We haven’t enrolled the kids in that many activities because their preschools, after school programs, and summer camps have many built-in activities, and being exposed to a wide range helps figure out where their interests lie. But many of Charlie’s friends have started specific classes and lessons this year (piano, gymnastics, softball, etc.), and I’ve really started thinking about it too now that they’re getting older and their interests more apparent.
These are the activities the kids have done since birth, memberships we’ve purchased, what’s been worth it, and what we’re thinking about doing next!
6 Months – Music Together
Music Together classes are for kids from birth on and can be found all over the world. In these once a week classes kids attend with parents, you sing songs, dance, play instruments, and do the parachute of course. There are mixed age classes, which is what we attended with kids from 0-5, as well as age specific classes. Costs vary in each region, but in our neighborhood it’s currently $320 for 10 weeks. We definitely enjoyed Music Together and it was a great introduction to classes for an infant. It was pricier than other music classes in our area, but you know you’re getting a solid program.
Another mixed age music class we loved even more was a Saturday drop-in class we took at a music conservatory when Olive was 1 and Charlie was 3. I liked that we didn’t have to make a commitment and could just pay every time we attended; I believe it was $10/class and it was well worth it. We also told all our daycare friends about it and many of them attended, which made it even more fun. Taught by young, energetic musicians, each class had a theme like “disco” and we would learn about music from that era. The kids were introduced to a wide variety of real instruments they could play, and there was plenty of free play as well. If this class were still going on, I think we’d drop in now and then!
9 Months – 15 Months – Gymboree Classes
Once Music Together was over, we enrolled Charlie in a Gymboree style music class and then a movement class. 9 months was a great age to start these classes because he was down to 2 naps and on a more predictable schedule. These classes are typically pretty pricey in our neighborhood, but the biggest perk was also gaining access to their play gym. Our winters are long and cold and having access to the indoor gym was a godsend.
During this time we also did one-off drop-in singalongs and storytimes. Storytimes at the library, bookstore or cafes were free, while singalongs typically cost $5-$10. I like the noncommittal nature of drop-in classes because you never know when a nap is going to mess your schedule up with young kids.
15 months – 3 years: Memberships
We didn’t enroll either kid in any classes between the ages of 15 months – 3 years. They were getting a lot of different activities at school, and then we either did playdates or spent a lot of time at the playground. At 13 months we did get a Children’s Museum membership, and used that quite regularly on cold and rainy days.
Over the years Charlie has touched worms, turtles, snails, Madagascar hissing cockroaches and more at the Children’s Museum.
3 years – Karate
I’ve always wanted Charlie to do some form of martial arts since it’s a big part of both Mr. Bee’s and my culture (karate for him, taekwondo for me). 3 is the youngest age they’ll accept students at our local karate studio (taekwondo studios didn’t accept until older) so I signed Charlie up for a one month trial class. It was a 3-4 year old class and he had a lot of fun, but I felt that he was a little young at the time to follow all the directions so we didn’t continue with the classes after the month trial. I think 4 would have been a better age to start.
3 years – Ballet
I enrolled Olive in a 2-3 year old ballet class at a Gymboree type place. It was probably more relaxed than a ballet studio and a perfect introduction for Olive. She loved it so much and we would have continued classes, but the 3-4 class conflicted with her preschool schedule. Once she’s in pre-k come fall, I think we’ll start ballet again!
3 years – Korean School
Charlie and Olive started Korean school shortly after Charlie turned 5 and Olive turned 3 because 3 is the minimum age you can enroll. It’s 4 hours every Saturday which I think is a little too long for a 3 year old after a long week of school. Charlie on the other hand loves Korean school, particularly because they also learn taekwondo with a fantastic teacher. Because we don’t speak Korean at home, I knew that the language acquisition process was going to be slow. But now they really identify with being Korean, and I like that the kids are exposed to Korean culture.
2 years – Current: Botanical Garden Membership
We’ve had memberships to the children’s museum, zoo, history museum and the botanical garden over the years, and our botanical garden membership is hands down our favorite and most used. Mr. Bee blogged about that here! You just never get tired of being in nature when you live in the city, and I always feel much more relaxed when I’m at the botanical garden. They also have many different children’s events throughout the year, as well as special members-only events; we attend almost all of them! For instance last night was a jazz themed rose garden event since the roses are in full bloom. They had a jazz band playing, people were dressed up in their 20’s finery, and they sold alcohol or you could BYOB and picnic.
