During the first two years of your baby’s life, it will feel like your child is getting an immunization shot during every doctor’s visit. The visits can be overwhelming and stressful (often more for the parents) because of all the shots your little one may need to get. I thought that it may be helpful to talk about how you can help by providing your child with a comfort hold. You can use these comfort holds, not only for immunization shots, but most other injections in the arms and thighs. It can even work for a blood draw, but it would help if your child has a table to lay her arm down.
Here are the benefits to using a comfort hold with your child:
- It allows the parent to safely hold the child during the injection.
- It allows the parent to provide comfort to the child.
- It gives the parent a role and allows for involvement during an often stressful time.
- It helps the doctor/nurse administer the injection safely (since the parent can focus on holding the child securely).
- It allows the child getting the injection to be in a non-threatening position (rather than having multiple hands holding a child down or having a child lay down completely on their back).
Here are the different ways to hold your child:
For infants:
For newborns, it will be easier to hold both legs together securely while you are holding them in the cradling position. You can also have the leg where she will be getting the shot out, since the doctor/nurse can help hold the leg while she gives the shot. At four months, Baby Pizza does better with a sitting position It can help to use your legs to hold down your child’s legs so there is limited movement. You could also just hold them in a sitting position, facing forward. Whatever is most comfortable for you and your baby will work best.
For the older child:
As your child gets older, she can sit on your lap facing forward. She can also choose to sit on your lap facing you. In these holds, it allows the child to either look while getting the shot or look away (don’t always assume that everyone wants to look away).
Here are some tips:
- Take a deep breath. Yes, you.
If you’re anxious, then your child will be too (even your baby can sense your anxiety).
- Sometimes, your child may need a firmer hold to help hold still. It is most important to make sure your child is safe.
- With your baby, remember to bring items that are comforting such as a pacifier, bottle, or blanket to use to calm her down after the shot. You can nurse or feed right after to help calm your baby.
- Provide choices where there are choices. For example, “do you want to get your shot now?” is not a choice, so it shouldn’t be asked as a question. A choice would be, “do you want to look while you are getting your shot or do you want to look away?”
- Some kids do much better without a hold and need just a hand to hold. You know your child best, so simply do what works for you and your child!
pear / 1547 posts
Love this! I think when LO got her last shots she was more mad about being stuck on her back and I don’t know why I didn’t advocate for holding her! I definitely will for her flu booster this week. I’m not sure if nursing will be okay with me holding for multiple shots – do medical staff seem to be okay with it?
blogger / kiwi / 626 posts
My nurse is usually really weird about me holding the baby but I will bring this up with her at our next appointment. I would much rather hold my babies for shots that hold them down on a table. Great post!
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Our Dr’s offices have always told me to hold our kiddos for shots and exams… These positions seem like the normal way it’s done here (Seattle). Is that not the case everywhere?
persimmon / 1472 posts
Luckily my ped office has always asked if we’d like to hold our child during shots and we always opted to hold. It helped me comfort them a lot faster and the docs hands are both free to do what he/she needs to do. Win win!
persimmon / 1472 posts
@MenagerieMama: I had asked my ped once if I could nurse during the shot but he advised against it saying that LO will cry regardless and nursing during may lead to choking.
grapefruit / 4923 posts
thanks for the information! our office has us lay the child on the table. this seems more cozy. we’ll probably have to hold our 3 year old like this at the next appointment, i can’t imagine holding him down flat on his back on a table, he’ll be so big then!
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I had never even thought of not holding my now-toddler during shots. They just expected us to do it at our pediatrician’s office in Western NY and even said without me asking that they leave right away afterwards so you can nurse. I’m so glad you shared this for those parents/caregivers who haven’t had the opportunity to try it before!
blogger / apricot / 367 posts
I needed to read this before I took HJ to get her flu shot…
Both the girls are such cute models in the pics!
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
@MenagerieMama: @Mrs. Cereal: you guys reminded me that I should add in the tups section that we need to advocate for things like this. I feel like if you can show them that you can hold them securely that way, then they will be more accepting. Good luck!
@littleveesmommy: @alisonvg: sounds like you guys go to great places that involve the parents. You’ll be surprised as thisn’t always the common practice everywhere.
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
@littleveesmommy: yes, hope I was clear that you should nurse after not during. I would rock and calm your baby a bit first before trying to nurse right away.@edelweiss: yes, the older they get, the less likely they will want to lay flat for something like a shot. Hope the 3 year old appt goes well!
@Mrs. Juice: hope it goes well with HJ! Some talk a bit before of what helps her might work well for her….unless she is the kind of girl who gets worked up if you talk about it too much before.
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
Thank you so much for posting this! Our first pediatrician always did shots this way. I was very taken aback when we moved and our new pediatrician’s nurses acted like this was not an option at all! I had never even heard of holding your baby down on the table for shots! I wish more nurses/doctors would learn about this and be willing to do it.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
Wow. I’ve always been told to hold my LO during her shots. And she’s always been such a little trooper during the shots, so I wonder if that’s (partly) why.
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
@MenagerieMama: I forgot to answer your question. As you can see from the comments, it varies from place to place. Do advocate for what you believe will help your child!:)
blogger / persimmon / 1231 posts
Great post! Another great position is on the lap but with the child sitting side saddle. Then their arm closest to you tucks under yours like they’re giving you a side hug. Though I have parents hold their kids a lot, for infants that need let’s say, 4 vaccines, I feel it’s quicker and safer to lay them down. I can do 4+ vaccines in 10 seconds when they’re laying down, then it’s over so quickly and they can get back in mom’s arms and nurse. Otherwise you’re having the parents do a lot of manuevering to expose each thigh and give you the proper angle. One or two shots though… definitely let parents hold!
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
Thanks @Mrs. Deer: Great to hear from your perspective!! :)I can see how laying down for 4+shots can be a better option so things are done quickly. We can encourage the parents to be near their little one’s face and comfort them that way.
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I nursed my lo through most shots. It comforted and distracted her.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I remember asking to hold my son through his shots and they said no! I have never been allowed to hold him and it was so traumatizing for me as well as him!
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
@Mrs. Pen: oh no, I am so sorry….keep trying to advocate for your son. Who are “they”? Is it the nurses saying this…bc then maybe you can mention to the doctor and see if that can help??
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. Pizza: yeah, they said it was easier to just hold him down – faster and more accurate. They being the MA and the doctor. I love our practice- but didn’t love that! He’s older now so it’s not as huge of a deal. But for sure if I have any more kids!