I went to a friend’s birthday party Saturday night. All the girls in that group of friends don’t have children yet. We got to talking about breastfeeding since everyone was drinking except me, and the topic of “milk let down” came up. These are all married or engaged women in their thirties, but no one knew what that was. That got me to thinking about how I didn’t know what it was before having kids either! In fact I barely knew anything about breastfeeding because I’d never really thought about it until I got pregnant. So I thought I’d write a post about all the wonderful, cool, crazy things I’ve learned about breastfeeding since becoming a mom.
– During pregnancy and after giving birth, you produce colostrum – a thick, yellow, nutrient-dense milk that is a precursor to regular breast milk. Though you may only produce drops, this is all the nutrition that a healthy, full-term baby usually needs in their first couple days of life.
– Although colostrum may be enough for many babies, many moms also find that they need to supplement with formula before their milk comes in.
– A couple of days after giving birth, your milk comes in, whether you had a vaginal birth or a c-section. It’s pretty crazy if you think about it! Murphy Brown said, “It’s like one day discovering you can get bacon out of your elbow.”
– Breastfeeding or pumping releases oxytocin and causes your uterus to contract and shrink after giving birth.
– Breastmilk can be yellow, or even have a blue or green tint (mine is blue).
– Breastfeeding can be very difficult in the beginning for many moms and may not come naturally — something many new moms are not prepared for.
– Breastfeeding can be very painful when your baby doesn’t have a proper latch.
– Your baby should open his mouth wide to take in as much of the aereola as possible to ensure a proper latch.
– Breastmilk doesn’t just come out of one opening – it shoots out of 10-20 openings!
– Newborns nurse 8-12 times a day on average..
– Breastmilk operates on supply and demand. The more often your breasts are empty, the more milk you produce.
– Your baby can smell your breastmilk.
– Breastmilk completely digests in 2 hours. Formula takes longer to digest so formula fed babies may be able to go longer between feedings.
– Engorgement is when your breasts are full of milk, causing them to feel full and sometimes painful.
– Applying cabbage leaves relieves engorgement.
– Breastmilk provides antiobiotic properties for your newborn.
– Breastmilk tastes sweet (yes I’ve tasted it).
– There are other breastfeeding positions than the traditional cradle hold we’re all familiar with. In the beginning, I found the football hold easier to achieve a good latch.
– Nipple shields can help you breastfeed if you have sore, flat, or inverted nipples.
– Frenulectomies (a somewhat controversial procedure) can help babies with tongue ties breastfeed better.
– Breastmilk at the beginning of a breastfeeding session (foremilk) becomes fattier towards the end (hindmilk). This enables babies to self regulate their intake.
– If your baby gets too much high lactose foremilk and not enough hindmilk, it may cause gas, fussiness, and liquidy stools.
– Breastmilk can be stored at room temp (66-78 degrees) for 4-10 hours.
– Offer only one breast at a feeding, or make sure your breast is completely drained before offering the other one so that your baby gets enough hindmilk.
– Breastmilk changes as the day goes on so even though you’re producing less milk, your milk is more nutrient dense.
– Breastmilk changes as your baby gets older, so they don’t need to increase their intake as they get older. Your milk when your baby is 1 month old is different than when your baby is 6 months old.
– When your baby is drinking milk effectively, you can hear them make gulping noises.
– When you “let down” (your milk ejection reflex), your boobs feel tingly and it kinda hurts.
– Both breasts let down when you’re feeding on one side.
– You have multiple let downs when you’re nursing and pumping.
– You have random let downs throughout the day. They can be triggered by looking at a picture of your baby, hearing a baby cry, or for no reason at all!
– You can breastfeed an adopted baby!
– How much you can pump is not indicative of how much milk you’re producing. Your baby is much more effective at removing milk than a pump.
– If you have supply issues or want to produce more milk when you pump, there are many things you can do like pump more often, take More Milk Plus/Fenugreek supplements, or drink Mother’s Milk Tea.
