When I was first found out that Little Deer had MSPI, I was completely overwhelmed. Altering my diet while also being a first time mom (and essentially a single mom with my husband deployed) seemed unattainable. It was so helpful for me to read about other people’s journeys through the MSPI process and I found it very encouraging to know that most children outgrew it. A lot has changed since I wrote my first MSPI post so I thought I would update you all on where we’re at now. I thought having a second child with MSPI would be much easier since I knew what to expect, but new challenges have definitely kept us on our toes. Before we get into the new challenges we’ve faced with Baby Deer though, here’s how Little Deer’s been doing:
LITTLE DEER – 2 YEARS OLD
Little Deer was diagnosed with MSPI when she was around 3 months old. I was able to cut dairy and soy completely out of my diet and continue breastfeeding her. While difficult, being forced to change my diet actually helped our family to adopt a healthier way of eating. Though I didn’t need LD to be able to tolerate a ton of dairy, I really wanted to not stress about her eating trace amounts of dairy or soy while out at a restaurant or a friend’s houses. We decided to do our first dairy trial when LD was 9 months old. She had just a few bites of yogurt but unfortunately her system wasn’t ready yet and she woke up vomiting the following night. Around the 10-month mark I caved and had a few pieces of halloween candy and discovered that she was able to tolerate a small amount of dairy in my system. At Little Deer’s first birthday party I had a cupcake and some cheese and she was totally fine. From that point forward I was able to eat dairy and soy and she tolerated it in my breast milk happily. What a relief! It was so hard to be on such a restricted diet for so long.
We weaned at 18 months when I was pregnant with Baby Deer, but I didn’t feel in a hurry to do another dairy or soy trial with LD. We had all grown so accustomed as a family to eating essentially dairy/soy-free that I didn’t feel there was a need to try and push it. A few times I accidentally bought crackers that had some soy in them and she would develop cold-like symptoms (congestions and a runny nose) but that was it. Those symptoms were so different than typical MSPI reactions that I thought she may have a separate allergy of some sort (she’s finally seeing an allergist this week).
On Thanksgiving Little Deer was so excited about the pumpkin pie that we decided it would be a good time to finally trial dairy again. She was almost two at that point; it had definitely been a while. She had some pumpkin pie, a little whipped cream, and even butter on her bread. And guess what? No reaction! We were so happy. Over the following weeks we kept giving her little bits of dairy and she tolerated it great. It finally seemed as though we didn’t need stress about what she ate anymore. In January LD started a morning preschool program and I didn’t worry about her eating dairy/soy while there. Unfortunately, by February she started to develop eczema on her stomach and thighs. We again got strict about the dairy and soy, applied some hydrocortisone to the eczema, and it cleared right up. Hopefully our trip to the allergist will give us a little more information about what may be going on with her system. Though it seems she can’t consistently eat dairy on a daily basis at this point, she does seem to be improving with age which makes me really happy. Hopefully in the coming years her MSPI will be totally gone! In the meantime though we’ll see if there’s a food allergy component and then move on from there.
BABY DEER – 6 MONTHS OLD
Before Baby Deer was born I knew there would be a good chance that she had MSPI as well. I eliminated dairy and soy when I was 37 weeks pregnant to prepare my system and to have a clean slate. A quick dairy trial when she was a few weeks old showed me that she too had MSPI. Unfortunatley, breastfeeding proved even more challenging this time around (I wrote a dedicated post all about that here). Unlike her big sister, Baby Deer seemed to react to the proteins in more foods than just dairy and soy. That’s when I learned about Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome (FPIES). MSPI is essentially FPIES to dairy and soy, so FPIES is the big umbrella term for when kids react to proteins in certain foods. Through trial and error during my elimination diet I discovered that Baby Deer had FPIES to dairy, soy, eggs, rice, and possibly sweet potato, avocado, and corn. There were more foods I could not identify as well (thus the switch to formula).
That period of time where I was trying to alter my diet and find all the offending foods was very difficult mentally, physically, and emotionally. When we were switching Baby Deer to formula at 4 months we also saw a pediatric GI doctor. With Little Deer we handled all of our MSPI issue with our pediatrician, so this was new for us. The GI doctor was very friendly and helpful, though our appointment with him reminded me of why it’s so important sometimes to follow my “mother’s intuition.” He was concerned about BD’s reflux and how infrequently she was having bowel movements and wanted to put her on several different medications. I wanted to wait for her little system to adjust to the formula and also see if she responded positively to thickening her bottles. I’m glad I trusted my gut because sure enough, though there were a few hiccups, after a couple of weeks her body got used to both the elemental formula and thickener and she’s been doing great.
