The dreaded nap transition. Or, at least it was dreaded by me. We’ve been through a lot of nap transitions so far, but the transition to one nap was the one that has been looming over me. I had grown comfortable with our two nap routine. It felt like the perfect setup – the first morning nap allowed me to nap myself, if needed, then the second nap was for getting things done around the house.
Now, I can just about say we’re through the transition and have landed safely on the other side with one nap a day. It’s going pretty well so far, and actually not as bad as I originally imagined. We’re still working out a new routine, but we’re getting there. The transition part is behind us now, and we’re moving forward. I’m glad that it’s over with and that we’ll get to keep this one nap routine for a while now.
I wanted to share a bit about the transition with you in case you’re approaching this particular nap transition. I have a good friend to thank for some tips that I found extremely helpful in our transition. So from one mom to another, here are some tips that you might find handy.
Signs
It can be hard to know when your baby is ready for something, especially a nap transition. I knew Petit Macaron could be ready to transition anytime since many of his friends that are the same age just went through the transition. I probably over analyzed everything. Then there is the questioning – is that a sign he’s ready or something else? Maybe he’s teething? Maybe he’s got gas? I was in denial for a little while at the start. He seemed so tired in the mornings. How was he ever going to make it on just one nap? But all other signs pointed to him needing to transition, so we dived in. Here are some signs your baby might be ready:
- Skipping the second nap
- Fighting naps and bedtime
- Waking up early in the morning (like 5am)
- Waking in the night when your baby had previously been sleeping through
Transitioning
You’ve decided it’s time to transition to one nap. Now what? Below is what we did in our transition. It took just over a week for us to do the transition. We’re currently at an 11:45am nap time, and we are still hoping to reach noon. But for now, I feel close enough.
- Start to push the first nap back 30 minutes every few days.
- You can try for a second nap for the first part of the transition. You’d want to do it about 3 hours after first nap. However, keep it short – like 30 to 45 minutes. And don’t have the nap go after 5pm.
- Be sure to give your baby a snack or lunch before the nap so as to avoid waking due to hunger.
- If your baby seems tired, you can move up bedtime by 30 minutes for a while. Once the nap transition is feeling good, then back to your normal time.
Results
Awesome. You transitioned to one nap. Your baby will likely have a long nap lasting about 2 to 2-1/2 hours. You also might see your baby sleeping in a little longer in the mornings. Petit Macaron is still working on the length of his nap. Unfortunately, he’s got some major teething happening so he’s having difficulty staying asleep. I’m hoping that once the acute teething is over, he’ll sleep longer. We are seeing him sleep until 6am or 6:30am now, which is so much better than his former 5am wake-up call.
The one nap does make for quite a long stretch in the morning. During our transition, I went out to get a latte in the morning to help the passage of time and keep Petit Macaron awake. Now, I’m working hard to have an activity in the morning to help out.
I’m glad this nap will stick around awhile. One hope I have is it making meeting up with people easier. I also foresee more brunches in our weekends – ha!
Have you done the one nap transition? Any advice to share?
Please Note: I am not a doctor nor have I had any medical or baby training. This is just mom-to-mom advice. There are many methods and approaches on nap transitions, so find what feels right for your baby and you.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
As part of my sons transition to the young toddlers room at daycare he now just naps once a day. For us the most noticeable change is crankiness at bedtime as he tries to fight sleep. He takes a solid 2-2.5 hour nap between lunch and pm snack. Sometimes he sneaks in a car nap on the way home that lingers another 20-30 min. The single nap has forced us to put him to bed drowsy, but awake. At least he’s finally learning that skill.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
The sign for us was the 2nd nap was late and pushing bed time back way too late! DD was 15 months when we transitioned; we just pushed her 1st nap out as long as possible (she couldn’t stay awake past 11am at first), then just put her to bed earlier, which was a little painful since it would be a mad dash from when I get home to give her dinner wash up then pretty much she needs to sleep. But that was much better than having 9pm (or later) bed time!
nectarine / 2436 posts
This was helpful, thanks!
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I couldn’t wait to transition #2 to one nap! I am also looking forward to transitioning #3 (is 10 months too young?
) With two naps it feels like we couldn’t/can’t ever leave the house. Currently, the baby is going down at 10, up at 12, while my son (now on 1 nap) is down 12-2, then the baby back down 3-4. So at least one person is napping in my house from 10-4. uuugh! We’re house bound all weekend! I can’t wait to get our mornings and afternoons back so we can go do stuff without one parent having to stay home or forcing the baby to take a car or stroller nap!