down bc I was following the news from Italy and was quite nervous. It was a disaster over there and I just saw Trump downplaying it here.
I’m still on the Covid cautious side- I make my kids wear KF94s at school and don’t take them inside anywhere aside from school. Can’t wait for the vaccine. We’re getting close!
blogger / nectarine / 2043 posts
I had spent all week preparing my office for shutdown and figuring out a rescheduling process for the programs we run, but there was complete dead air from our school district. My daughter had picture day that Thursday and was really excited about book fair on Friday and we got notice on Thursday at 7 pm that school would be closed Friday and then on Friday we were told we were shut down until spring break. She still brings up the missed book fair and a tradition that grew out of that was I told her any time we are near a bookstore, she can buy a book.
blogger / nectarine / 2043 posts
@ChitownRo: what brand did you buy for your kids? Mine is 8 and I am thinking of getting her better masks for gal and winter but keep getting lost in the various options.
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
@ALV91711: longest two weeks ever right?
@Lahela017: my school has preschool aged as well. It was so hard to do virtual preschool. I feel you.
@lisa1783: the toilet paper thing was just the weirdest ever. I get the hand sanitizer but the toilet paper?
@Miss Ariel: It has been a very long and very exhausting 18 months
@rawkstar: yes, the learning curve was huge and some of our teachers really struggled as well.
@togetherthroughlife: collective trauma is so true. I know so many teachers and parents that are still struggling with everything.
@ChitownRo: we are very cautious as well. My cousin was in Italy and telling us about their lock downs. I just kept thinking, what are they waiting for?
@Mrs. Carrot: I think in a lot of areas the gravity of the announcement was so huge there was a lot of very frustrating silence.
clementine / 948 posts
@Mrs. Carrot: sorry to be so slow to reply. I like these masks; they give me peace of mind.
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