As a Kindergarten and reading teacher, parents often ask what they can do at home to help their children become better readers and writers. My standard answer is that parents first need to help their children learn to love reading and writing. And developing that love can start at a very young age. In this series of posts, I’ll share some ways to help your little ones grow that love of literacy.
First off, in order for children to learn to love books, they need be surrounded by books! Beginning when Lil’ CB was about 20 months old, we began to make regular trips to the library. We usually go once every 2 weeks. Our library system loans its books out for 3-week cycles, but 2 weeks seemed to be just the right interval for us to make sure that we were enjoying the books we checked out while maintaining a regular library routine.
We keep a running list of the kinds of books Lil’ CB is interested in checking out from the library. We add to it throughout the 2 weeks and go over it together before our library day. I add simple pictures next to the words so he can help me “read” it as we’re looking for books.
Lil’ CB is always thrilled to go to the library and excitedly runs inside making a beeline for the children’s section.
Once we are in the library, I give Lil’ CB free choice to pick whatever books he wants from the children’s section.
Sometimes, this happens:
But we try not to make a fuss and clean it up as best we can, putting some books on the handy dandy re-shelving carts that are all around the children’s section if the mess gets really big.
Lil’ CB picks and chooses and puts his selections into our library bag — a sturdy canvas bag that I used to use for school.
I also make some selections, choosing books about particular concepts we are working on; books by favorite authors (Mo Willems is our ABSOLUTE favorite); and helping Lil’ CB find books from his list.
A lot of times, this is what we look like:
Lil’ CB will choose a book and look through it right then and there and I’ll stay close by browsing the shelves around him.
The most important thing I have to remember is to truly give Lil’ CB free choice. This is sometimes hard (I’m talking to you, stupid Spongebob books!), but I always remember what my advisor/favorite professor in college said in our Teaching Reading class…paraphrased, the gist of it is this: We can’t be literary snobs. If comic books and Captain Underpants [or Spongebob books!] are what hook your students, give them comic books and Captain Underpants! Then use those books as a starting point to introduce them to other texts and genres, helping them develop their taste as a reader.
So, keeping that in mind, I let Lil’ CB pick his books until our bag is full.
Even if some of the choices look like this…
And then we check out and head home to enjoy our new stash of library books!
During the two weeks, we read our library books over and over again. Some of the books (inevitably, the ones that I cringed about – heh heh) we read once and Lil’ CB declares (on his own — I promise!), “I no like this one.” So we use that to talk about why he didn’t like it and then brainstorm together about a kind of book he would like and add it to our list. Other books become immediate favorites and I jot down the titles to purchase for our home library.
Lil’ CB will be 3 in September and these library visits have been routine for us for a little over a year now. Before making it a regular routine, we would still visit the library (maybe once every month or so) and focus mostly on the board books. Once we began making regular trips, we practiced a lot of “library etiquette” — keeping our voices (relatively) quiet; book handling; staying in the children’s section, etc. Our initial visits were between 20-30 minutes and we left with 10-15 books. Now we typically check out between 20-30 books and stay for about an hour.
We love our library visits — it quickly became one of our favorite things to do together and we have found lots of new books and authors we love! Lil’ CB loves being read to and “reading” on his own and I truly believe the regular routine of visiting the library as well as sense of ownership he’s gained from choosing his own books from a very young age has grown his love of books and reading. And I hope that love will only grow as he grows!
Do you visit the library with your little one?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
it’s so awesome that you’re cultivating a love for reading and the library at such a young age! we really need to do this with charlie.
question — is it better to read a big variety of books, or a more limited number of books over and over again at this age?
we have a decent number of books at home but tend to read charlie’s favorites over and over again. i get bored of the same books, but then he memorizes them which makes it seem like he’s reading. he does love reading new books, but he definitely gravitates towards specific ones. i think olivia is probably his favorite right now.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
YES! I started taking LO to the library when she was 6 weeks old. I check out a bunch of books every 3 weeks. We reread the ones we own and new ones from our library stash every night.
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
Great post. Mr. Jacks has been taking the girls to story time, but we rarely check anything out. You’ve just inspired us to be more proactive with that (in all our free time!)
honeydew / 7504 posts
Great post! And excellent tip about not being a literary snob!
