Long before I was a teacher by profession, I worked as a lifeguard in my little hometown. It is a time of my life that I look back on positively for many reasons, but one of my favourite things to remember is teaching the Parent and Tot classes.
I loved working with the smallest of patrons who came to us with Mom, Dad or another caregiver at the beginning age of only 3 months old. I loved the smiles when they discovered how much fun the water could be, the pride on the parents’ faces when their little one did something new, and the thrill of handing them their first swimming progress report at the end of the session, covered in stickers with the “completed the level” box checked. At that age, everyone completed as long as they tried. It didn’t matter if their belly wasn’t at the surface when they were floating or if they had pointed toes when they kicked; it just mattered that they had experienced and hopefully enjoyed the class. Wouldn’t it be nice if more things in life were like this?
From the beginning of my journey in motherhood, I looked forward to putting Little Tea Cup into swimming lessons and eagerly awaited the first time we would walk down the deck of a pool to the instructor calling out “parent and tot 1!” I hoped she would love the water as much as I did and hopefully one day she will want to follow in my footsteps and become a lifeguard herself.
Lucky for me she loves the water as much as her Mom
1. Don’t make your first day of swimming lessons the first time your little one has ever been in a pool. Swimming pools are loud and busy places and they can be quite overwhelming for little ones. Choose a recreational swimming time at a local pool or go swimming at a family member’s or friend’s house first to help get the little one used to the new environment.
2. Don’t try swimming in cold water. As adults we don’t like it and babies really don’t like it! Find a pool that is temperature regulated and go there. If the water happens to be very cold that day, it may be a day to skip the lesson.
3. Look at the requirements for the course you are taking with your little one. You do not want to do anything that you are uncomfortable with because your anxiety will carry over to your little one. For example, I would never sign up for a parent and tot class that said you HAD to put your child under water. I do feel that it is important for them to try it, but I don’t think you should do it until the parents feel they are ready. Again stressed parent means stressed baby.
4. The change room after the class can be the worst part. It is cold, busy and you probably will have a tired baby on your hands after all that fun in the pool. If your little one cries, don’t stress. They will not be the first and they will certainly not be the last. If you have to, wrap them up in a towel, cuddle them and take them home that way. Which leads me to my next point…
5. Don’t take a baby swimming in the winter, at least not for the first time they are trying it out. Nothing is worse then being cold and tired and then heading out into the snow. If you can wait until the warmer weather comes, do it! It is so much better not having to bundle them as much to go home.
6. Know your little one. When I started swimming lessons with Little Tea Cup, we were going through a “mine” phase. If she had a toy and you took it away, you would end up with a very upset baby. To avoid this disaster taking place in swimming class (this will change when she is old enough to understand of course), we do something else during toy time. She practices her kicks and bubbles and never realizes that she could have had that little floating turtle toy that would have created a melt down.
7. Have your little one rest their head on your shoulder when they are floating on their back. Many, many children are uncomfortable floating on their backs and this is the best way that I found to help them. They will feel more secure when they know you are close to them.
8. If you can, have both parents come in the pool. The more smiles and encouragement the better! Some pools will allow you to do this if you ask!
9. Bad week? Don’t give up! I have seen so many Moms and Dads pull their child out of swimming lessons because their little one cried or didn’t seem to like it. Of course we don’t want them to do something they truly dislike, but sometimes it takes weeks for them to get used to the new environment. Don’t give up on them yet. Try taking them swimming on your own between lessons to get them used to the water in a calmer environment. Repeat to yourself: they are not the first baby to cry and they will not be the last!
10. Life jackets are wonderful and important things. They do not, however, replace the ability to swim. When you put your child in swimming lessons, you are teaching them valuable life skills. If you are reading this and thinking “my baby is not learning anything long term,” you simply have to look at the bigger picture. They are learning how to enter and exit a pool safely with a grownup, they are learning how to kick their feet and be comfortable on their front and their back without panicking, and they are learning how to breathe in the water by blowing bubbles and not inhaling it, just to name a few.
It is always a great idea to be prepared in order to make your trip to the pool as enjoyable as possible, so these are my swimming essentials:
1. 3 Sprouts Cotton Hooded Towel – These are super soft, absorbent and large enough to wrap around your little one after they get out of the pool. Not to mention they come in tons of fun colours and different animals.
2. 1-Piece Polka Dot Swimsuit – One pieces suits for swimming lessons please! Bikinis do not stay put!
3. Bummis Swimmi Swim Diaper – If you are a cloth diaper user like me, here is a cloth swim diaper that works great! These also come in tons of fun patterns and colours!
4. French Terry Hooded Cardigan – When getting baby dressed after swimming, bring something easy to put on. This hooded cardigan is easy on and off and will keep them nice and warm after their lesson.
5. Badger Baby Sunscreen – If you are taking lessons outside, sunscreen is a must! This one is fantastic for baby bodies and has a great safety rating too!
6. Bummis Sun Cap – This hat has a great long back to cover baby’s neck. It fits snugly so they can even wear it while in the pool for leisure swimming. Not to mention it coordinates with the swim diaper above!
7. Huggies Little Swimmers Swimpants – If you use disposable diapers, these are fantastic for the pool.
8. French Terry pants – Easy on after lessons and very cozy for baby.
9. Banz Adventure Baby Banz Sunglasses – These sunglasses are great, especially if your little one likes to pull their sunglasses off. They have a wide band that wraps all the way around the head and they fit closely on the face. Little Tea Cup made a good effort to get these off and couldn’t. She now wears them without complaint.