– Getting your period can cause a decrease in milk supply.
– Hormonal birth control can decrease your milk supply.
– Breast size has nothing to do with the amount of milk you can produce. My petite chested friend was a milk factory.
– Bottles shouldn’t be introduced before the first couple weeks of life until breastfeeding patterns are well established so as not to cause nipple confusion. (Olive had many bottles from her first week of life on and has had no problems switching from breast to bottle, but that may not be the case with every baby).
– If you introduce a bottle too late, baby will often reject it and only want to nurse.
– There are many problems women can face while breastfeeding including milk blisters, clogged ducts, mastitis, abcesses, thrush, and staph infections.
– You can take lecithin supplements if you have problems with recurring clogged ducts.
– If you have problems with breastfeeding, you should call a lactation consultant asap. Seriously!
– Breastmilk is very fatty and separates in the fridge. Swirl to mix it. Don’t shake it as that destroys some of breastmilk’s properties.
– Do not microwave breastmilk as it can cause hot spots in the milk.
– Some women have excess lipase in their milk which causes it to taste funny after its been frozen. This can be avoided by heating the milk to scalding (not boiling) before freezing it.
– You can eat anything while you’re breastfeeding unless there is a family history of extreme allergies to a certain food.
– Breastfeeding may reduce your chances of osteoporosis and breast, uterine and ovarian cancer.
– Breastfeeding may increase your child’s IQ, and lower their chance of childhood obesity, ear infections, allergies and asthma.
What crazy, cool, interesting things about breastfeeding have you learned?
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7. Boob Supplies by Mrs. Bee
8. Breastfeeding Twins by Mrs. Train
9. The Breastfeeding Routine by Mrs. Bee
pear / 1639 posts
WoW! I have even had a child, and still didn’t know about 1/2 of that stuff! Thanks for all the info!
pear / 1837 posts
Why should you swirl instead of shaking to mix up breastmilk?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@Lozza: shaking breastmilk destroys some of its properties. here’s a technical explanation here, and i’ll update my post too!
http://www.bflrc.com/ljs/breastfeeding/shakenot.htm
grapefruit / 4400 posts
>>- Cabbage leaves relieve engorgement.
As a snack, or as pasties?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@HabesBabe: lol as pasties. will edit.
pear / 1837 posts
That is exceedingly useful to know. (That was my second thought. My first was “well, @#$%” since I’ve been shaking for 8 months).
Continuing education FTW.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
I had NEVER heard of frenulectomies until LO was born. When she was 2 days old, we went to a breastfeeding clinic because she wasn’t latching at all…And as it turned out, she was “severely tongue-tied.” Poor thing. She got her tongue snipped and even though her tongue doesn’t flail as much as others I’ve seen, her latch is perfect and all is well with the [breastfeeding] world.
pomegranate / 3716 posts
Holy crap, the miracle of life! So many of those facts just blow my mind…
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Wow. So the letdowns are the reasons why women wear pads in their bras to soak up that excess milk. Newborns nurse 8-12 times a day. No wonder new Mom’s are exhausted!!!! Thank you for posting this!!
grapefruit / 4800 posts
I was most surprised by milk coming out in more than one stream when I began nursing. It was so weird, I thought I had unique special boobs at first.
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Two things:
1. You can breastfeed through almost any illness (the antibodies protect your baby)
2. You CAN have a glass of wine or a beer and breastfeed! If you are sober enough to drive, you are sober enough to breastfeed (after the first bit of the newborn’s life)
Lots of great info at kellymom.com!!!
honeydew / 7968 posts
thanks for the info! i was very breastfeeding illiterate.
squash / 13199 posts
How can you tell if one breast is fully drained before switching the baby to the other side?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@Mrsbells: you can offer only one breast at a feeding to make sure your baby is draining it. la leche league actually recommends doing that, but i’m so afraid of clogged ducts that i always offer both. i think after 15 minutes on one side if they still want more, you can offer the other side, but how fast your baby nurses varies from baby to baby, especially when they’re a newborn.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
Thanks for the good info. I didn’t know a lot of that.
kiwi / 623 posts
It’s SO true! People (married or not) only know that “breast is best” when having a baby. Unless they have a close close friend/family member who had a child, they don’t know any more than that! After getting pregnant and reading about BF, my eyes and mind were awaken! Thanks for the post Mrs. Bee!
