Many of my friends are just now starting to have babies, and it’s so much fun to visit and see the new little ones. Before one visit I was wandering around Target searching for a gift to bring with me, and I realized that so many times new moms receive gifts that they probably already have a lot of, like newborn clothes… because who can resist those adorable teeny outfits? So I racked my brain for something I thought might be more useful to a new mom. These are some of the ideas I came up with.
Clothes in a larger size than newborn – Like I said newborn clothes are really hard to resist so if buying clothing is your thing, maybe try buying in a larger size for the child to grow into. Often newborns grow so quickly that they never get around to wearing all of their newborn/0-3 month size clothes, but once they are bigger mom and dad have to run out to get clothes in bigger sizes since they don’t have any. When in doubt you can always even go larger, even toddler size, so that you know the child can grow into it fine. Just be aware of the seasons when thinking ahead.
Diapers in a larger size – While diapers aren’t a fun gift, they are an essential and they do add up in cost. Diapers in a larger size are a good idea since babies grow out of the small sizes quickly and it’s something that you’ll always use.
Personalized gift – When Drake was born a lot of the gifts I received when family and friends who came to visit were personalized, which I really loved. In my experience, sometimes it still didn’t feel real that I’d just had a baby. But when I saw those gifts with his name on them, it reminded me that there was this new amazing person in my life and this name that I was thinking about for all those months now belonged to this little being. I still have many of those personalized gifts in Drakes room and he loves seeing his name on his things. Some of my favorite personalized gifts include these personalized block and this custom name banner.
Gift card – Inevitably after having a baby you find that you always need to make a quick trip to Babies R Us for this or that. While it might just be little purchases here and there, it all adds up so sometimes it’s nice to just give a gift card knowing that whatever it is spent on it was needed rather than something that might not get used, since we all know that a lot of the gear and gifts you receive never gets touched.
And for the new mommy you can always bring food or a gift card for a local take out/delivery place, and offer to hold the new baby while they shower or rest as being mommy is the hardest, most wonderful job in the world.
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5. What Do You Like to Gift Moms-to-be? by Swarm
6. Customized Baby and Toddler Gift Ideas by Mrs. Confetti
7. Favorite Baby Gifts: Personalized! by Mrs. Markers
8. Gifts for Visiting a New Baby by Mrs. Chocolate
pomegranate / 3858 posts
Re: personalized gifts…
They’re really nice, but if you’re getting something personalized, make sure you know the person well. And if it’s supposed to be for the nursery, make sure you know what colours they’re using and don’t just assume that a girl’s room will be pink and boy’s room will be blue. We got a nice piece of wall art that just won’t go in my daughter’s room. It’s all shades of pink, and we’re doing aqua, grey and red in her room. I appreciated the gesture, but unfortunately, it’s not going to be used.
pomegranate / 3768 posts
My coworker got me Mothers Milk Herb Tea and I thought that was such a fabulous idea. As a new mom, I had no clue about the whole breastfeeding thing! I plan to give it to all my new mom friends. And even if they don’t have issues with milk production, it’s still nice to have a cup of hot tea and it’s inexpensive!
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
I give the most boring gifts now: Big diapers, a giant box of wipes, the Gerber pre-fold diapers as the best, but unquestionably plain, burp rags, etc. I know new mamas probably are thinking how unexciting it is to receive, but the first time their kid projectile spits-up or they realize they have 27 packs of newborn diapers and no size 3s, which they’re in fooooorrever, I feel like they’ll finally “get” my gift!
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
I am a fan of gifting books and gift cards for any occasion!
grapefruit / 4903 posts
I’m visiting a new baby tomorrow! I’m bringing two chicken pot pies, one for tomorrow and one for the freezer, two larger sized outfits for the baby, nursing pads and mother’s milk tea for mama, and a copy of LO’s favorite book from her to the new baby.
pomegranate / 3393 posts
YES to bigger clothes! It broke my heart how quickly he grew out of NB sizes!
pomegranate / 3113 posts
Definitely yes to bigger clothes! I tried to make sure DD wore all her outfits at least once, but a lot of them really did just get worn one time. And since she basically lived in footed sleepers while I was on maternity leave and only started wearing cute outfits when she started daycare, I think 3-6 or 6-9 month outfits would have been optimal.
I’m “meh” on the diaper option, though — we are picky about DD’s diapers and wipes, so if we had been gifted Huggies or Luvs or whatever, we probably would have donated them. It’s a great gift if you know what the parents are planning to use, but I always feel like diapers, wipes, and bath products are pretty personal.
blogger / pear / 1563 posts
I agree with all of these! I really like the idea of a gift card because that could go toward anything they’re missing.
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
Lately I have been bring food and gift cards (mostly out of sheer shopping laziness. Did you know you can order amazon gift cards that come attached to a new baby card? Just discovered them and totally sold by the convenience.
grapefruit / 4923 posts
i’m big into giving diapers, and to a lesser extent books (i get nervous that they already have it or someone else is going to give it to them)–but diapers i know will get used!
pomegranate / 3414 posts
I always give bigger diapers, I like to give the size 1-2 because DD and DS were both in them for quite awhile.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
I’m a gifter of clothing in larger sizes with the appropriate season in mind. We were gifted some clothes in larger sizes with no thought into the season so some clothes will go unworn.
I agree wipes and diapers are an awesome gift!!
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My fav gift we got was size 18 month bamboo Pjs. So so soft and by that age, they really wore them for a long time.
We cloth diaper so disposables would have been a little insulting in their insinuation.
I often give a wet bag, because they have a million uses, food, and often some home sewn bibs,
honeydew / 7589 posts
I think diapers are tricky though unless you know the person well, because what if they are exclusively cloth diapering (we donated any disposable gifted to us) or are very picky on what brand they use (I know a lot of people will only use natural brands, etc).
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
Great ideas!
I always tell the new parents NOT to write me a thank you note when I bring them a gift for their new baby. I remember being so stressed about having to write so many after I had Liam!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I agree with TinyPerson re: personalized gifts intended for the nursery. I feel badly about the gifts hanging in M’s closet, but there just wasn’t any more room on the walls to hang something safely (out of his reach).
I like to give lactation cookies to nearby friends and I knit a cotton baby hat and put the baby’s name on it for close friends.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
I love gifting gift cards, books, and lactation cookies as well @Mrs. Stroller: !!
blogger / kiwi / 675 posts
i like making personalized gifts, I’ve made a baby blanket and an initial wall art, I dont expect them to be used necessarily just saved.
gift cards are a major plus as well.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I love giving books! Especially ones that have a personal significance.
blogger / clementine / 998 posts
YAy books!
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Some great ideas, but I wouldn’t be so down on getting a friend some lovely newborn outfits, they get through them so quick!
Other than that, I would always say that bringing food is a great idea for a friend with a new arrival, something that they can just pop in the oven to reheat like a stew or casserole. Some lovely home cooking made all the difference for me!
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I’d say one of the best gifts I received after having my son was a giant bag of healthy snacks… for me! There’s not much time to prepare food wyen you’re alone with a newborn.