Another new component this time around has been seeing an allergist. I assumed since FPIES is a gut-based disorder that the GI doctor would know more about it, but I was pleasantly surprised to find how informed the allergist was as well. He kept reiterating how both he and the GI doctor were a team when it came to helping FPIES children. Though not always the most accurate at this age, we did some skin testing with Baby Deer during that appointment to see if she was dealing with any allergies on top of the protein issues. The tests showed she reacted a tiny bit to fish but that was it. Phew!
I am so glad we have finally gotten to a more stable point with feeding sweet Baby Deer. I do miss breastfeeding and am still sad that it didn’t work this time around, but I see how happy and healthy she is and I know we made the right decision. At 6 months old she is currently doing great on her Elecare formula with Gelmix thickener. We’re about to jump into solids which I’m a bit more nervous about, but we will take it very slow and avoid those foods that I think she’ll react to.
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I’ve had a couple of friends over the past year or so who have had babies with MSPI too. It’s really surprising to me how common it’s becoming! Over the last couple months I’ve written several of these friends emails with lists and links to more resources. I’m hoping to compile a list of all of those FPIES/MSPI resources into one big post soon!
Does your little one have MSPI? Please share how you’re doing and let’s support one another!
kiwi / 511 posts
Mine didn’t have an issue with MSPI, but the cold like symptoms you talked about when LD started on dairy again, that is exactly what our little one had with gluten. He kept getting ear infections and was congested and runny (he snored!). Finally we got tubes and he got an ear infection just a few weeks after the tubes which is crazy because his ears were cleaned out surgically. The ENT suggested going gluten free (temporarily) because he had seen it work in some kids. We talked to his allergist (he was tested for wheat in his blood work but the result was negligible unlike his tree nut and egg results which were off the charts) and she said try it, it won’t hurt anything. She suggested going off it for a year, it could be an intolerance but didn’t appear to be an allergy. She was encouraging and said that if going off gluten makes the symptoms disappear and he had a better quality of life (which sound funny but is true who likes to have cold like symptoms) then that was enough reason to try it.
About 2 weeks after we cut out gluten we started to see improvements, life was much better. We reintroduced gluten after about 13 months off it and have been fine since. (He was off it from roughly 13 months old to about 26 months).
pear / 1570 posts
Thank you so much for writing this. I am pregnant with #2 and my first LO had MSPI so I too am going to cut out dairy at 37 weeks and do a trial when she is a few weeks old. It is nice to know that there are others who have 2 kiddos with allergies and understand the stress!
grapefruit / 4988 posts
This was a great post. My LO had MSPI and I think it was one of your earlier blog posts that caused me to realize it. Now seeing this, I think she had FPIES. I eliminated all dairy, all soy, peanuts, treenuts, corn, and eggs (and briefly gluten, beef, and all legumes) and we were never able to get her stools to test negative for blood. I stuck with the elimination diet for 10+ months but I’m not sure I could handle it again. Luckily, by 14 months, she seemed to be able to tolerate everything, plus all her allergy tests came back negative. Life is so much easier now!
pea / 16 posts
My 9 month old has issues with dairy, eggs, and soy, but I could not resist Easter candy this month. I was THRILLED when my Cadbury mini egg binge didn’t bother him! I’ve tried a few other forbidden treats in the past few weeks–mashed potatoes with real butter and milk, and a little bit of parmesan on my spaghetti–all with no problems. I’m hoping that we are past the worst of it, and as long as I don’t eat a whole tray of enchiladas he will be fine. It was the best feeling in the world to go out to dinner on Saturday night and not have to ask any questions about how the food is prepared or request substitutions!
grapefruit / 4110 posts
You are living my biggest fear and I salute you. I am over pregnant with number 2 and have been off dairy and soy for months now (just a little traumatized from my first). My first is 4 and still cannot tolerate soy, we have pulled liquid milk from his diet (though he tolerates cheese, etc), and every allergy test he has comes back with something new. Particularly peanuts right now. It is rough but so worth it. We found just pulling liquid milk has been fantastic for him. We haven’t had any major symptoms or issues in 9 months.
pomegranate / 3580 posts
Thanks for sharing! LO (12 months) has MSPI and is still nursing and shows signs of still having issues (small amounts of spit up when I eat dairy). It’s encouraging to hear your story – sometimes the light at the end of the tunnel seems SO far away.
clementine / 806 posts
thank you for this!! Our little guy (6 months) is dairy intolerant. Fortunately, soy doesn’t seem to be a problem. I was thinking of doing a tolerance test next month, but I must have unknowingly eaten something last week because the mucus was back in his diaper. So much for that!