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
decongestants are a lactation suppressant!
also– RJ is severely tongue-tied (as is Rob Sr) but he never had a problem with his latch. He also doesn’t seem to have problems with his speech yet. Our dentist friend has recommended that both of them come in for frenectomies to reduce drool problems for both
(Rob Sr. only in his sleep! haha.) We may do it in the next year or so.
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Great info, thanks for posting this. I would also highly recommend this book:
http://www.amazon.com/Having-Faith-Ecologists-Journey-Motherhood/dp/0738204676
“Having Faith: An Ecologist’s Journey to Motherhood” by Sandra Steingraber. There’s a ton of eye-opening information about the toxic substances in the environment around us and how they can transfer through breast milk to impact an infant’s health. While a little scary, it’s also tremendously important information for parents to be aware of.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
DH wanted to try some breast milk and he said he could taste/feel small particles in the milk! TMI I know
cherry / 116 posts
My husband refuses to taste my breastmilk, even though I told him it is sweet and delicious! Ha.
Great post, I have learned all of these in the past 3 months of breastfeeding. It’s amazing how biology works to feed our babies.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
The breastfeeding class I took and lactation consultant I saw told me to always offer both breasts at each feeding. But here on Hellobee, I’ve been reading that people are only doing one. My LO always seemed like she wanted both so I guess that worked for us.
I am happy that I know the stuff on this list, even though I did not breastfeed for that long!
pomegranate / 3053 posts
Amazing how much we learn about breastfeeding when we actually do it. I know someone who was able to nurse and drip 5 ounces at the same time. I was SO jealous; but I’m sure she was miserable trying to catch and nurse at the same time. Either way, lots or little BM production it’s both hard! I hope my second time around is better… I hope! But I’m actually pretty doubtful. At least I know better, I think!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
Thanks so much for this post! Soooooo informative!
grapefruit / 4049 posts
I was skeptical about nipple confusion at first, but I did see it a little with my 2nd baby. After getting a few bottles in the hospital, she would have a hard time latching on to the breast. Luckily for us, I persevered and she took the breast again after some “training”.
The way babies latch on to bottles and breast are different mechanisms. It is also common to see babies refuse bottles for this reason.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@NYCaliMama: i’m sure it exists! most of the moms i know seem to have problems with baby refusing bottles though than the other way around.
kiwi / 718 posts
if you want to dry your supply up, you can use cabbage leave, too – just leave em on for a while & change them out every so often & they’ll make it go away.
I’m happy that I knew most everything that you listed. I also just went to our hospital’s bfing class about a week & a half ago
persimmon / 1135 posts
My mom said that, when she was nursing her let down could be triggered by horns- like the brass section of a big band. I remember her warning one of my bridesmaids to be careful because we were having a big band at our wedding and this BM was nursing. So strange!
grapefruit / 4049 posts
@Mrs. Bee: Yes, usually I don’t hear moms say, “Baby had nipple confusion”. But I do hear alot of, “Baby had a bad latch” instead… and now I wonder how many of those situations could be (or partially be) attributed to bottles/pacis given prior to established bf’ing.
I also didn’t know…
– that a large majority of bf’ing problems are largely related to improper latch.
– that side-sleeping could cause clogged ducts
– some moms use breastmilk on baby acne or for some infant eye conditions!