10. Bummis UV-Tee – For those very sunny days, this will give your little one some extra protection You can throw it over their swimsuit or they can wear it with their cloth diaper swim diaper!
11. Bummis Fabulous Wet Bag – This wet bag is huge and perfect for swim lessons. It will fit all the little one’s wet gear, plus Mom and Dad’s wet gear without any trouble! I love the zipper so there are no leaks. A must have for swimming for the whole family!
Happy swimming everyone! Have you or do you plan on taking swimming lessons with your little one?
Children’s Classes part 2 of 4
1. Swim Lessons by Mrs. Cake2. Top 10 Tips for Swimming with Your Little One by Mrs. Tea
3. Time to swim! by Mrs. Hopscotch
4. Music Class vs. Swimming Lessons by Mrs. Pinata
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
Love this!! Just waiting for it to warm up a little so the Trikester can start enjoying the pool and lessons. As a former lifeguard myself, I hope he loves the water.
But I’m still confused about swim diapers…are they just a civet that goes over a regular diaper (cloth or disposable)? Do you wear them without anything under them?
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Great post! We just finished our first round of swim lessons with my 21 month old…. she did surprisingly well!
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
Nice product picks Bummis products are so colorful and cute.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
Thank you! There is so little information out there about swimming with LOs. Can you do a post that’s more of a general swimming/safety with LO less geared towards lessons? Thanks!
@Mrs. Tricycle: they replace diapers but are made to only hold in poop. So don’t put them on till right before getting into the pool!
blogger / apricot / 424 posts
@Mrs. Tricycle: The cloth swim diaper that I listed in my guide is meant to be worn alone. However these are made just to catch the poop not so make sure you put them on the little one just before climbing in the pool because otherwise you may have some serious trouble with leaks!
@artbee: So glad it went well!
@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: I love fun patterns and colours
I must say Bummis are my favorites that I have seen to date, many others are so dull!
@regberadaisy: What a great idea for a post! I will start working on it ASAP :)Thank you!
cherry / 175 posts
Love this! Just bought my LO (5 months) her first swimsuit and swim diaper the other day. Looking forward to hitting the pool soon! Will definitely keep in mind your tip about not sticking her in very cold water to begin. Thanks for the post!
grapefruit / 4663 posts
My cousin is a former lifegaurd, current swim instructor, and her mom has a pool and its truly amazing watching her children in the pool. They’ve been in it since they were little bitty and are just so comfortable. Her 1 year old was swimming (with the help of a life jacket) last year and loved jumping in the pool and didn’t bat an eyelash at getting water in her eyes.
What a great lesson!
apricot / 498 posts
The twins are in their second round of lessons at 9 months. I can’t believe how far they have come in such a short time. Even when they fall down in the bathtub they know what to do. With the bathtub I make sure that I stay calm and compliment them and cheer for them just like in the pool so it is never scary for them.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
@Mrs. Tea: we have a inground pool and my husband swims like a fish so we have opted not to pay for infant lessons. So a lot of the tips out there don’t really apply to us!
So a more generic pool safety post would be appreciated! Besides fencing, not letting them out by themselves etc. I’m talking more about IN pool safety and more how to make their first experience a good one, etc.
apricot / 275 posts
I am so afraid to take her swimming because what if she poops in the water?? I know they’re wearing a CD, but what if it’s runny? Makes me nervous…
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
Love this! I’m planning on starting Liam in swim lessons this summer. I think it will be a good activity for both of us while I’m on break and a nice relief from the valley heat!
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I love Tip 7. I am so worried about her floating on her back because she hates to do it in the bath tub!
blogger / pomegranate / 3300 posts
Great post!! I love swimming with our kids. We moved to a house without a pool now and I miss it so much. I want t make sure they still have a lot of exposure to water and swimming
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We’ve been swimming since E was 6 mo and we love it! Our pool is a small indoor pool kept at 90. Since we live in Alaska, it’s always winter, but we just bundle up on our way out and are fine. Hats are obviously key for not letting hair freeze on the way to the car. I love the swimways (http://www.swimways.com/power-swimr-small-p-17.aspx) floaty because I can adjust the level of floatation help as he increases his skills.
grape / 81 posts
These are great tips!! My husband comes from a family of swimmers and I love swimming as well. Each of our boys has been in the pool at a young age and they all love it. The parents’ calm attitude toward the water is so important. If you panic when your baby gets water in his face, he’ll panic too. Smile and be enthusiastic in the pool with your baby. Later, when they’re in swimming lessons on their own, don’t hover at the pool deck and increase anxiety levels. Let the instructor take over and do his/her job. Just some other things that came to mind. Also, go swimming for fun as often as you can!
pomelo / 5866 posts
Great info! I passed the lifeguarding class and my husband and I are surfers so I am excited to start my 2 year old this summer. Just signed her up yesterday. Thanks for the packing list.
blogger / persimmon / 1398 posts
Thanks for such an informative post! Even though Mini Michelangelo is older, I’m totally going to give some of these a try on our second attempt at swimming lessons. (Although we stuck it out last year… it was a disaster!)
apricot / 301 posts
What a great post! MIL has a pool in her building and we are just waiting for LO to turn six months. Do you recommend baby floats or neck rings for her first time?