For the first two weeks of Baby Oats’ life, I was completely amazed. Little Oats had been a very alert newborn – she rarely slept for longer than 1/2 hour at a time during the day, and never for more than 2 hours at night. She needed to be held constantly and with my postpartum depression and anxiety, it was overwhelming. But Baby Oats has been completely different. He’s relaxed, sleepy and content; he will nap in 2 hour stretches, wake up to eat and look around, then fall back asleep. For two full weeks I was in awe of this little baby who was just so EASY.
But around the two week mark, his casual spitting up became much more prevalent. His lazy manner of nursing turned into a struggle; he would gulp, cough, unlatch and scream. After each feeding his little legs were pulled up to his stomach and he would grunt and cry. He had incredible gas; I could hear his stomach gurgling, and any release of gas was explosive and sounded painful.
I assumed I was eating something that was bothering him, or that maybe my fast letdown was causing him to gulp too much air. But after carefully recording what I ate for a few days (and finding no patterns at all), and adjusting how I nursed and how frequently I burped him, the pain and discomfort seemed the same. Baby Oats was no longer falling asleep nursing – he was in too much pain. We went through dozens of outfits and burp cloths daily – he was spitting up at least three or four times after each feeding. I was briefly reassured because he was still gaining weight (by three weeks old, he had jumped from 8lb 12oz to 10lb 12oz), but ultimately I knew there was something wrong.
At my most recent checkup with the midwives, I brought up my concerns. Instantly, the midwife mentioned GERD: gastroesophageal reflux disorder. Though she couldn’t diagnose anything, she suggested that we consult with a pediatrician. Again, since Baby Oats was gaining weight well, she didn’t seem too concerned. But she wrote a referral, and two days later, we were in the pediatrician’s office.
Our family is very familiar with GERD; both Mr O and myself have had it at one point in our adult lives, plus my mother and grandmother also have it. But in an infant, it seems a lot scarier. Knowing that each time he spits up, stomach acid is burning up his esophagus makes me wince; I know that pain, but when it happened to me, I knew what was causing it and why. Baby Oats has no clue why eating hurts him.
The pediatrician did a full assessment. She asked about any and all symptoms I’ve observed, checked Baby Oats for signs of anything else that could be wrong, and told me a bit about reflux and GERD. All babies have reflux; the muscle that closes the stomach off to the esophagus isn’t fully developed yet. With an all-liquid diet, inevitably some of that liquid is going to come back up. Where typical reflux becomes GERD is when there is some damage being done, or obvious discomfort. Though Baby Oats was gaining weight well, and didn’t have any blood in his spit up (two of the more severe signs of GERD), he was in obvious pain after feeding and after spitting up.
For a confirmed diagnosis of GERD, the pediatrician said they would have to do a swallow study. However, since this is a long and bothersome process, her practice deals with it a little differently. Because GERD is suspected, we were given a two week trial of Prevacid. If it helps, we’ll just keep on with that. If it does nothing, or if it makes it worse, we’ll start looking for other reasons for Baby Oats’ pain (such as a protein intolerance/MSPI).
We’re now eight days into the trial of Prevacid, and honestly, it’s making a big difference. Though Baby Oats is still spitting up, the volume has decreased. He also doesn’t scream after every feed, or after he spits up. As my milk supply is adjusting also, his gas is getting better. I haven’t had to use gripe water or Ovol gas drops in two days, which seems like a small miracle.
We’re going to consult with the pediatrician again in a week, and I’m also meeting with my naturopath to chat about probiotics for Baby Oats. But I’m so thankful that we seem to have found a solution fairly quickly, and his pain seems to be just about gone!
blogger / kiwi / 626 posts
Oh man, we are just starting to climb out of the depths of reflux hell. I felt exactly like you with Little Bug, at first I thought I had the easiest baby ever, and then at exactly three weeks, he turned into the angriest baby and it was awful. Hang in there mama! It will keep getting better.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
@Mrs. Cereal: yes! So glad it’s going well for you guys!
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
We’ve had such a similar experience! LO2 is now 12 weeks old and he’s been on Zantac for about 3 weeks now and it’s made a huge difference. Like you, we were reassured that everything was fine early on (even though he had bad gas and was spitting up A LOT) because he was gaining weight so well. However, even though he kept gaining, I knew something wasn’t quite right and he was prescribed Zantac at his 2 month appt. I remember crying and worrying a lot in the first few weeks because I was terrified that my milk was hurting him
Thankfully, it seems like the meds are doing the trick and it isn’t some sort of intolerance at this point.
Hope things keep getting better for y’all!
blogger / apricot / 431 posts
Baby Pizza has thankfully outgrown the hardest part of it…but we definitely go through so many bibs a day. So good to hear that you found a good solution right away. Hope it continues….hang in there!!
grapefruit / 4455 posts
Glad to hear it’s going so well! I read the boards and reflux sounds so scary for a lot of people. Just miserable. I’m wondering if what we’re experiencing is somewhat out of the norm. Ds is for the most part ok, but he wakes up spitting up in the middle of the night, and he will take a nap and wake up and spit up from something he had hours before. He seems really uncomfortable while burping but isn’t screaming while actually drinking the bottle and isn’t (so far) crying as much as I would expect with reflux… so I don’t know! We have a doctors appointment in a week and I plan to talk to her about it then.
blogger / honeydew / 7081 posts
@2littlepumpkins: honestly, that’s what we started out like. I didn’t think reflux immediately because he didn’t seem miserable ALL the time, like I expected. Mention it to your doctor for sure- even if it’s just normal baby reflux instead of GERD, it’s good to know!