– you can still breastfeed while pregnant with another child
– night-weaning alone can increase the chances of your fertility returning/getting pregnant
– you can still track ovulation while bf’ing (reportedly it’s a challenge, but still possible)
– breastmilk has different properties in it when produced in the morning vs at night!
pea / 17 posts
WOW, our bodies truly are amazing!
pomegranate / 3045 posts
So interesting!! Thank you!
cherry / 174 posts
Wow these tips are so helpful! I didn’t know that you had to swirl the breastmilk and that the beginning and end of feeding is different kind of milk! Thanks so much
persimmon / 1255 posts
Great list, learned a couple of new things
From personal experience, too much foremilk vs. hindmilk can sometimes make your baby’s poo neon green.
coffee bean / 37 posts
Out of all the above, the thing I am taking from this is “Breastmilk can be yellow, or even have a blue or green tint (mine is blue).”
I am shocked at the thought of (possibly) having blue tinted breastmilk – major OMG
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
I totally had no idea about the no-shaking rule. So, from now on, it’s James Bond in reverse: “Stirred, not shaken.”
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I love this! I am breastfeeding my second, now, and the thing that surprised me the most was the milk coming from more than one opening! I about threw up the first time I saw a milk droplet form way out to the side. Now, I get it.
Also, I would say that even if the baby is latching correctly, it can hurt a lot at the beginning. My babies were both voracious eaters at birth (sometimes called a piranha latch), so it hurt badly. There was a period of about 2 weeks where each breastfeeding session started with a sharp inhalation of breath on my part. If you can handle it, I would suggest keeping at it, because it does get better, even if your baby is a piranha!
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re: let down….not everyone feels letdown, just FYI. I don’t feel it at all — never have. Not feeling it, though, is not indicative of a problem, some of us just don’t feel it happen.
Also, I TOTALLY agree with @Erika. Everyone tells you that breastfeeding shouldn’t hurt and that if it does, you’re doing something wrong. That is not always true. It felt painful for me the first week, even though we had no problems with latch. I used Tender Care Lanolin by Medela and it helped immensely.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@courtney – interesting about the let down! i can feel mine so strongly.
@erika – it makes sense that takes a little while for your nipples to toughen up in the beginning. oddly i didn’t have any soreness with olive. but they were cracked and painful with charlie!
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
Great list, I knew I wanted to breastfeed, but literally had nightmares about it after I read the first chapter in my book about inverted nipples. So I winged it all and let nature take its course. I totally wish I had read this list before!
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This is SO helpful. I’m due in 4.5 weeks (!) and some of the things I’ve been pushing aside in my mind have been coming up and breastfeeding is one of them. I keep thinking if I don’t have strong expectations I won’t be disappointed, but this was so interesting to read!
pear / 1510 posts
Milk blister? Fantastic.
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Breastfeed babies are also less likely to be fussy eaters. The taste of your milks changes with everything you eat so your baby gets several different taste. A formula fed baby has the same taste over and over which can make it harder for them to be open to a new taste.
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This is my second time breastfeeding and I still had soreness in the beginning two weeks or so, but I found that if I put some breast milk on my nipples after feeding it relieved a lot of the pain and actually helped heal my nipples for the next feeding.
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My babe was 4 weeks early with tongue tie. One surgeon told me she needed general anesthesia for the procedure. I sought 2nd opinion and they did it In 5 min start to finish. We nursed immediately after the procedure-no blood and no tears once she got her boob. She is now 16 months and still nursing.
My secret to an abundant supply was from day 1, nurse then pump for at least 20min immediately after nursing (repeat every hour). I offered the breast constantly. Lastly, healthcare providers do not emphasize enough, the importance of high fluid intake-LOTS OF WATER!. I had two deep freezers full. We are now using milk frozen from last January. I had to tell the day care to stop giving water and only give milk so we could use it before it goes bad.
