It seems that I am just now recovering from the holiday craze – enough to have the mental capacity to recall and recount my son’s eye surgery.
At the end of October, KJ had strabismus surgery to correct his esotropia. Historically, anticipation has always been much worse for me than the actual thing when it happens. And so anticipating the surgery for months and months was nerve-wracking, and when we were given the opportunity to move the surgery a week earlier, I said, “Yes please, can we do it yesterday?”
I expected to be a nervous wreck on the morning of the surgery, but I was surprisingly calm (I attribute this to much information gathering and well, God). A friend of ours, an anesthesiologist, walked us through what to expect on the day of the surgery, which tremendously helped in calming my nerves. It also helps when your kid is in great spirits and is too young to have a clue. The nurses were fantastic (I love nurses), bringing a fresh array of toys to keep KJ occupied and entertained while we waited for the doctor. The entire procedure lasted about 45 minutes, and then we were called to KJ’s bedside.
When he rolled up, his eyes were covered in ointment. It took him a few minutes to wake up, and though he didn’t wake up screaming like some people warned me, he seemed genuinely pissed off. And when he opened his eyes, he looked like a different baby. And maybe he felt like a different baby. I’m told that with the straightened eyes he would have added depth perception and be able to see things in 3-D, whereas before he did not. This might explain the clumsiness the first few days, but he adjusted rather quickly.
Even though I knew he would look different after surgery, I wasn’t prepared for how drastic the change would be. It took about a week for us all to get used to his “new” eyes. After all, we only knew him with his crossed eyes.
After the surgery, we had a series of follow-up appointments – the day after surgery, three days after surgery, and then six weeks after surgery. The first couple appointments were to rule out any infection, and the six-week appointment was to determine if he would need a follow-up surgery.
Ready to see the doctor for his six-week follow-up appointment
His eyes have adjusted very well and the surgery was a success! There is always a possibility the eyes may cross again in the future, but I am hoping he won’t need any additional surgeries in the future. For now, the plan is to meet with the pediatric ophthalmologist every four months, and then if everything goes well, twice a year until KJ is school-age. The entire process was probably more traumatic for us parents (as most things are), but he seems to be just fine.
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Thanks so much for this. I think we are also going to have to do surgery–my daughter is three. I have heard about it being a really unpleasant experience afterwards with bloody eyes and whatnot. Was he in any pain and did you experience the bloody eyes or anything else like that?
Again thanks so much and I am so glad he’s doing so well!
cherry / 108 posts
Wow what a change indeed! Kids are just so remarkably resilient! It blows my mind how quickly they nounce back. Love all the pics. He is just too cute! Glad it all went well!
cherry / 196 posts
Wow, the things the medical field can do is amazing! Your son is so handsome and I’m glad he’s doing well.
grapefruit / 4361 posts
Good for you!! My husband’s esotropia was never corrected as a child, and as a result he is so clumsy and has significant trouble reading and spelling (reverses his letters). While it’s hard to submit your child to surgery, it is for the best!
coconut / 8079 posts
What a beautiful boy! So glad everything went well.
blogger / persimmon / 1220 posts
@JG – I was told he might have some bloody tears for a few days, but that really only happened just for the first few hours after surgery. They say the redness can last 1 – 2 weeks, but my son’s eyes weren’t terribly red, and I’d say it lasted about a week (maybe less). Good luck to you!
pomelo / 5220 posts
so glad it went well!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Hooray for a successful procedure!!
papaya / 10560 posts
I had my first strabismus surgery at 17 months. I needed a follow up surgery a year later, and didn’t have another until i was 21 years old! Amazing the things doctors can do with corrective treatment now.
grapefruit / 4731 posts
Glad to hear everything went well!!!
blogger / grape / 92 posts
I’m so happy for all of you! I also had this surgery as an infant, then again when I was 16. It was so amazing to see the vast difference in sight when I was a teenager, I can’t even imagine what it was like as an infant! Glad his adjustment went smoothly