I love that they always have some sort of craft or activity for kids. Last night’s was making hats for the hat parade, and the kids absolutely adored it.
We don’t get tired of going there like the zoo or children’s museum; it’s so much more hands-on and it engages all 5 of your senses!
5 years – Swimming and More
Charlie takes swimming classes once a week in his after school program, and I’m looking into private lessons over the summer or in the fall. We have friends who have taken swimming classes for over a year, and it really is much more economical and quick when you take private lessons because they can usually pick it up in about 5 lessons. Group classes are a great introduction though to get them comfortable in the water.
Charlie really identifies with being an artist and loves arts and crafts. He hasn’t shown much interest in playing sports. I asked him if he’d rather play a sport like soccer or softball, or learn the piano, and he said that he’d prefer to learn the piano. I don’t want to have too many activities going on for the kids so I think we’ll sign them up for one each in the fall. Ballet for Olive, and maybe piano for Charlie. And then next summer instead of signing up for one summer camp all summer like we have the past two years, I think we’ll experiment with a couple of shorter camps that cater to their interests. Olive is a budding artist like her big brother!
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What classes has your little one taken? Which ones have they most enjoyed?
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
We started gymnastics through our city at age 2. Its such a great deal and a real gym (bars and rings and balance beams in addition to floor mats). They have a lottery to enroll because its so popular for both working parents (night and weekend classes) and stay at home parents (cheap and during the day). Once we are enrolled we get priority enrollment for future seasons. It is about $40 for a 12 week session (1/2 hour session per week).
When she turned 3 we also enrolled her in ballet. Most of the preschools here have a ballet company come to the school during the day. Its great that she gets to go with her friends and we dont have to coordinate transportation in the evenings. But it is more expensive at $45/month. Her little recital was this week and it was so cute.
Now that she is 4 we are also considering adding in a sport. I think soccer and t-ball are popular at this age. We will have to see what fits with our schedule.
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We signed our daughter up for swim lessons when she was two years old and she loved it. That said, I wish we had started her sooner. Swimming is a survival skill so the sooner they are comfortable in the water the better!
kiwi / 511 posts
Our oldest is 5 so we haven’t done anything yet, but in the fall (or late summer) we plan on putting him in some type of martial arts. I think he needs the structured outlet for his energy and a place to learn discipline other than from us his parents. I think it will allow him to develop the ability to focus and control. I have seen wonderful things with my niece who is now 14 and has her black belt (but I forget how many stripes on it) and my oldest has a similar temperament to her. He will also start religious ed classes as well.
I do want him to learn to swim, I think it is an important life lesson, but it isn’t a priority just yet. From poking around it seems that the best value for our money will be to join a Y so that we can use their pool for practice and exercise.
This morning he told us he wants to be in all the sports (soccer, football, hockey, baseball, hockey) so we will probably do t-ball or something next summer. He is just so small right now that I really didn’t think it was something to start this year.
Our youngest is 3 and will probably follow a similar schedule as the elder.
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We are in Australia so like most parents who can afford it time and money wise our daughter has been in swimming lessons since she was 6 months old. She’s now nearly 3 and I’m glad we were able to start early. We did some music and music class through the Y when she was less than 1, which were always fun, and gymbaroo until about 18 months. Gymbaroo is good but expensive and once she was in daycare 3-4 days a week I didn’t think she needed so much structured activity on her days off. I think next year we might try gymnastics as she loves tumbling and jumping and is a bit of a daredevil, if love for her to have a safe place to explore. We’ve had memberships to the zoo and science museum in our city which I also find great for those days you are not sure what to do.
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Where do you take the Korean classes? I live near the city and would love to enroll my 3 year old. Does Olive enjoy it?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@crystal – there are two korean schools in the city. one in chelsea and the other in the les. we attend the one in chelsea!
http://www.manhattankoreanschool.org/KoreanSchool/Home.asp
and yes olive enjoys it! but the commute is just killer for us from brooklyn.