It’s much easier t o give up than to struggle through the self doubt and sometimes pain (not to mention intense post partum hormones and emotions). But if you remind yourself of all the reasons listed above, carry on as if there is no other option, and your pain is her gain, you might just see the light at the end of the tunnel-a long successful and fulfilling journey that is breastfeeding.
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A lot of these are great, but I would not recommend supplementing with formula while your milk comes in. You may make new mothers think its necessary by posting it here. A newborns tummy can only hold mLs at this time and no supplementation is needed. This could cause supply issues by offering bottle instead of breast, which can ultimately lead to a failed breastfeeding relationship.
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Re: don’t microwave breastmilk- it’s
More about the damage you do to the immune system antibodies found in breast milk than the hot spots.
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DO NOT USE NIPPLE SHIELDS!!! Unless there is no other option do not use them! They slow your milk production due to lack of stimulation! My first nurse or two helped me get a good latch but the next nurse just threw a shield at me and made me use it then read and sign a waiver that stated it could slow milk production! I was furious and couldn’t make enough to keep up with my new baby boy!!! DO NOT USE THEM!!!
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Great article! I’ve breastfed my son 13 months now and still learned a thing or two. Just wanted to add that there are other benefits to the frenulectomy procedure you mentioned. My husband’s mother was told that he was a candidate, but did not explain the benefits… he had to be in speech therapy though the fifth grade! Apparently, if your child is tongue tied enough for it to effect his feeding, it will also effect his speech later. My son had the procedure and did not even cry… it was harder on me watching than anything!
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My daughter is 2 weeks old, and I am breastfeeding. First of all Fenugreek works and is awesome. My nipples were so sore the first week. She had no issues latching on. I noticed my right nipple would bleed a tiny bit when I would feed her. When she was 5 days old, I fed her on both sides. About 2 hours later she began spitting up large amounts of bright red blood. Of course I freaked out. I thought it could be from my nipple….but there was so much and it was so red. We went to the ER, and sure enough….it was from my nipple. When she sucked, she drew more blood from the nipple (there wasn’t much when she wasn’t sucking….it was just irritated). They told us babies cant digest blood, so she digested the milk, but the blood remained. I pumped that side until it healed. However she has yet to feed on that side since then. She takes the left breast without a problem….but refuses the right breast. The lactation specialist said its very common for the nipples to bleed and babies to spit up blood. I just wanted to share my experience. Like I said…..there wasn’t a lot of blood…maybe a drop or 2…but her sucking drew it out. I immediately went out and bought breast shields by Medela. They keep your nipples dry and protected. That made them toughen up and heal.
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“Although colostrum may be enough for many babies, many moms also find that they need to supplement with formula before their milk comes in.”- Why? This will decrease the mother’s supply when a baby takes a supplement instread of the breast.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@sally – a couple of our bloggers have blogged about their little ones losing more than 10% of their birth weight when they didn’t supplement with formula because colostum alone wasn’t enough. some moms may withhold formula when their babies really need it.
yes you should put baby to breast as often as possible to stimulate your supply, but you can also pump when you supplement.
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Supplementing with formula (on the bad advice of a nurse) is what cost me my milk production with my first child. I will NEVER do that again. It’s not a need, and it will decrease your supply.
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I’ve BF’ed both of my girls. I supplemented with both. The first time it wrecked my supply, but I had no help from a Lactation Consultant. I started with a bottle in the hospital and never built my supply. I had no education. With my 2nd, I sought out the help of an LC before DD was born. In the hospital, DD was severely jaundice and my milk was very slow to come in so they suggested a small tube that was slid into my DD’s mouth while she was latched. That way she was receiving my colostrum, was receiving formula, and was also telling my brain to keep producing. It worked well. I had a terrible experience with my oldest and was kind of dreading it with the 2nd. My 2nd DD was BFed exclusively for a year. She wouldn’t take a bottle for anything. I couldn’t pump much anyways so it worked out, but she gained weight like crazy so we knew there was no problem.
