We’re back for the Trikester’s four month update. When I was pregnant, this is the baby I dreamed of having. It took us a few months to get here, but now I’ve got a little guy who grins more than he cries and amazes us on a daily basis with his crazy rapid development.
We hit the four-month sleep regression – I wasn’t sure I’d know it when it arrived, but it’d be almost impossible to ignore. The Trikester went from waking up at a manageable 2:00 AM and 5:00 AM to waking up at 10:30 PM, 12:30 AM, 2:30 AM, and 4:30 AM. Sometimes he wants to nurse, sometimes he wants to scream, sometimes he wants to giggle and play. Oh so fun.
On a brighter note, he’s been taking great naps in the Rock and Play. He usually sleeps for a two hour stretch at some point during the day, but then also sneaks in a few other naps that last between 45 minutes and an hour. It’s crazy to have that much baby-free time to get things accomplished – I actually vacuumed and mopped this morning – so unusual!
Food
Nursing and pumping continue. I haven’t had to rely a whole lot on my freezer stash – somehow we keep making it through the week without having to defrost breast milk. Pumping 3x a day at work is getting annoying; I’m losing an hour of productivity, which hurts, but I can’t drop a session if I want him to have enough to eat the next day.
Disposition
The beginning of the month was rough. For a while, every time I checked my Wonder Weeks calendar there was a big old black cloud hanging over us. I think we’re through the worst of it, though, and he’s generally what I would consider a happy baby.
It sure is a HUGE change from the first couple months of his life. He smiles constantly and grins from ear to ear when he’s especially pleased.
Milestones
We’ve finally got the baby push-up, and he regularly rolls from front to back and back to front.
He wants to put everything in his mouth – it’s pretty interesting watching him try to eat his fingers and nurse simultaneously. Another new trick is his ability to squeal and screech. He’s definitely that kid you can hear three aisles away in Target. He’s not upset when he’s screaming – more like he’s trying to just express himself.
We’ve also introduced a lovey and some new toys this month, including a Sophie. I’ve had to keep Sophie under lock and key when the baby doesn’t have it, as it’s pretty much a glorified dog toy (I swear the squeak makes the dogs salivate).
Another new toy is a play gym. His feet don’t quite touch the ground, and he flops forward in the seat, so for now this massive piece of baby gear is sitting unused in the middle of our office. Hurry up and grow, baby boy!
Adventures
Our adventures this month revolved around taking care of two babies! Mr. Tricycle had ACL reconstruction a few weeks ago, and honestly, it was really rough for a while.
This is a whole post in itself, but for now it’s enough to say that I’m glad to have just survived. On a happy note, spring has finally descended on Upstate New York, so we love our walks; the Trikester has graduated to a front facing carry in the Baby Bjorn, and he just loooves being able to look at everything as we walk around.
Overall, not a bad month, but I’m ready for sleep to return to normal!! Did the four month sleep regression last a full month in your house?
squash / 13764 posts
Aww yay trikester! He’s so big and cute! We also were hit with the 4 month sleep regression and it’s still going on–our LO went from one wakeup a night, to 2-5 wakeups a night and now we’re down to 2-3 (at 5.5 months). The fifth month was tough for us, BUT on the plus side, the last few weeks has been SO much fun in terms of his personality–I think this has been my favorite month yet.
pomegranate / 3383 posts
Little Trikester is adorable!! I love his big blue eyes and his big grin!
My DH had wrist surgery when our LO was 6 weeks old so I feel your pain! I totally felt like I was taking care of 2 babies! Hang in there with the sleep regression…it’ll get better :).
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
Those eyes kill me. You are never going to be able to say no to him!!!! We are also in the throws of the 4 month sleep regression. It can’t end soon enough.
grapefruit / 4441 posts
He’s so cute! I love your updates because he is just slightly older than my LO, who turns 4 mo this Thursday. She is loving Sophie as well… it’s so much fun watching them learn new skills!
apricot / 309 posts
So cute! Glad his sleep is better now.
We put a large hardcover book under the Jumperoo so that LO could touch it with her feet until she was tall enough. Maybe that can work with the playgym as well?
blogger / cherry / 192 posts
I’m so glad it’s gotten easier for you! He’s so precious
kiwi / 550 posts
My fiancée had ACL reconstruction surgery in march as well and I’m a nanny for a 6 month old. Taking care of both for the month was not as easy as it might seem like it would be! I wouldn’t wish that surgery on anyone. Yikes. Sending healing thoughts for Mr Tricycle.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
ahhhh i adore him. that face!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
luckily, the 4 month regression didnt last long for us, but it def was not hard to miss!! so glad it’s over! can you believe it ?! our babies are 4months+?!?!?!?!!!!
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
T totally didn’t fit into his gym until like 6 months! We put a book underneath it for a long time : )
coconut / 8079 posts
he is too cute!!!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Awww already 4 months?! He’s so cute!!
DS is almost at 4 months .. no sign of the 4 month sleep regression yet. I honestly don’t remember if DD had one..?
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I’m so glad to hear my little man isn’t the only one who is too short for his Baby Einstein jumper thingie! He loves it, but I have to put a firm throw pillow under him while he’s in it.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I love his smile!
GOLD / olive / 70 posts
What a cutie! Baby smiles keep me going. I don’t have anything to report on the sleep regression front because she just turned 4 months not too long ago. But, can I ask how much you are pumping at work? Baby Popcorn has got me on the ropes with having enough milk for her.
pomegranate / 3225 posts
He is sooo cute! Our LO has been in the four month sleep regression for a good month now… woke twice last night so hopefully it’s getting better.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
@Mrs. Popcorn: I pump 3x a day at work for 15 minutes each time. I also pump one side in the middle of the night and first thing in the AM. I just make barely enough…
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
He’s 4 months already?!!? Where did the time go!! That 4-month sleep regression is killer. I’m not looking forward to it.
He is just too cute!!
GOLD / olive / 70 posts
@Mrs. Tricycle: Thanks! My sessions take 25 min when I pump @ work, which is why I barely get two sessions in because I can’t bare to lose that much time in the day. How much reserve did you have before you went back to work and how much is Baby Trikster eating in a day. Baby Popcorn is eating way more than I am pumping.