Hellobee

I just took my second and third solo flight with Bunny. Last time I wrote about flying with her she was 15 months; this time she was 18 months, and boy, oh boy, what a difference three months make. I held her as a lap child last time, but this time I opted to buy her own seat. With a growing bump, I wasn’t too keen on holding her for three+ hours, so letting her have her own seat was the best option for us.

This option was amazing. Not only did my arms get a break for three hours, but I actually got to read AND take a nap during one of the flights. I can’t remember the last time I felt that relaxed, especially on a flight. Oh, and get this: she even fell asleep before we took off. Thank you very much, airplane white noise!

With more flights under our belts, I wanted to share five things I think helped:

1. Get Organized:

This trip lasted around one month long and was through the tail end of summer and the beginning of fall, which posed a little bit of a packing conundrum. My goal is always to take as little as possible on trips, so this is what I packed:

• One large suitcase: with everything for me and Julia; I always pack my empty purse last and then I take…
• One backpack for me: I like to keep my hands free, so everything goes on my back. My backpack held my wallet, laptop, ipad/kindle, hand sanitizer, and any other knick knacks I needed.
• One backpack for Julia: (I got her a Skip Hop backpack a few weeks before our trip) with diapers, wipes, diaper cream, medicine (just in case), (new) snacks, and toys.
• Umbrella stroller: We picked up a cheap stroller the night before we left for our cruise, and it’s come in more than handy. Best $10 we ever spent. We do have a larger stroller, but that would just be too bulky to take on a trip, so I like using the smaller one for navigating through an airport.
• Car seat: Bunny’s regular car seat is a Diono Radian RXT, which is WAY too heavy for me to carry on my own, so I knew I wanted a second car seat (not just for traveling, but as a backup for our second car, or in case the babysitter needs it in a pinch). I took to the boards and saw that people recommended the Evenflo Tribute LX Convertible Car Seat, especially for airline travel since it’s light and super easy to install; it also had really great reviews. I’m SO happy I bought this car seat! Best purchase ever.

2. Get Familiar:

I felt really unprepared the first time I flew solo with my daughter. It was just a fast-paced experience and I wish I felt more in control. So this time we got familiar with everything and essentially did a trial run before we left the house. I had the new car seat in the house for about a week before we flew so she could get accustomed to it, and I tried maneuvering everything (backpack on my back, suitcase in hand, and stroller in front of me) before our trip. I didn’t want to be at the airport and realize that I couldn’t steer the car seat and roll the suitcase at the same time. Luckily, Bunny loves sitting in her stroller, and she equally liked sitting in her new car seat, so I’m happy she got familiar with her new seat before the trip.

This was my setup: Bunny in the stroller (holding our tickets), her backpack on a handle, the car seat on both handles, my backpack on my back, and my comfy shoes on my feet!

3. Mobilization:

This part still excites me SO much. I was really worried about how in the world I’d carry the car seat, push a stroller, and pull a suitcase. Then, I saw on some of the Hellobee boards, that someone suggested attaching the car seat to the stroller handles. GENIUS. Pure genius. It worked perfect. Granted, a child needs to be in the stroller so the whole thing doesn’t tip over, but it works like a charm. As far as the suitcase goes, I checked it in at the curb-side check-in so I wouldn’t have to worry about it.

After that, it was a breeze. This was the first time I wasn’t wearing a baby through security, so I was worried about the extra stress there, but it turned out to be okay. As I went through security they actually told me there was a stroller/family lane and I was directed over there (I’m not sure if this is at all airports or if I just encountered two really awesome TSA agents on both trips, but it’s worth checking into). Everything was much more relaxed and I didn’t feel rushed or stressed.

4. Ask for Help:

Seriously…ask for help. People are usually more than willing to help once they actually notice you’re doing it on your own. I was really worried about how I’d walk down the tiny plane aisle carrying Bunny, a car seat, and two backpacks. I boarded at the family boarding time* and the second I made eye contact with the flight attendant at the front of the plane, I asked for help. Both times the attendants were gems and ended up carrying the car seat to our row, then I folded up the stroller (for gate check) and carried Bunny to our seats. She sat/climbed in the seat next to me while I got everything hooked up. I would rather ask for help than get stressed and try to suffer on my own.

*Keep your child’s mood in mind. The first time I flew solo I wish I waited until the end of all the boarding before getting on the plane, since Bunny was too antsy to sit still this long. This time, I knew she could handle sitting in her car seat from the beginning.

5. Distraction is Key: 

I packed her little backpack with (what I thought was) plenty of new snacks and toys, but it turns out that those actually didn’t distract her for as long as I wanted. What did distract her? Stickers, the in-flight guide, looking out the window, and my iPad mini. Trust me, this isn’t the time to be squeamish about screen time. I downloaded her favorite shows and it bought me at least an hour of quiet time (yup, an hour)!

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So those are the biggies. Even though Bunny is still rear facing in the car, I decided to forward face her on the plane. She meets the requirements and I read that if she’s forward facing I would be able to “hide” behind her seat so she couldn’t see me. When she ended up falling asleep, this was the perfect time for me to get some shut eye. It also meant that I didn’t have to entertain her the whole time. She’s currently 34″ tall, and for the record, her toes barely graced the seat in front of her—in case you were worried about her kicking the seat.

Giving her in her own seat, while expensive, was SO much easier on me. Holding a child in your lap is one thing when they’re itty bitty, but once they start moving around? Forgetaboutit.

Have you flown solo with one child in their own seat? Do you have any tips you’d like to add? My next attempt will probably be solo flying with two kids, but that terrifies me at the moment!