This list is great! I laughed as I read through them because I remember being freaked out by more than one stream of milk, and the color of it. I thought there was something wrong with me! The truth is that every person is different, every baby is different. These are great pieces of information to use to help you do what’s best for you and your baby! DH and I are considering having a 3rd, and oddly enough, BFing is one of the things I’m looking forward to the most!
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Great list! I had never heard the swirl not shake bit. Though pumping was not very effective for me, so it didn’t matter, much.
I BF’d two babies, but had to work hard for it. I made enough, but not a lot, of milk. Fenugreek does help, as does extra water. One thing I never knew was that some women just don’t respond well to pumping. The MOST I’ve ever pumped was 2.5 ounces/side. That was in a morning, and replacing a feeding (pumping bc I was working.) Morning, night, different pumps, different phlanges, sizes, environments… pumping just is hard for me.
So I learned not to feel guilty. Every bit of breastmilk is precious. If you have to supplement with formula, don’t feel bad, you aren’t hurting your baby. It was worth all the work. It’s so EASY when it works right… no temperature worries, no sterilizing, always ready when baby is… a miracle!
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I am pumping now that I am back at work and I am washing my pump parts after each session. It makes for a very long process, can someone explain how refrigeration works? I can find detailed instructions anywhere. Thanks!
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You mentioned that if you intruduce the bottle to babies too late they will want only to be BF. What should be the proper timer to introduce the bottle to babies?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@krys – here’s a post i wrote about it:
http://www.hellobee.com/2012/03/08/my-pumping-strategy/
@sonia – everyone has a different take. most say that you should wait until breastfeeding is well established. some say wait until one month. i personally don’t believe in nipple confusion as i know tons of babies that rejected bottles rather than the other way around. i introduced a bottle on day 1, and i’d suggest introducing it early…. within the first two weeks for sure.
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I nursed my single for 15 months and my twins for 18 months. To build up my storage, I learned with my single to pump on one side while she nursed on the other simultenously (but don’t exclusively pump on one side and nurse on the other). I did this for her first feeding in the morning, and through all those I would miss while I was gone. The balancing act was an invaluble lesson learned for when I had my twins; you can’t feed one while the other waits. For them, the double football hold was invaluble. Additionally, it was when they were in the NICU that I learned about fenugreek. The nurses started calling me Betsey, and eventually told me to stop bringing my milk in because they had way more than enough.
blogger / persimmon / 1220 posts
Does this mean it’s not worth it to pump/freeze early milk and give it to them months later if you’re going back to work? I feel like many moms do this! (I never breastfed long enough to know any of this useful information.)
grapefruit / 4235 posts
When my friends were asking me what breastfeeding was like, I was telling them about my overactive letdown. This is actually the best image (and hilarious) i could find to explain it to them:
http://weknowmemes.com/2013/02/calm-your-tits-statue/
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@Mrs Checkers: i just mixed old milk with new milk so that it was nutritionally appropriate. you can’t waste breastmilk!
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My facts: you can hand express by squeezing the area around the nipple.
if you squirt b.milk up the baby’s nose, it will clear the ‘snuffles’, it can also clear ‘sticky eye’.
hand expressing during the last few weeks of pregnancy can give you a supply of colostrum should your baby require it
cheers for all your fabulous facts. didn’t know the stuff about your period, that explains why my bubba gets grumpy or the milk becoming more nutrient rich – wowzas!!
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RE: supplementing with formula during the first days of life. I see some women claiming that if you supplement, you will lose your supply, breastfeeding will be unsuccessful, etc. Let me tell you, when you are a FTM, putting a 1 to 3 day-old baby to the breast 12-14X/day, and he is still screaming in hunger afterward, a tiny bit of formula can save your sanity. My son’s urine was even turning to that “brick-dust” reddish color because he was getting so dehydrated. My milk didn’t come in until LATE in the day on his 4th day of life. I would nurse him until he unlatched himself, then top off with 5-10 ml of formula. I only did this a total of three times before my milk came in. I was in tears, feeling like I was starving my son, and this little bit of formula helped us both. Since that 4th day of my son’s life, he has not gotten even one more drop of formula and is EBF. Oh, and he has gone from 7lb 3oz at birth to 14 lbs at almost 3 months old. I would say my milk supply did NOT suffer from that bit of formula he got when he was a newborn!
