When Mr. TTT and I first started dating, his parents were living in their guesthouse without electricity while they finished building their home, so we spent the holidays with my family for the first couple of years. Once we bought our house, we were excited to host holiday celebrations, but it was never as simple as inviting both families over, as each side wanted to have separate celebrations. Our families get along great, but with so many people involved who have different schedules for various reasons, it was difficult to settle on one date, time, and place for everyone to celebrate together.

A few years ago, once Mr. TTT’s parents were moved into their house, we started a tradition of celebrating the Saturday after Thanksgiving with them, and Thanksgiving Day with my family. Since Mr. TTT’s birthday usually falls close to Thanksgiving, he has always invited a few friends down to his parents’ ranch to celebrate with us. I love that we never have to plan how we will divide our time between our two families for this holiday, as we do the same thing every year: we go to my parents’ house on Thursday, shop a little on black Friday morning, then head down to Mr. TTT’s parents’ house until Sunday. Each family gets their own celebration and it’s always lots of fun!

This year was Liam’s first Thanksgiving and he had so much fun at both of his grandparents’ celebrations.

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My aunt’s family came to my parents’ house on Thanksgiving and Liam had a great time playing with his cousins. He ate so much at dinner – mashed potatoes, butternut squash, green beans, cranberries, and pumpkin purée (my mom scooped some out for him before she made the pies).


There were lots of dogs at Mr. TTT’s parents’ ranch – our two, my husband’s parents’ two, his sister’s new puppy, and our friend Paul’s dog, who is our dog Jackson’s brother. Liam loved watching them all play! He also got to help his dad blow out candles in the pie and play with his friend Stella.

In years past, we have spent Christmas zig-zagging back and forth from one family’s celebration to the other’s, but this year, since it’s Liam’s first Christmas, I’ve decided we should stay home. My family will come over to celebrate on Christmas Eve before they head out of town and Mr. TTT’s family will come over Christmas day. I’m looking forward to waking up on Christmas morning in our own home and not having to rush around town. Now I just have to decide what I’ll cook…

I just had to include this picture of Liam sitting in the exact spot where Mr. TTT and I got married three and a half years ago!

How do you arrange holiday celebrations? Do your families celebrate separately like ours, or does everyone come together?