There are a myriad of dressing challenges when it comes to gestation. Every trimester has its own quirks and challenges and the 4th is no exception. A couple key issues I’ve run across when prepping for how I’m going to dress.
- After months of allowing my body to be someone else’s home, I’m ready to get back to my body being my own and my clothing reflecting that.
- Need to accommodate a flexible bust size. I do not like the way I look with a C cup or higher. Fortunately, mine dive down to a B fairly quickly, but I still need to dress to accommodate the increase before I nurse.
- The clothing needs to be breastfeeding friendly. I have no issue with breastfeeding in public, but do want it to be as easy and accommodating as possible.
- As well as hiding a deflating post pregnancy belly, the clothing needs to accommodate those giant undies that accommodate the giant pad.
- Requires minimal attention to detail. Getting things done with a toddler and a newborn is going to be enough of a new ordeal, I’d rather not having fussy clothes.
Here are some of my postpartum clothing choices:
They are loose and skim over the body, requiring only a belt to give your postpartum body shape. Only needing to undo a couple buttons means that I remain covered up for the most part.
Nursing sweatshirts only require a quick zip to have breastfeeding access. For those cooler spring days joggers have the comfort of leggings while having the ability to mask those giant panties.
Offer plenty of shape to the postpartum body and typically made with lots of stretch making it easy to just pull down for breastfeeding.
It is so difficult to find great nursing bras, especially if you prefer a demi cup or racer back. I also somehow missed the memo about needing different underwear after a baby. Nothing will make you feel quite as attractive as asking your husband to pick up even bigger, granny panties while he is at the store picking up more stool softener.
Decent PJs | Drawstring shorts/loose tanks or tees
I’ll be spending so much time lounging around and resting, I don’t want to always be schlepping. Plus people come over to visit and it’s nice to not be wearing something ratty. Drawstring shorts are less restrictive than denspring-like spring like and easy to throw on. Loose tanks or tees make it so that I don’t have to worry about my back being exposed — I can just pull the shirt down a bit.
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How do you prefer to dress after baby? Anxious to get back to yourself or happy to stay as casual as possible?
guest
I have struggled so much with post baby clothes, specifically nursing clothes! I hate that 90% of the nursing clothes out there are also designed
guest
(argh, accidentally posted too early!) to be maternity clothes, when you’re so ready to not emphasize your belly area. And the nursing tanks with built in shelves do not contain my boobs (I don’t think they’re huge either!). I keep thinking I should start my own nursing clothing line because it seems like there is a lack of good options out there!
coffee bean / 35 posts
I’ve been really happy with wearing Coobie sports bras. I’ve been nursing my LO for 23 months so far. I just pop the boob out under the bra and my shirt then slip back over when done – no problem even in public. It’s worked better than the ones with snaps near the top. I used those with my first son.
grape / 87 posts
I really struggled with this last time and now that I’m getting closer to my due date I’m dreading it again. I feel like wearing my maternity clothes is admitting defeat, but I refuse to buy transition clothes that are a bigger size than I wore previously. These transition dresses are such a great option and actually really cute. Thanks for sharing!
blogger / coffee bean / 43 posts
@Megatherium: dresses for the win!! I know some women don’t like dresses, but I love that it is one item dressing and you’re done (lazy!!)