My coworker was talking about something that would happen at my 3 month mark post-partum, and then casually threw in, “You know, when all your hair starts to fall out.” I had decided early on in my pregnancy that I would donate all the hair I had accumulated before it began falling out in droves, but now I knew I had at least a couple months of a buffer to get out of the house and actually do it with a newborn on the scene. I usually grow my hair pretty long, and then cut it short, and grow it out again. Sometimes I look back at photos and I balk at the length of my hair because it almost looks like something that should be on a horse. Case in point, this prom-esquely posed photo after my husband and I graduated university.
At about that 3 month mark I realized my now-wayward hairs were becoming a hazard for creating invisible tourniquets on my baby’s fingers and toes, so I made an appointment at Gene Juarez. I decided I wanted either a pixie cut if the stylist thought I could pull it off, or something I could still put in a ponytail for dance. She asked tentatively if I’d ever had a pixie cut before, to which I said no. She thought long and hard about my hairline, my thickness of hair at the hairline, and played with my hair for a bit before she decided that she probably didn’t want to be the author of possibly the worst hair cut of my life. She politely chalked it up to, “You say you just want something that’s wash and wear, and a pixie cut will require some work each day.”
I went away with perhaps not the best short hair cut I’ve ever had, but it was alright. I think my stylist was playing it very conservative, because maybe they get nervous when they see a girl come in with super long hair that wants it chopped off?
Locks for Love is typically what comes to mind when you think of donating hair, but I was surprised to read that they don’t necessarily help children with cancer like I had thought. The wigs are for children with permanent hair loss, which often excludes hair loss from chemotherapy because it is not permanent. They sell many of the wigs on a sliding scale cost instead of freely giving them. It also seems like they actually make very few wigs relative to the donations, and that they are positively inundated with ponytails that they end up selling for $3 a piece. So the Pantene Beautiful Lengths program sounded like a great alternative, and the wigs would actually go toward cancer patients.
Here’s a basic run down of what to do. I had my stylist cut the donation before the actual hair cut, and she sectioned off my hair into three different pony tails.
Did anyone else donate hair after your baby was born?
GOLD / nectarine / 2884 posts
I did! I cut mine when LO was about 7 months. I miss my long hair though! Now at 18 months it is at a length that I enjoy.
I had a pixie when DH and I met. I loved it! I would love to go back to those days for a minute but I worry that it becomes mom hair on me now. Not sure I can pull it off anymore.
Cute cut by the way! Such bounce and movement!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
When I was 19, I donated to pantene beautiful lengths for the same reasons as you. I did a cute layered cut and I loved it. I prefer my hair longer now.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
I like the shorter cut!
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
Love your haircut!
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
I donated to Pantene about 5 years ago, but have held onto my long hair post-baby. Love the convenience of a ponytail too much.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Your short hair looks great!
I also did this after our wedding, a 13 inch chop! I didn’t have as much post baby, so I couldn’t donate!
pomegranate / 3595 posts
I donated to Pantene when I chopped my hair at 6 weeks post partum! I chose the program for similar reasons as you outlined. I am so glad you are enjoying your shorter hair!
coconut / 8079 posts
My hair simply doesn’t grow long enough to donate, but I think it’s a wonderful gift to give someone. I love your shorter cut!
nectarine / 2771 posts
I donate my hair every 8-10 months to Beautiful Lengths. I love the program! Love your new cut
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
you look so cute and a great cause! my hair grows so slow, i never have the required amount. I’m currently loosing all my hair from baby summer and its everywhere!
persimmon / 1165 posts
Yep! I donated to Pantene Beautiful Lengths when I did my post-wedding chop. I also cut off a bunch 3 months pp, but the ponytail is actually still sitting on my dresser in a baggie almost a year later … really need to get on mailing that out!
coconut / 8279 posts
Great haircut!
I’ve donated twice in my life & hope to again
apricot / 403 posts
I donated before and plan to again if I make it through this pregnancy without chopping my hair off.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
My hair doesn’t grow long enough to donate, but it certainly got much thicker during pregnancy. I loved pregnancy hair. Your cut looks cute!
pomegranate / 3921 posts
I donated to Pantene when my SIL was battling cancer. They are a great organization!!
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
I this post because people think Locks of Love is the only option. But what they don't realize is it's not going to kids like they think it is.
nectarine / 2631 posts
I donated before LO was born! I was only a few months pregnant and didn’t want to deal with my hair anymore!
pomelo / 5132 posts
What a wonderful thing to do! You look great!
grapefruit / 4049 posts
My 6 yo just chopped off 10 inches and we’re decided where to donate… great post! thanks for sharing!