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Another option if you don’t want to supplement with formula or introduce a bottle right away is to use a supplemental nursing system (SNS) with donated breasted milk. The SNS has a reservoir attached to a tube that you tape to your nipple so your LO gets supplemented while nursing. Medela makes the one that we used; the hospital provided it but we had to specifically ask for it. We went this route with our newborn using donor milk, since my milk took almost a week to come in. We purchased the donor milk directly from the hospital and it was expensive but we didn’t need much to fill her little belly.
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I was told by my lactation consultants that heating breastmilk past room temp causes the nutrients to be destroyed, so how can you get it to scalding before freezing it?
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a nipple shield was a life saver for us. With inverted nipples my Lo couldn’t stay latched. We ended up using a shield every time until she self weined at 18 months. I was warned it could decrease supply or mess with the creation of antibodies but we did great and had no supply issues due to the shield. Without it I totally would have given up!!
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My daughter just turned 15 months old and has decided she’s no longer interested in nursing. Which is fine, because I’m 5 months pregnant with baby #3! I had planned on nursing her at least to 15 months, and this baby was a surprise! It all worked out in the end!
I am a huge believer of using breastfeeding milk for just about everything. Baby and adult acne, pink eye, ear infections (my son had multiple ear infections despite being breastfeeding fed),diaper rash, cuts, burns, sick bellies, you name it! I keep some frozen just for medical purposes. A few drops in an infected ear and it clears up in about 24-48 hours. The only thing we can’t use it on that I know of is thrush. I should also mention that if you develop nipple thrush, you should not store pumped milk until the thrush is gone. It can transfer to the milk and freezing it will not kill the thrush bacteria.
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I’m confused why you say there’s a reason to supplement before milk comes in. I’ve never heard that before, colostrum is absolutely enough the first few days.
http://www.lalecheleague.org/faq/colostrum.html
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It has been almost 20 years since I last breastfed and I’m sure alot has changed but they are telling my daughter not to clean her baby’s saliva off her nipples after feeding because it sends the body mixed signals on how much antibodies to produce for baby. Am I wrong for thinking these people are crazy?
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I know this is an old post but I wanted to add that breastfeeding is a major confidence game. It took me a long time to realize that having faith in my body helped it work the way it’s supposed to! With my first baby I stressed over everything related to breastfeeding, probably because we had a rough start. She was tongue tied (but I didn’t know until she was 3 months old) so nursing was super painful and difficult the first several weeks, and she lost over 10% of her birth weight the first week so I felt guilty like I was starving her. With the help of a lactation consultant we finally got the hang of it, had the tongue tie diagnosed and got the frenulectomy, but still I worried over my supply all the time. I pumped so zealously at work I ended up with an oversupply and frequent blocked ducts. Every time I worried about getting blocked ducts I would end up with one. Every time I stressed over supply I’d notice a dip in supply. But once I gained confidence and realized how the demand/supply thing worked, everything kinda regulated and I stopped having issues.
Now I have a 9 month old son and even though I had a few issues with breastfeeding again in the beginning (this time mastitis), I was grateful for the prior experience because I stressed a LOT less about it. Seriously it’s true that if you don’t worry too much about your supply it’ll probably be fine. If you’re producing enough for your baby that’s all you need, any extra isn’t needed and can be a problem. I haven’t had issues with oversupply, blocked ducts or mastitis since he was a newborn and we are still going strong.
Long story short, don’t stress too much over breastfeeding! Chances are great that your body will do what it’s supposed to do, once you get past that learning curve