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
We don’t. With all four I avent figured out how to maintain the crazy. I am going To start taking them soon. My dad just retired and is planning on spending more time with us during the day so I was hoping to get a library day going
cherry / 187 posts
I would love to know if you have recommendations of books you like by age. My daughter is 10 months old and LOVES books already, but her mommy is tired of the same 3 board books.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
This is a great idea. My mom used to take us to the library all the time in the summer and I loved it. This is something I hope to do with our LO in the future.
pomegranate / 3414 posts
We haven’t yet but have talked about it. We are starting to delve into potty training and I’d like to get LO some more books about that since she keeps grabbing the one we have and flipping through it. Her other favorite at the moment is about becoming a big sister so we need to get more of those too.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
The part about letting kids read what they want and then using it as a jumping off point is so true. It’s what I really liked about the Harry Potter books, it got so many kids reading. My sister has a learning disability and discoveres Harry Potter when she was 16. She wanted to read it so badly and she did. And now, 10 years later, she reads all kinds of stuff. Her vocab, spelling and understanding of words is sooooo much better. I think reading truely opens doors to the world.
pomegranate / 3388 posts
I’m going to start bringing my baby to story time at the library beginning next week! She’ll only be 3 months old, so at this point it’s more for me than for her. Still, I think it’s good to get into the library routine nice and early. My trips to the library with my parents when I was little were some of my favorite times.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Aww this is great! I can’t wait to start taking my Lo to the library! For now, we just go to the bookstore and read brand new books there and make a mess
haha
pomegranate / 3716 posts
Wow, I need to remember to do this! We have a small library branch (and I mean REALLY small, and they keep cutting back the hours
) about 3 blocks from our home, which is convenient, but I’ve never actually looked at their children’s book selection. Will have to remember to do so on my next visit!
I really hope my future kids will be avid readers! I remember that books made my life growing up SO much more interesting and enjoyable! My DH on the other hand did not read for pleasure AT ALL as a kid. So this will be interesting…
clementine / 750 posts
I totally want to do this with our little one when he or she gets here and is old enough. I remember my parents taking us to the library as kids and later as teens. To this day I’m still a reader. I’m also a Librarian, although a Corporate one.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I love to read and I love going to the library. I can’t wait to take my LOs to the library one day.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@Mrs. Bee: i think a good mix of both is perfect…we definitely have standby favorites that we read all.the.time. (we’ve read mem fox’s “two little monkeys” everyday for the last 3 weeks), and then we also read new-to-us books from the library almost daily. at bedtime, we typically read 3 books — cb picks 2 and i pick 1. cb will often pick favorites and i’ll pick a new-ish one. often the new books will also become favorites and then get thrown into the mix.
i think it’s a lot like the way we have our own tastes as readers…some are old favorites that we reread (i read anne of green gables once every year!) and then others are new ones we discover and still others are ones we try to find that are similar to ones we’ve enjoyed.
if you’re trying to introduce charlie to new books, maybe try finding out what it is he loves about his favorites and go from there? for instance, branching out to the olivia sequels (i LOVE olivia forms a band!) or maybe finding other funny books about pigs, or maybe even other books with similar, simple black and white illustrations. and you can tell him, “i know how much you love olivia, and this one kind of reminds me of that book.”
hope that helps! and i love that he is memorizing books…so fantastic!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@tipperella: for a 10 month old, i love board books with big sturdy flaps that they can flip. like these DK ones: http://www.amazon.com/Peekaboo-Playtime-DK-Publishing/dp/075661144X
the books in that series also have different textures on each page, which is also great for the little ones. the spot books (where is spot?, etc) are also sweet and have fun flaps.
i also love karen katz’s board books: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_9?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=karen+katz+board+books&sprefix=karen+kat%2Cstripbooks%2C160
the illustrations are bright and colorful and the language is fun and playful.
and finally, this peek-a-who one: http://www.amazon.com/Peek-A-Who-Nina-Laden/dp/B001UPK2RA/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1340389144&sr=1-1&keywords=peek-a-who
is so fun and cute and there’s a surprise at the end (a mirror)!
basically, for little little ones, i love books that are interactive that have have fun language that lends itself to rhythmic and expressive reading!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@Grace: Amen to that! What a wonderful and amazing story about your sister! Thanks for sharing!
cherry / 187 posts
@ Mrs. Cowgirl: Thanks so much! You’re amazing.