I would love to read a more comprehensive post about this and how you re-introduced dairy to little deer. I’m so ready for the stage (in 6 more months…) but also feeling clueless and can’t seem to find any good information about it.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
As you know, I’m dealing with MSPI with P right now. I’ve also cut out nuts and today started a two week trial of cutting eggs to see if we can get his diapers cleared up. My first had a gluten/wheat sensitivity in solids (not my milk) and I thought that was tough. Oh no, that was easy peasy compared to trying to figure out what on earth I’m going to eat!
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It was thanks to your initial posts about MSPI that I self-diagnosed my DD’s dairy intolerance at 8 weeks. I’m still mostly off dairy at 18 months because I feel so much better without it. She does seem to tolerate it if I have a little cheese when I’m out though, thank goodness.
DD has eczema flare-ups occasionally, with it getting quite bad around 12-14 months, but thankfully our naturopath has been amazing at helping us treat her with probiotics, slippery elm powder, and “allergeeze”. It’s all about the gut and her immune system. Each time we start treatment again (because we’ve gotten slack at giving her her “jungle juice”each night) she gets worse for two weeks, and then miraculously better. So much more helpful than doctors and even allergy specialists who only prescribe creams that treat the symptoms.
Now I’m 8 weeks pregnant with #2 and wondering what we’ll have to deal with this time around! Thanks for this update, wishing you and your girls all the best.
persimmon / 1096 posts
I’m on MSPI kiddo #2 here as well. It’s so rough! He spits up much more than #1 ever did, despite starting on Alimentum, so I think we may need to look into a thickener as well. LO1 outgrew his severe symptoms at 14 months, but while he doesn’t projectile vomit anymore, he does still get stuffy and eczema flare ups when he eats more than a tiny bit of dairy. He kind of self-polices though – he loves goldfish crackers (of course!) and yogurt but doesn’t like milk and most cheeses. Hoping introducing solids goes well! Lo2 is 3 months and I’m already a little nervous about it!
blogger / persimmon / 1231 posts
@Mrs.Maven: I’m glad you all were able to figure it out and go gluten-free! Intolerances are nice in that they usually go away but they seem much trickier to figure out. Glad he can eat it now!
@littlebittyhouse: I hope number two doesn’t have it! I hear it’s kind of a 50/50 shot. When you all are thinking about what to pack for the hospital bring lots of snacks. I loved where we delivered but they absolutely couldn’t handle providing dairy/soy-free meal trays. My husband had to make a Trader Joe’s run
@catlady: I’m glad life is easier now! Those elimination days are so so difficult. Way to persevere for so long, that’s awesome!
@irishmama: Yay! Isn’t that exciting when you realize you can finally have some treats? Sounds like the start of something good for sure
@brownie: I’m sorry more allergies have cropped up for you all. I worry with LD that she may never tolerate soy but I know it’s still early. Glad you figured out that eliminating milk helped! LD was always really particular about what liquids she drank and wouldn’t even drink juice up until about a month ago, so it’s always just been water over here for us.
@fussygal: There is hope and I bet you’re closer than you think! Hopefully soon mama, hang in there!
@MrsLonghorn: I’m happy that you all don’t have the soy component! I researched reintroducing dairy to death and found so many different thoughts behind it. We gave her 3 bites of yogurt on a Saturday morning. Then 3 bites on a Sunday morning. Then she woke up late Sunday vomiting (at 9 months). If I could do it again I might do baked dairy (even bake something myself, like pancakes). I would have also waited until the one-year mark so that she would have been more likely to succeed. I say whatever you chose to introduce, do small amounts once a day for several days. The reaction can be really delayed.
@Mrs. Stroller: Oh man, I know. It sucks! Find a few things that are easy to have around that you can eat. I finally just had to really narrow it down to make it doable. Variety-filled big meals were just too much at that stage.
@Hamikay: That’s encouraging to hear! I definitely want to look into trying other approaches too besides just slathering her in steroid creams. I hope baby #2 doesn’t have any food issues!
@keepcalmcarrie: I don’t think any kid can resist goldfish!
She too doesn’t like milk or cheese. With BD when I tested dairy she would have lots of chunky spit up, but even when on the formula she constantly spit up so that’s when I realized she had a reflux component. We really love Gelmix (you can order it online – 2 day priority shipping!) and have had great success with it.