As Jackson has gotten older, I’ve learned that I’m going to have to constantly arrange and re-arrange the things in his room to best meet his needs. He’s fiercely independent (as are most toddlers, it seems) and loves when I let him do things for himself. I’m all about promoting his independence as much as I can, so I’m constantly looking for ways that I can re-arrange the things in our life to allow him to try new things out.
One area where we can consistently and easily encourage his independence is through his clothing choices. He went through a brief phase where he absolutely insisted on choosing his own clothes each morning (he’s less picky now), and he still gets very excited when he’s able to get into his closet to pick his own things out. So, I’ve tried to arrange everything in his room to be as accessible and toddler-friendly as possible. I’ve tried to store all of his clothes in a way so that he’s able to get to them as independently as he can, and so I don’t have to do everything for him in the mornings when he’s getting dressed.
Jackson has a tiny closet (his whole room is tiny, really!) so I’m pretty limited in what I can do in there. I got a hanging organizer before he was born and it has been a lifesaver in keeping such a little space organized. As of now, I keep several different baskets in the organizer and each has a different category of clothes tossed in (shorts, pants, socks, etc.). Jackson learned pretty quickly what each basket houses, and now he’s able to grab a basket, pull it out, and choose what he’d like to wear. His tops are harder for him to access – for now, I just hold him up and let him decide what he wants to wear. I have them organized by long-sleeved and short-sleeved shirts.
At the bottom of a closet is yet another basket where we keep all of his shoes. There’s no organization to it – I just toss them all in there. It makes for easy cleanup and means that Jackson is perfectly capable of cleaning it up all by himself when he dumps every single shoe on the floor in the mornings to decide which ones he wants to wear. It’s also been a great way to practice finding matching pairs – he’s a pro now!
I keep all of his pajamas in his dresser – they’re kind of folded here, but generally they’re just tossed into the drawer…eventually we’ll teach him how to fold, but for now I want to make things as easy as possible for him to clean up by himself. I don’t keep the pajamas organized, which means that sometimes he chooses some pretty crazy combinations to sleep in! Right now we’re practicing the concept that he has to choose a shirt and pants to wear, not two shirts or two pairs of pants. It’s a work in progress.
And finally, the extra clothes – you know, the ones that are off-season or too big. We don’t have a ton of extra room for storage in our house, so I was determined to keep all extra clothing in his room. That’s where the built-ins come in.
We’ve got several big boxes that I have labeled with various sizes and that’s where we keep all of the excess clothes. When he was little, these were full of clothes for the next few sizes – now I just have a few pieces here and there in the size up, and I also store off-season clothes that he may still fit into next year.
It’s nothing fancy, but I’ve found that it’s really helpful to spend some time thinking about how Jackson accesses his room and how we can store things so that we can maximize his independence. He’s so much more happy and cooperative when we allow him to choose his clothing, and our mornings go so much more smoothly!
Our next step is to re-organize how we store his toys and other paraphernalia so we can maximize the use of the things we need and get rid of the things we don’t! Slowly but surely, this room is transforming from a nursery into a toddler’s room!
How do you organize your kids’ clothing?
pomelo / 5866 posts
Great setup. I love how accessible everything is! I have 4 small drawers- pjs, undies, swimming, and long sleeve. The main lower giant drawer has 3 compartments: shorts, tank tops, long pants, shirts. Then a cabinet has special occasion clothes that I don’t need to hang up. I have another drawer for jackets. Easy enough to find everything while also making it simple for DH. We work with what we have!
kiwi / 511 posts
My attempt is I have a basket that I fill on Sunday with 5 pants, 5 pairs of socks, 5 shirts and 5 underwear. In theory Mr.5 is only supposed to pick from there but he has a mind of his own and knows where his clothes are so if he doesn’t find what he wants he goes through the dresser. I am giving up on the thought of having folded clothes in the dresser. I have successfully given up on worrying about his clothes matching because he is dressed and there was no fight, I figure those with kids get it and those that don’t and care to scoff well that is no skin off my nose.
I do the same for Mr3 and he is usually ok with me still picking his clothes. He does occasionally get cranky usually with a shirt but I just put it on him and he is ok with it in less than 30 seconds. I tried the pick this one or that one trick and he wouldn’t pick either so I still pick for now.
blogger / apricot / 378 posts
@808love: Sounds like you have a great setup too! @Mrs.Maven: I love this!! I think the idea of filling a basket with clothes for the week is absolutely perfect.
kiwi / 511 posts
@Mrs. Garland: yeah I focus on school days
Saturday is a free for all and Sunday I generally pick what they wear to church with the understanding they can change into anything when we get home (they rarely do).
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
I keep all of DS’s going out clothes in the bottom two drawers of his dresser (one drawer for tshirts and shorts, the other for long sleeved shirts and pants). He can easily open them up and pick out his clothing! He also knows how to put his clothes in the drawers, but they go in unfolded. One day!
I also keep his shoes by the door with mine and DH’s. Occasionally, he won’t mind which shoe I put on for him, but once in awhile, he has a strong preference for the converse pair. Ha!
blogger / apricot / 378 posts
@Alivoo01: sounds like you have a great system! Jackson is particularly fond of his Toms lately, haha – so funny how picky they get about these things!