Something happened tonight that moved me deep down in this Mama’s heart. Today, I saw my boys play together for the first time…like really play together with both of them laughing and squealing. To understand why this was such a great moment, you have to understand a little bit about the way twins (at least my twins) operate. The very first months with newborn twins you get some warm fuzzy moments as they snuggle together in their sleep, but that’s pretty much all you get for the next umpteen months while they simultaneously learn to roll, crawl, stand, play with toys, clap, giggle, squeal at the dog, all the while having basically zero understanding that their is a potential playmate sitting mere inches away.
The last month or so we’ve had a little more interaction. Unfortunately, said interaction was more one baby unintentionally tormenting the other one. A classic example is one day I put both boys in one crib after diaper changes while I washed my hands. I could hear a cacophony of shrieks from the nursery. I walked back in to find that Finn had crawled on top of Elliot and was squealing with laugher every time Elliot let out another distressed sob. Super. This went on for a while. Heck, it’s still going on.
But tonight something magical happened. Both boys were in one crib together after we put their pajamas on. Finn took across the crib to Elliot and I started toward the crib to rescue my big boy. Finn reached him and grabbed his back…and Elliot squealed and giggled and turned around and chased after Finn. Around and around they went both full of glee and laughter. They rolled and tickled and grabbed and pulled, but suddenly it was all just the most fun game ever. Mr. Blue and I just sat back and watched them cavort about the crib in one of their first rounds of true brotherly play. <Mommy heart explodes.> Best. Thing. Ever.
If you have more than one child, at what age did they start playing together more?
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
So sweeeet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
honeydew / 7811 posts
that’s the best thing EVER!
kiwi / 500 posts
Awwww! Their giggles made me smile!’ I know the feeling all too well! My kids are 20 months apart with daughter being the older one. Everyone used to tell me it’s great having a girl first because they will be big sister, loving and doting to little Brother. WRONG! She’s like the ice queen. Doesn’t want anything to do with him! They are constantly fighting and screaming. Mostly because my son is trying to get her attention by doing what she’s doing and she hates to be bothered. Once in awhile there will
Be a small ray of sunshine when she will acknowledge him and actually be kind to him and when that happens I want to cry years of joy every time.
The twins are too cute!!
eggplant / 11716 posts
Cutest video of all time! I love.
persimmon / 1165 posts
Adorable!! Now I want twins!!!!
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
Ahhh! The video is soooo cute! I love it. I remember a co-worker telling me about how his newborn twins snuggled together in the nicu.. I hadn’t heard of that until he told me and my heart melted.. he said anytime they put them at opposite sides of the crib they would migrate towards each other… I loved hearing that, so stinkin cute. I bet they will have a bond thats unbreakable.
My girls started playing and having a communication right off the bat, it was shocking how quick… basically 2months! Now at 6mo. they sometimes prefer each other over me! siblings rock!
nectarine / 2177 posts
I’m dying, this is amazing!!!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
Now I want 2 babies!!!
grapefruit / 4817 posts
My son and I watched this video like 100 times on IG after you posted it. Multiples terrify me (I have twin bros), but seeing twins interact always gives me the warm fuzzies. So cute!
nectarine / 2771 posts
So cute!!
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
So.Much.Cute.
I only have the one, but I have a set of twin brothers. My mom sai they were inseparable from about 6 months on, and are still really, really close, even when the rest of the family drifted apart.
honeydew / 7488 posts
Cutest thing ever!! My DD was 3 when my DS was born so she was pushing him in her doll stroller from a young age. Enjoy this new phase! Looks like they are gonna be best buds.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
OMG! So cute!! We might have a lil Mike Tyson on our hands with the ear biting. hahaha!
kiwi / 603 posts
Oh they are too cute! It warms my heart to see their happy little smiles.
pineapple / 12793 posts
and now I want twins! so darn adorable!
honeydew / 7444 posts
So cute!!!
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Love this! My twin boys are 11.5 months & started interacting well at 7 months. Now I catch them cracking each other up all the time, playing peekaboo together is a big thing that gets them giggling.
pomegranate / 3045 posts
Oh, they are just TOO flipping adorable!!
Love this.
clementine / 948 posts
that video is the most adorable thing ever
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
DYING OF CUTE. Gosh they are so adorable.
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
Omg. The cuteness. Seriously.
nectarine / 2878 posts
Awww! This is exactly why I wanted twins! Doesn’t get much cuter than that!
persimmon / 1121 posts
This is so sweet!
pear / 1639 posts
This just melts my heart! So many exciting times ahead with those two cuties
grapefruit / 4717 posts
This is so awesome! How sweet!
cherry / 175 posts
I could watch this video over and over and over
They are too sweet. And I love that age! Mine are 2 years apart. Currently 18 months and 3.5 years. I can’t remember how long the youngest has actually ‘enjoyed’ interacting with ‘brother’ but they do love each other. My son gets in her crib at night and sleeps with her. She chases him to the steps when he has to sit there for being ‘mean’ to her
Siblings are awesome. It really is the best gift I could have given them!
Thanks for sharing this sweetness with us!
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
So cute. Makes me wish I had a baby buddy.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
You make me want twinsssss!!!!!!! They are the cutest ever ever!!
honeydew / 7230 posts
Oh my gosh, I love this video! I’m excited to have twins for a lot of reasons but imagining them playing with each other like this has to be one of the best!
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I have 9 month old twins (boy/girl) and they have just started to interact with one another like hold hands and crawl after each other. It really brings a smile to my face. Having twins hasn’t been easy (especially those first few months!) and we’ve needed a lot of help, but it’s moments like these that make you truly realize how precious and wonderful twins can really be
clementine / 912 posts
I could watch them all day. Love it!!
pomegranate / 3053 posts
Aaw, so cute! I love it when my boys play nicely together. One of my favorites is when they were sitting on the carpet one night singing the songs off of a Chinese nursery song book! My youngest was just babbling but he was still “singing.” He was just following what his big bro was doing. They are almost three years apart yet they can still play really well from time-to-time. I think part of it is that my oldest doesn’t like to play alone so he always engages his little brother to play. And, of course, being the youngest he’ll just go with it!
pomelo / 5820 posts
This is adorable!!