While it is not recommended to have anything in a baby’s crib, this is the safest way I could find to keep my boys sleeping at an angle without slipping down off the angled part of the mattress. If you have any questions about your baby’s safety, you should always consult with your doctor first.
As I mentioned in my first post about dealing with reflux, the NICU kept the beds at an angle and made little “nests” from blankets to keep the babies from sliding. When our boys were first diagnosed with reflux, they were still sleeping in the Rock n’ Plays, so I didn’t need to worry about an angle. But, when we were ready to transition to a crib, I needed to figure out a way to maintain sleeping at an angle, which our pediatrician recommended and which really made a difference in our boys’ reflux symptoms. You can buy wedge pillows to create an angle, but we are hemorrhaging money these days on formula and diapers; accordingly, I really didn’t want to spend any money on wedges that we would hopefully only use for a few more months. I also didn’t want loose blankets in the crib, as this is not recommended for babies at this age. After several failed attempts that resulted in babies ending up in all sorts of positions in the crib that were not what we were shooting for, I finally found a successful method without spending any cash!
Books stacked under the bed posts and/or a pillow under the mattress create the angle.
After angling the mattress, I needed to create a nest to keep the boys from sliding down the mattress. My first attempts resulted in nests that were too flexible and didn’t hold the boys in place or nests that just slid down the mattress with the boys. After modifying and adjusting several times, this is what worked:
All of this goes under the fitted crib sheet (this looks wide because both boys were sleeping together at this point).
1. Remove the sheet from the bed, and place a receiving blanket across the mattress cover. This keeps the nest from sliding so easily across the mattress.
2. Tightly roll 3-7 receiving blankets of approximately equal size. When you have a tight roll of blankets, fold the roll into a U shape to make the nest. Lay the nest on the receiving blanket. If it doesn’t take up entire width of the crib, roll another nest to place outside the first one. I used a quilt for this one because I just needed something that would take up a chunk of space.
3. Next, loosely roll or fold a quilt or thicker blanket and lay it across the mattress at the point where the angle starts. Tuck each side of the quilt under the mattress to serve as an “anchor” for the whole nest. The nest then rests on this quilt, which keeps it from sliding down the mattress with the baby.
4. Put the sheet back on covering the whole nesting system. This prevents any blankets that might move or come loose from ending up on the baby’s face.
5. Lay baby on the nest and let them wiggle around. Make sure the top of the nest does not come higher than the baby’s chest.
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Their reflux is now sufficiently controlled by medication that we don’t sleep at an angle/with nests anymore, but I’ve also discovered that when one of the kids has a cold, angling the mattress with a pillow underneath and putting the nest back in helps them breathe and sleep better. When we’re over the cold, I simply take out the nest from under the sheet and remove the pillow and stash it all away for the next time we need it.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
Are you sure you’re not an engineer? Nice job, Mama!!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I needed you to write this months ago!!!! I refused to buy a wedge so we just toughed it out. You’re so smart.
nectarine / 2771 posts
So innovative!
honeydew / 7504 posts
That is brilliant!
GOLD / grapefruit / 4555 posts
Another thought on the receiving blankets making the nest – if you didn’t have that many receiving blankets laying around you could probably use crib bumpers (assuming you’re not using them in the crib and you have them from a crib set) – you would probably have to roll them tightly/add tape but it could also work!
grapefruit / 4817 posts
Oh man, I needed this like a year ago! We just resorted to tummy sleeping in the end. This is genius, though!
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This is genius! It’s amazing what us moms can come up with on little sleep, in order to increase baby and momma sleep.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
This has seriously saved our sleep in the past week! SO MUCH AWESOME! Oh and we have the same crib
pea / 7 posts
Gah! I totally could’ve used this a couple of months ago – I tried everything! The genius part of this plan, Mrs. Blue, is the combination of the two. When I asked for advice, our pediatrician casually advised raising the crib legs 30 degrees (which is insane! I mean talk about unsafe!) and when that didn’t work I tried the pillow under the mattress thing but I didn’t do the blanket thing correctly I guess. I was just too tired and my brain stopped working. And I only had one baby to contend with! You’re my hero!
cherry / 144 posts
this is genius! em had relux too so we elevated one side of her crib. wish i would have thought of this back then!
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I know this is old but I’m wondering if anyone could tell me how many inches to raise the crib. How do I know it’s a 30 degree angle ?
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Although I know this worked for you and your intentions mean well I must speak up. As a friend of someone who lost her 7 month old due to accidental suffocation with a pillow in the baby’s crib, there are SO many scary things I see here. I also have a friend who is DESPERATE to find a way to get her 4 month old who is severely suffering from reflux to sleep well. There’s a pillow in the crib, a somewhat lose fitting sheet, and babies older than 2 months also shouldn’t be swaddled for safety reasons. Everyone thinks (and the majority are right) that it won’t happen to them, but it does happen tragically to others. Reflux and colds are so so hard on the parents as well as the baby but these rough times are over in the blink of an eye. Please don’t go to desperate, overly creative measures to achieve a good nights sleep at the even small chance of a terrible yet avoidable accident of all these things with the baby sleeping. RIP baby Reese
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
@Jamie: I really appreciate you weighing in with your cautionary statements. We all need to remember to be as safe as possible with our babies. I would like to address a couple of points you made. (1) as I stated at the top, you should always consult with a pediatrician before doing something against general recommendations, which is exactly what we did. Our pediatrician approved of this in our situation. Our twins had severe reflux and this was not simply a method for us to get more sleep; it was for their benefit and done with our doctor’s approval. As I said at the top, however, you should always consult with your own pediatrician when there is any question regarding your child’s safety. There are times when a physician feels the harm associated with a medical need outweighs typical safety rules when done in a way to minimize the risk to the extent possible. That is not the case for anyone, but it was the case for us and may very well be the situation for other parents, particularly those of recent NICU graduates who are trying to keep their babies healthy in a non-NICU environment. (2). I believe this picture was actually taken when the twins were right at two months old, but they were also preemies and our pediatrician recommended using their adjusted age for milestones and developmental markers versus their actual age.
I’m so sorry for your friend’s loss. That’s a horrific thing for any parent to go through.