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
We go to the library regularly, but mostly for me. I feel overwhelmed by the kids section ( such little spines) and don’t spend as much time there as I’d like. We need to start a list!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@purrpletulips: surprisingly, there are some great children’s books out there about potty training! our favorites were time to pee! by mo willems and no more diapers for ducky by bernette ford.
good luck!
clementine / 958 posts
I love this post! My mom, who is also an educator, used a really similar library/reading “system” with me and my brother when we were little, and we’re both voracious readers as adults. I really hope to instill a similar love of reading in my daughter.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
This is awesome! We have the added complexity of raising our son in two languages, problem is the English bookstore is mega expensive and the local library is open like 3 hours a week and is the size of my bedroom.
Any suggestions on what we could do when we’ve relocated to the US with respect to finding books in another language?
pomegranate / 3414 posts
@mrscowgirl: thanks for the suggestion. right now the only potty training book we have is Once Upon a Potty, boy addition (got it at a consignment store and didn’t realize there were gender specific versions) luckily DD doesn’t really notice the boy parts and I just skip over the explanation when reading it.
olive / 55 posts
My husband has already said he wants our daughter (due in August) to love reading. I told him the same thing — if we surround her with books, and read to her, she’ll love them! Regular trips to the library is a great idea — I’m going to keep that in mind for sure!
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
Props for bringing home Bob the Builder and GI Joe! I’m a librarian, and my personal favorites are far from literary – I’m a huge fan of trashy romance novels. My philosophy with the kids at school is that you just need to read SOMETHING – I’m equally pleased to have them read the latest Sport’s Illustrated magazine as I am find them curled up with a classic. It’s still developing the same skill set.
And I can’t go a year without reading about Anne, Matthew, and puffed sleeves.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@tipperella: aw, shucks…thanks!
@looch: oooh, we’ve tried really hard to keep up with 2 languages but it’s been so hard!!! good for you! i’d love to hear how it goes! as for books, amazon has a pretty decent selection in many different languages (just checked your bio — i’m assuming it’s french or german that’s the second language?), so you can find some books there (at a good price, too!). also, depending on where you are moving, your library might also carry children’s books in other languages. our library carries books in many different language with a very wide selection in spanish and korean, so you never know what you’ll find! good luck!
@Mrs. Tricycle: kindred spirits!!
cherry / 154 posts
My parents took me to the library all the time when I was younger, and I really hope to incorporate reading into my future kids’ lives as flawlessly as you have! Just emailed this post to myself so I can remember some of your great tips (OK, and also because pictures of Lil’ CB picking out his books are absolutely precious)!
Love reading your posts, Cowgirl! Thanks for getting so many parents excited about developing their children’s love of reading
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I loved the library as a kid and always was allowed to check out a ton of books. Probably why I’m such an avid reader now.
My daughter loves the Sandra Boynton board books. The illustrations and silly rhymes get her every time. I don’t think there’s a single one I haven’t liked, though her faves are A to Z, Doggies, the Little Pookie ones, Moo, Baa, La La La, and But Not the Hippopotamus.
If you have a girl, the website http://www.amightygirl.com is a great resource I recently found for books.
cherry / 226 posts
I love it!!! I took LO when he was 6 weeks, although trips were very speedy I’d grab 10 books very quickly before he started to fuss. Now he is starting to have interest in reaching for books. But I can’t wait till he’s lil cb age and able to make choices himself.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@candybar: aww, thanks!!! i’m so excited to be able to share my love/geekery of children’s books!
@Teachermama: it’s so fun to watch cb develop his tastes! and once he started really talking, it was awesome to hear him talk about the books and request titles and characters…love it!
olive / 70 posts
This is such an interesting post – thanks for sharing. I feel like I now have an agenda when we go to the library. I just buy all my books now, but the way you do it makes sense and it really cultivates interest in a lot of topics without spending so much money.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
This is such a great post!! My LO is 18-months old so I guess it’s about time I introduce her to the library, which is literally 5 minutes from us. I always go there because there’s a used bookstore section that sells books for $0.50 to $2… I always find such treasures (for myself) there!
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When I was little some of my fondest memories are of trips to the library. My dad would take me every couple of weeks. I loved reading and when we returned the books we would always play librarian and “scan” each book we were taking back to make sure we had them all. Once a month my mom would take me as a treat to buy a book I wanted. That continued well into my teens. I am an avid reader today and I think it is because my parents put such an emphasis on how fun reading is. Can’t wait to start doing the same with our LO. She is 3 months but already we sit and read most days.