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Postpartum Body Image, the Second Time Around

One of the moments that sticks out to me, after I had M, was when I was getting dressed to go get my staples out. It was my first time putting on real clothes to leave the house, having lived in a nursing tank and pyjama pants for about four days. I was very swollen, still, […]

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A Private Hospital Room vs. A Shared Space

Giving birth to M three years ago, we had a large room for labour, then moved over to a room that was still quite big and well-appointed after she was born. It was set up as a single room, though I believe they can add in an extra bed and a curtain if need be. […]

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A Delayed Reaction – Post Cesarean Bonding

I feel like there are many scary “you don’t even know” type posts and anecdotes out there, and plenty of older generations with the “just you wait” stories that I felt like I fully anticipated that it would be a difficult transition into motherhood and parenting. My expectations were pretty built up in this aspect. On […]

Feeling groggy and miserable in the moments after surgery.

Post-delivery complications, seven months later

Baby Lilly passed her 7 month birthday last week. I never could have imagined that I would still be dealing with the complications of her delivery seven months after she was born, and yet here I sit in bed one day after surgery. The simplified explanation for my continued post-delivery complications is that Baby Lilly’s […]

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I Worried I Didn’t Love My Baby Enough

In the days after we returned home from the hospital, I held Lion in my arms and stared in amazement at this tiny human being. I was interested in him and wanted to care for him, but one of my biggest fears throughout my first pregnancy was coming true: I didn’t love my baby. During […]

5 Things You Can do to Support First Time Moms

I’ve had the exciting privilege of having three close friends become first time moms this year. It has brought back so many memories of my own first-time mom journey and how navigating those waters can be a little bumpy at times. The hormones in the first few weeks, the sleep deprivation and the learning curve […]

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Reflections on a first week home

Baby Star Light has been home now for a week. As I’m sure most of you can relate, it has been a whirlwind. Here are the top surprises – both negative and positive – that I’ve personally experienced over the past seven days. Let’s start with the bad; I’ll call them dim Star Light moments! […]

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